01/03/2021
Wise words from an animal rescue I enjoy following. Give their page a view. Their updates are wonderful ❤
Advice for other rescuers!
This is me in 2006. I was ten years into building and running a wildlife rescue, still learning from the animals, still struggling to get through each day ensuring no one fell through the cracks.
I have learned so much since then. I am still learning every day. I wish I could have a conversation with that rehabber back in 1996 when she began and hand her my hard won wisdom and save her so much struggle, but I cannot. I can however share some of what I have learned with those who are struggling or just starting out.
#1 Build an open network with your peers!
Having relationships with people who do what you do is vital to the survival of your rescue. Share information, resources, supplies and help and you will also share the load. Any form of animal rescue should not be a competition. There is plenty of need to go around. Avoid engaging with those who make it a competition. Any rescuer who publicly disparages the efforts of another rescuer is not putting the animals first as it is always the animals that pay the price when a rescue fails. Keep in mind that sometimes all a floundering rescue needs is help, not criticism and that could be you one day. Don't be a jerk. Step up if you can, but don't make the situation worse for them. (If there is a real situation of neglect or abuse, report it quietly and let authorities handle it.)
#2 Know your limits and set your boundaries!
SO important! You have a limited amount of time and resources to contribute to caring for the animals you accept. Going without sleep and destroying your own finances does not make you more dedicated. It makes your longevity to help unstable. This is when you have to learn to "stay in your lane" and avoid taking in animals outside of your mission's guidelines. For me, my first boundary was to decline taking in domestic or exotic animals who were healthy owner turnovers. If the animals were safe and cared for, I would simply help find a home. I began a FB page called "Green Country Domestic Network" to refer people to. It has worked perfectly for many years. My second boundary was to decline imprinted wild animals who were no longer suitable for release. It saved a ton of money, time, frustration and danger for me and my crew.
It is HARD to decline help to an animal, but if you know you cannot help the situation for the animal, avoid extending resources you need for the ones who have no one but you to care for them to save a person from a poor decision. Offer support, advice and direction and avoid taking on someone else's problem. You have enough of your own.
#3 Learn from your mistakes!
You will make mistakes until you die because we are all always learning. Accept that, and do better. I look back at old photos and footage of myself and am often mortified. In the beginning, it was my connection with the wildlife that lured me in. Eventually I learned that my connection was harmful to them and should be avoided so wildlife stay wild. We don't always know what we do not know. Check yourself constantly and be open to learn from others. Wisdom comes from experience and delivery is everything. Share your hard won wisdom, but always keep in mind; Being right is secondary to being effective. If you teach in an offensive manner, you have wasted an opportunity to help someone else learn from you, and an animal lost your help. Again, don't be a jerk. Teach don't preach!
#4 Toss the bad apples or lose them all!
If you are fortunate enough to have help, don't allow anyone to run their own agenda within your space for the animals in your care. Granted, (I say this all the time!) "Animal people are not always people people" and that is a fact, but everyone who works together must work as a team or the animals will suffer in the end for it. None of us need help so badly that we should suffer through someone taking the attention from the animals and creating drama. The environment in any rescue needs to be peaceful, positive and supportive. The animals feel your energy. Wild or domestic. When people are apprehensive, animals follow suit.
I would rather have no help than grumpy help. Send the grumpies packing and protect your care environment and find yourself a Kimmi McKenzie to keep morale up! :)
#5 Be transparent.
Sure we all have losses we don't want to talk about because we are fighting a daily battle to keep our focus on the ones that we can help, but hiding losses or failures, even from your own mistakes, can be damaging to your reputation and a successful rescue is ALL about reputation. Share the situation honestly and move on from it. If it hurts to talk about and people keep dragging your back to the pain, have someone else handle the endless questions. Protect your focus and morale and let someone who isn't emotionally affected handle the rest. Your belief in yourself is paramount. Protect it!
#6 Avoid needing in excess.
This is a touchy one and something I've always known. I began my efforts believing I could fund it myself and did so for many years. It was only when I had no choice but to accept help to keep going that I applied for non profit status, and I am grateful for every penny that I don't have to work away from here to have for the animals and I take nothing for granted.
Every dime you raise is a dime that is unavailable to another need. Always keep that in mind and avoid being greedy. I care as much about the animals in the hands of others as I do about those in mine. Keep it in perspective. It's not a competition.
#7 Take care of yourself!
Killing yourself to save others is a very real threat. Youth was on my side for many years as I worked 20 hour days and cared for tens of thousands of wild animals. I miss my youth and I wish I could have a do-over to protect myself from myself.
Years of self neglect and overdoing it catch up to you and if you don't have a strong support team, the animals will suffer for it. I am fortunate to have the team I have, but I wish I could go back in time and take better care of me while I cared for so many.
Creating a world where so many depend on you and not taking care of yourself IS self sacrificing, but in the long run, is unfair. It is unfair to the animals who depend on you as well as the people who support you. If you're going to be stupid, make sure you have enough capable people to pick up the slack. Period.
#8 Protect your morale!
If you lead like you are burned out and fed up, all who follow you will follow you to 'burned out and fed up'. Squash the problems, avoid confrontations, ignore the gossip and keep your mind on the work. Remind yourself why you started. Make time to be alone with the animals to refocus and recharge yourself. Don't let people suck the life out of you. Find inspiration every single day and never ever let anyone else tell you who you are. The only opinion of you that matters comes from the animals in your care. If they are happy, content and cared for, you are doing your job.
#9 Last but far from least; Show appreciation to those who help you do what you do!
Your volunteers have PLENTY of other things to do besides clean p**p and care for your charges. Remember that. Every dollar that comes in is a dollar someone besides you had to work for. Remember that.
Once upon a time you decided to help, and eventually you needed help in order to keep helping. Those who help you help others are the lifeblood of your identity and mission. Make sure they understand what that means to you. If you don't make the time to appreciate them, they may find someone who will.
Yes, it can be exhausting to be grateful 24/7, but keep in mind what it would be like without their help and find the time and energy. You speak on behalf of the animals in your care and your voice should never fade.
I hope something here resonates with someone. If I can help anyone move forward in their efforts, stronger for my lessons, I am truly blessed for having learned them, even the hard ones.
"Even the rescuers suffer the same" ;)
Annette