05/09/2024
So many folks are dumping their animal companions in the DFW area. I believe a lot of this is cost/income driven.
Now…everyone has very different levels of what they believe commitment is and when to toss in the towel. Some of us are ride or die and other’s emotions change on a dollar bill…. Or perhaps any other inconvenience.
Love and life are both complicated.
There have been so many times that having the love and companionship of an animal family member has really helped me from going totally dark during a very rough time.
Like any relationship, there are costs involved…costs in time, money, frustration and grief.
There’s also immense joy, educational opportunities , spiritual growth, depth, love and communion. I wouldn’t be who I am now without my furs. I’ve learned so much!
Our household switched some financial gears recently and, congruently, we’ve been exploring what, in reality, CAN be covered with just what I bring in…and for how long! As we continue knocking out mortgage debt, plan forward, scale further back and right size again, what’s left over? What’s gained? What’s necessary or truly wanted and what did we let go of that we really don’t miss?
We did a HUGE scale back in 2018 when I left Corporate America. Now we further shift our attention.
One recommendation was to get rid of our animal companions.
Well, should someone dump their human child that’s too difficult or expensive? Should we dump the aging parent we care for? To me, all of this is the same question and discussion, a discussion about those dependent upon us, and about who we are at our core…how we feel about and respect family, what family…what that word means to us, what the word family evokes in us, and what taking on responsibility means as well.
What does family mean to you? It’s personal and different from one person to the next.
Is responsibility always convenient? Is love always convenient? Is family always convenient? ( Hint:No!)
When my mother was forced, by Juliette Fowler homes, to give up her dog, Alexa, over a STUPID situation, she immediately slid into early dementia.
And there was no changing the course of things after such a dire blow.
What we know is that emotional trauma and distress can slide us into dementia, particularly as we age. So it’s best to avoid unnecessary stress and focus on positive thoughts and feelings and plans. It’s also best to hold to loved ones that absolutely love you back. And keep your sense of humour!
Animal companions provide real, true and steady love, unconditionally. No judgment. It’s pure and not predicated upon anything else but enjoying our love and approval back. They remain devoted even after being unceremoniously dumped at the kill shelter. They look for, expect and wait for your return and, years later, never ever forget their loved ones. They hope for your best, always. And they give us everything.
They are closer to God as we forever struggle to be….here on this plane of existence.
I located a couple of links, below, for two places of aid in food and veterinary care for folks in need. It saddens me deeply that we are seeing unprecedented numbers overfilling our shelters. Perhaps this helps someone.
https://seniorspets.org/about-us/
https://www.dfwhumane.com/pet-food-assistance/ #:~:text=If%20you%20are%20experiencing%20financial,is%20come%20by%20and%20ask.
Dependent on our donated supply of dog and cat food (both dry and wet), we can provide pet food to you at no cost if you cannot afford to purchase. All you need to do is come by and ask.