03/01/2024
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After a little bit of a social media break over the holidays, I am welcomed to 2024 with death threatsā¦
I was going to make a really nice New Yearās resolution post, but letās go with this, instead. I think thereās some wisdom, here.
Iām just a homeschooled farmerās daughter from rural Nebraska.
Since I was a kid, besides being a voracious reader, the internet has been a big part of educating myself and staying connected.
It has allowed me to meet people and learn things that I otherwise never would have.
Since starting this page a dozen or so years ago, there have been growing pains, but Iāve learned to take the bad with the good.
Vitriol is not what I was expecting when I logged on this morning, but I find myself completely unbothered by it.
I can finally meet it with peace, and that is a wonderful way to start 2024.
A video from a few months ago showing my horse carrying a spade bit apparently went viral in the last 12 hours, and I woke up to a lot of abusive comments on how abusive I was being.
Itās ok.
I get it.
I love that people are invested in horsesā well-being.
Iām not going to get defensive, because Iāve totally been there. Iāve felt that.
But Iāve also felt what the horse has to say about it.
Once we feel that, and decide to base our decisions and assuredness off that, and that alone, things change.
As always, I will be setting boundaries around the interactions on this page.
I had some people jump on and defend me and become abusive themselves.
Please donāt do that.
The work I do with my horses is all the defense I need.
Iām sharing this picture of my spade bit horse being ridden bridleless, not to defend myself, but as food for thought.
As we enter 2024, my wish is for us to handle not just our horses, not just ourselves, but one another, with grace.
You see, change starts with connection.
For horses, and for people.
If we want to build understanding, we canāt do that by force.
As we go into 2024, I know a lot of us are unsure how much we want to share.
Like I said in a recent post, lightness needs an audience.
I hope we all feel a little braver sharing this year.
The horses need us to.
They need us to have the difficult discussions, and they need us to keep moving forward TOGETHER.
āFirst you go with the horse. Then the horse goes with you. Then you go together."
- Tom Dorrance.
I think that goes for people, too.
If youāve been here awhile, thank you. If youāre new here, welcome.
Iām so looking forward to sharing this year with you all. š