17/07/2024
How to raise a confident, well socialized, non-reactive, low anxiety puppy.
There are a lot of myths out there about puppy socialization but with decades of experience between my husband and I here at Stormy Hill we have some rock-solid recommendations for all of our puppy families.
When you take your puppy home DO NOT rush to the nearest pet store, dog park, or playground. First and foremost your puppy needs to complete a series of puppy vaccinations that usually requires 4 doses ending between 15-18 weeks depending on your veterinarian's vaccine schedule. IT IS NOT SAFE to take your puppy into these types of environments until they have been fully vaccinated against several diseases, paramount being Parvo.
Parvo kills puppies.
I often hear people say they are concerned that by waiting until 15-18 weeks they will have an unsocialized puppy. This comment is because people are ill informed about what puppy socialization is actually all about.
So, how do you socialize a puppy properly?
Starting from the moment you take the puppy home your puppy needs to be exposed to different experiences. This does not mean other dogs and people at first. Think of it this way, you want your puppy to bond with your immediate family and your household so the first week or two home your puppy is going to be getting used to your routines, your environment, your home's smells, sounds, and objects in their environment. It is not uncommon for a puppy to go into a new home and show signs of fear of certain objects, while social media posts love to highlight the hilarious things that dogs can be fearful of (plastic bag, salt shaker, vacuum cleaner, step stool) these fears if left unhandled root in creating an anxious dog.
NEVER coddle your puppy when you notice it is afraid of something that is NOT dangerous (again with the step stool and salt shaker). Use this as an opportunity to repeatedly expose your puppy to the thing that has startled them or caused them to show some level of anxiety. Very calmly take your pup by the collar and slowly bring the item to them or them to the item. If puppy cowers just reassure them that all is well and they are fine, you can treat them once they ease and show signs of relaxing. Do this repeatedly for a few days and you will be amazed.
Look for new experiences in your home on a daily basis. Expose them to different noises, (alarm clock, container with a lid and beans inside, clanging pots and pans) Expose them to different surfaces (carpet, concrete, wood, grass, gravel, and any slick surface you can come across). Expose them to different sensations (being rolled onto their back, lightly pressing in between their toes, clapping near them) Take walks around your neighborhood but don't stop at the local park and let kids swarm your dog (again with the vaccination schedule not being completed yet)
Once you go outside of your immediate environment (again after all vaccinations are completed) Take your dog to parks with children, just make sure to start working on a "sit" command in these environments so puppy starts to learn to sit when approached by random kids. Take your puppy to places like Lowes or Home depot (YES they allow pups and love having them) These environments are the PERFECT places to allow your puppy to start experiencing weird noises, objects, and surfaces. Think about it, there are forklifts, strange inflatables, big buckets of paint, stacks of carpets, aisles of lights/fans and so many smells. Doing a 10 minute walkthrough of a variety of aisles on a weekly or biweekly basis while reassuring your pup in any scenario where he/she seems concerned will do WONDERS for proper socialization.
We DO NOT recommend dog parks EVER. The reason being you have no idea what level of obedience, socialization, reactivity, or aggression the random dogs there have or have not had. We prefer planned playdates with other dogs if you desire. Find a friend, a neighbor, a relative and allow your dogs to become acquainted with and play with that dog.
SPECIAL NOTE: For those considering therapy work in the future with your dog, when walking your dog out and about encourage your dog to pay no attention to other dogs when passing. If you stop to chat with someone who also has a dog that is one thing but don't encourage random approaching of other dogs as this can be a behavior that is hard to retrain later (just imagine that everytime your dog sees another they get all riled up and want to wrestle/play, now imagine trying to pass a certification test where your dog is constantly tugging and pulling at the lead to get to other dogs for a romp while you are trying to calmly walk through a crowd).
People often comment on our stud, Red, he is not afraid of anything, he is not reactive when passing other animals, he is incredibly obedient and never shows signs of anxiety. He became this way after an intense amount of socialization, obedience training, and good dog handling. Puppies are not born like this. These are all things that you have some level of control over as the puppy owner. Get them off to a great start from the moment you get your puppy home and if you are not a skilled trainer, be sure to enroll in obedience classes as soon as your puppy completes their vaccination schedule.
Golden Retriever breeder located in SW Ohio specializing in hunt performance and therapy dog lines.