31/08/2023
Your horse is not giving you a hard time, he is having a hard time.
When we shift our mindset about the behavior of our horses from that of negativity (he's being bad, being ignorant, being stupid) to difficulty (he doesn't understand, he's physically unable, he's anxious, he's confused), we're able to break the cycle of punishing the behavior and instead start helping our horses overcome their struggle.
This can, and should be applied to even the smallest of tasks such as:
Standing square - physical discomfort and/or imbalance, regardless of whether it stems from the body or feet, could make this seemingly simple task impossible for the horse.
Haltering - Pain in the poll, dental issues, tension, pinched nerves or discomfort anywhere around the head/neck could make even wearing a halter painful.
Picking up feet - Again, any imbalances or dysfunction in the body could make it seem like your horse "doesn't like" having their feet picked up/held up, but in reality the horse either physically can't offer you the foot at all, or for more than a few seconds.
Grooming - Biting, shying, pinning ears while grooming are clear indications of discomfort in the body, and can even be warning signs for ulcers.
We've said it before and we will say it again, regardless of how simple of an ask you believe it to be, every answer your horse gives you is the right one. That doesn't mean it's the answer that you want, but it's the answer you need in order to help your horse, and most of the time it's a pain issue, not a training issue.
Not to mention, letting a horse "buck it out/sacking out" is in no way a form of training. It is dangerous, it is abusive, it is as far from training as bicycles are to F1 racing. With social media full of abusers "training" horses by flooding them and calling it desensitizing, to jumping on a horse nowhere near ready for a rider and causing the horse to panic and risk injuring itself and the rider, we as an industry need to call out the BS.