15/12/2021
Best Iâve heard in a long time. 100% agree!
Apparently my "come to Jesus meeting" method of raising well-behaved foals has caused someone to have wadded up panties. But, I will explain it one more time. #1 - this is MY method, it does not have to be yours, but you go ahead and let that 200 pound donkey/mule/horse baby nip, kick and push you around and you will rue the day when it is a 1,200 - 1,600 pound animal - and let's add intact stud to that too. #2 - how do animals communicate non-verbally? Body language, and quick and decisive reaction to an unwanted action by another of their own.
I am the alpha bitch here. Period. I am the head of the hierarchy. Period. As such, it is my job to teach the babies boundaries. I do not carry around a whip. I do not carry around a crop. I do not carry around a 2 X 4. Nope, it is the animals and me, and the only thing I have to use to reprimand the babies is my hands, feet and voice. IF I have a feed bucket or grooming tool in my hand, that will be used too. I have been in mid-sentence with a visitor when a baby will sneak up behind me and nip at my back, my reaction is swift and short - it HAS to be. Whipping around and using my hand to smack the dog snot out of them on the closest body part - which usually is the nose and going after them for about ten feet yelling "No, no..and NO!" stops that behavior in its tracks. The baby usually stands there looking all bewildered, but then they think - you can see it happening, if you are astute enough to know it when you see it. They have a choice to stand there, turn and go to their Mama for comfort or come back to me like a polite baby, and all is forgiven, and forgotten, for that transgression. It does not mean that the same will not be repeated when necessary. THIS is the action that they would receive from another herdmate for their obnoxious behavior, so why would I not behave the same way as another equine? I am just built different than an equine. I am NOT going to hurt that baby - ha, I am an old lady, I am the one more likely to get hurt. That baby is not going to be "hand-shy", anymore than a puppy you catch crapping on your rug that you smack and throw outside would be - they are immediately chastised, and forgiven after the lesson is taught.
Baby Jubilee was the first baby (horse/mule/donkey) to ever kick me at a day old. I was stunned, and whacked the closest thing I could immediately get my hands on, which happened to be her butt. Later that day she got a butt rub - all had been forgiven and forgotten. Has she ever kicked again? No. Do I think that she, as a one day old, actually learned anything from that little interaction? I can't tell you, but they do learn from the minute they are born, so maybe she did. The bottom line is that having a physical reaction to misbehavior by animals is not a bad thing. In many cases it is absolutely necessary - and the only way to get the point across. Their herdmates are not going to tolerate inappropriate behavior and they need to know that humans won't either.
~Deb Collins Kidwell~