31/08/2025
A question on Denny Emerson's page brought back a memory to me, I worked at Radnor Hunt in the late 80's - early 90's. There was a pony club H/J show so I wandered down to watch it. The people there were so snooty 🙄
I specifically remembered one kid, with a pony I would have sold bone marrow to have, completely breaking down and, I remember her clearly, saying, "I NEED a better pony,THIS one keeps getting reds!!" Said pony reaches down to grab some grass and the kid kicked it in the face (not hard but still 🫤). Had that been me with my mom, we would have been out of there as soon as the whine started. Had I kicked the pony, she would have had the pony GONE by Monday and the next time I would be able to show any horse would be when my JOB allowed me to afford it 😒
My mom brooked ZERO spoiled behavior 🤷🏼♀️
Literally the same day, some of the barn (workers) went to a local event show down the road. As I walked near the trailers a girl, approximately the same age as the other one, came bouncing up on a mid sized POA saying to her either her mom or her trainer, "We flubbed the dressage, but that was the BEST we ever jumped the water jump!"
Were these singular examples? Of course, but guess which discipline had (has) me thinking it builds better horsemen/women and far better sportsmanship? 🤔🤷🏼♀️