06/11/2025
BECAUSE THE COMMENTS HAVE ALREADY STARTED - suggesting that weâre adding to Monroeâs suffering by not euthanizing him today, I want to say, from the human side of this work, that these moments are incredibly hard.
Itâs easy to judge from the safety of a screen. Itâs easy to think that only young or âfixableâ horses are worthy of saving, or that spending money on palliative care is wasteful. But those thoughts come easier when you havenât stood in front of a horse like Monroe, looked into his eyes, and promised, Iâm here for you. No one else was, but I am.
Our long-time followers already know this: we do make the hard decisions when itâs time. Youâve been there with us through those tearful goodbyes, and you know that our pledge is, and always will be, to the horse in front of us. Never to the noise online.
And Iâll say this plainly: it is deeply insulting to our veterinarians to suggest that you know better, or that theyâre prolonging an animalâs life for money. Our vets are the ones standing beside us when we make the hardest calls. They have hugged me as I sobbed, they have checked on me when they knew I took a loss particularly hard. They are scientists, healers, and empaths in one, working in a profession with one of the highest su***de rates and a nationwide shortage that grows worse every year. To accuse them of greed in the same breath as questioning their compassion is disgusting, and it shows a complete misunderstanding of what veterinary medicine actually is.
Itâs not lost on me that 9.9 times out of 10, the loudest critics are people who have never donated, never volunteered, and never planned to. So I find myself wondering... why? Whatâs the point of criticizing a charity that is clearly working with a veterinarian to do the best it can for an animal in need?
I wish I could say the negativity doesnât bother me, but it does. Because this work is done with heart... not ego, not profit, just heart.
To those who continue to stand with us, to trust us, to support horses like Monroe: thank you. Your compassion makes this work possible.
You can follow Monroeâs progress or support his care at www.redfeatherfarmnc.org.