16/12/2023
Relatable, compassionate, and TRUE ๐๐
One of my posts from 2022 that spoke to so many and deserves a re-post. โค
For many dogs, the world is a fun and engaging place.๐ We take our dogs with us to restaurants, pet stores, crowded parks, and gatherings - in an attempt to give our dogs a life of experiences and have them with us enjoying life by our side.
But for just as many dogs, the world and those activities, is overwhelming, chaotic, and confusing.๐ฅบ There is a common belief that in order for a dog to have a "full life", they need to be social with other people and dogs, they should be comfortable and able to be in public spaces, and they need to get out and explore the ๐. And if you're not doing these things, you are doing your dog a disservice.
Now, I'm not saying these things should be discouraged or that dogs don't enjoy such situations. But what I am saying, is ๐NOT ALL DOGS WILL! ๐
If your dog is overwhelmed by the chaos of crowded spaces, if they don't enjoy the company of other dogs or strange people, and if you find they are most happy in quiet and familiar spaces, I'm here to tell you that's okay!
Dogs can live a full and complete life without needing to be thrusted into these situations. And I'll take it one step further that forcing a stressed dog into these situations is doing them a greater disservice. ๐
By creating safe opportunities for enrichment at home and in private spaces where your dog feels safe, you are allowing your dog the ability to be him/herself and fully enjoy life without constantly feeling on edge. You are NOT doing your dog an injustice by keeping him/her away from those things that may be overwhelming for him.
๐You do NOT have to take your dog to that "dog friendly" cafe downtown just because other people do.
๐You do NOT need to take your dog to the dog park to "be social" and "meet new friends" if this isn't something your dog enjoys
๐You do NOT need to take your dog for walks in that crowded park where he consistently feels on edge with all of the activity around
๐And you certainly do NOT need to take your dog into stores or other public spaces so he can meet new people (who he has no interest in meeting).
I'm here to take that burden off of your shoulders. To recommend focusing on providing your dog with enriching activities, novel experiences, and opportunities to do the things that bring you both joy in the spaces that fit your dog's needs and preferences.
Our dog's worlds don't have to be big, they just have to be full. Full of enrichment, love, safety, and joy.โค๏ธ๐พ