05/09/2025
A sunrise.
A beautiful garden.
The ocean.
A can of Pork & Beans.
Things to remember.
And one we never saw coming.
They arrived for dog food. They brought love in return.
His dog was a super sweet Pibble named Patty. Short for Pattycake. She needed food, they found The Pongo Fund. Simple enough.
They sat down for the few minutes it would take to fill Patty’s food order. When I came back to the table to ask a question, I saw the man eating from a can of Pork & Beans.
He was using a small spoon to eat from the can. And sitting on his leg was Patty’s giant head, waiting for something to fall her way.
The man saw the shocked look on my face and he quickly stopped eating and apologized. He said he would put the food away and finish later. The look he saw, he thought I was upset that he was eating.
It wasn’t that at all. It was the opposite. And that’s why I did not ask him to stop eating, but to keep eating.
He had finally found a place to sit down for a few minutes and rest. Using those minutes to eat was the logical next step for him. He knew that Patty would soon have food, so he thought he would have some food too.
He was a Veteran, and said he had eaten out of many cans in the past. He said his lunch was delicious and eating from the can didn’t change that. I think he was happy to have a few minutes of peace.
I got him some paper towels and a bottle of water, along with some Girl Scout Cookies for dessert. I invited him to take his time and said I was going to get some food ready for Patty.
In another life, Patty would have been the best therapist. Just her face alone was cause for joy. She simply looked happy. And in a world where we do not always find happy, let’s just say that Patty brought me joy.
Her lunch bowl went down on a clean towel that was instantly dirty. The best kind of dirty. Her mouth moved from side to side and then in circles for the finish, as she methodically emptied that bowl so clean that it sparkled. And after that she licked the towel a few times to get every last bit.
And then she sat there looking at me.
And she cried.
When I see a dog crying, I think the worst. Because I’ve seen the worst too many times. In that moment I worried she had a giant bout of GI upset or any number of other things.
The man, he kept eating his Pork & Beans. He heard her because you could not not hear her. But he did not react. I asked him what was wrong with Patty, why she was crying.
He said she wanted a hug.
He said that when she gets extra happy, especially after eating something really delicious, she would sit by her bowl and cry until she got a hug. He said it was her way of saying thank you.
Kind of like Kiss the Chef, that’s what she wanted to do.
I asked him how long she would cry. He said as long as it took me to give her a hug.
I got down next to her, put my arms out and sure enough she wrapped her front paws around my neck and she hugged me, kissing my face at the same time. She cried as she did it.
I cried too.
This dog had no idea of all that she did not have. She only knew what she did have. And for her, she had it all. She was clean and had food and she got to share a sleeping bag at night with the man she loved. You could tell that the man felt the same way.
Their home was at a nearby camp. They were houseless, but not homeless. I don’t mean to sound confusing. But for many, there’s a difference.
There were three other dogs at the camp. All of them spayed and neutered and vaccinated and really happy dogs just like Patty. They were also hungry. The man found The Pongo Fund on a lark, otherwise the other men would have come with him for food for their dogs too.
When they left, their cart was filled with dog food, dog coats, booties and some other goodies. A couple desperately needed sleeping bags for the people too.
He thanked me and said how happy everyone would be at the camp when he returned. He said no one would be expecting all that he was bringing back, and it was going to be the best day for everyone, especially the dogs, since they were going to have a great dinner.
I asked him what the men were going to have for dinner. He said it was the end of the month and money was extra tight so it would be a small dinner.
I didn’t know exactly where their camp was, but I had a general idea. I asked him how far they were from the grocery store at the busy intersection. He said not far, and he would be walking past that store on his way home.
He said they had really good sandwiches there. He said that sometimes the person who made them piled them extra high just to be nice. He said those sandwiches were a rare treat, but they sure were good.
I asked him how many people were at his camp. He said usually five. I put a gift card in his hand for that grocery store and asked him to stop there and get everyone some really good sandwiches for dinner.
Because for The Pongo Fund, keeping the people healthy means they are better able to take care of their animals. If anything happens to the people, those animals have no one else. That's why sometimes we make sure the people have food too. Because no one should go to bed hungry, two-legged or four.
He looked at me with words that weren’t spoken. But I knew what he was saying.
Patty required one more hug before they left.
Turns out, I did too.
Being a Helper.
And this is why we Pongo.
Sit. Stay. Eat. Live.
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