05/07/2025
He asked if we could babysit his dog.
From 8-12, that was the request.
More specifically, could we care for his dog from 8pm – 12am. For a few nights only, that was the help he needed. Because he feared his dog was going to die, and he didn’t want him to die alone. Previous vet visits had raised some concerns, and the man was doing his best to keep his friend comfortable.
He worked nights, this proud septuagenarian, who was working to pay off his wife’s funeral expenses. Missing one night of work could mean losing their apartment, that’s how tight the dollars were. It wasn’t a fancy apartment and it wasn’t a fancy job, but he couldn't afford to lose either.
His dog was an old guy. We’ll call him BoBo.
One eye worked, one didn’t. Some aches and pains and all the normal things that come with being 16, maybe 17, maybe 18. They never knew for sure. Didn’t matter. They went by love, not age. And for this little guy, love was all he knew.
That’s why the man called us for help. Because he knew we would love his little BoBo too. He knew he couldn't turn back time. He just didn't want BoBo to be alone.
He called The Pongo Fund because several years earlier we had helped them many times with food. He remembered the difference we made and thought we might have some suggestions.
The thing is, we’re not a day care or night care or anything like that. But the stars aligned and someone said yes, they would do the late-night shift.
Not only was the timing good, so was the geography. These two souls lived not far from one another. One who loved his dog. The other, the proxy. Double the love for one little dog.
The first night when the man called to get BoBo, he learned that he was completely zonked out. That wasn’t normal. For the last several nights, BoBo had struggled to sleep. He groaned all night.
The man knew the dog had a broken heart having just lost his Mom. The man and the dog shared that same broken heart. But all that groaning, the man knew there was something more. And now he learned the dog was sound asleep. And snoring. They agreed to move the pickup to the next morning.
He was especially shocked to learn the little guy had enjoyed a late night snack. He had not been showing much interest in food, and then suddenly, he's eating fourth meals!
The next night they were at it again, meeting just before 8pm. The man once again shared his concerns about his dog’s overall health. The heart murmur, the wonky bloodwork, the groaning all night. His worry was fair. We all worry about our friends. And yet again, the little guy slept like a rock.
I won’t tell you about the third night.
But happily it was more of the same.
Sound asleep with a symphony of snores.
Somehow this little dog, with all that was going on, wasn’t ready to say goodbye. The story was not so simple, but for now, let’s make it simple. The dog, with a little bit of help, still had plenty of life.
The overnight plan kept on for several nights. Then some changes were made to the man’s schedule, and the overnights were no longer needed.
The man, the dog, and the woman who provided respite care, all stayed in touch. Because she fell in love with that little dog too.
And that led to one more step. The man’s terrible fear of what would happen to BoBo if anything happened to him. He doesn’t worry about that anymore.
Because the woman who said yes once, said yes again. BoBo could most certainly stay with her, if the time ever came.
It's been several weeks and BoBo is doing great. Even the fourth meals are still part of the plan. Just a teeny tiny late night snack compliments of The Pongo Fund.
It's a special food that we use for special cases.
And BoBo loves it!
Serendipity.
And this is why we Pongo.
Sit. Stay. Eat. Live.
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