You also don't need to justify it ✌🏻
Equestrians are probably the hardest working people I know and some of the last people who know how to rest.
And I should know... Because I'm one of them! 😅
One thing I always have to remind myself of when I hesitate to hit pause is that you feel comfortable with what is familiar because familar is often safe.
The opposite is just as true - you feel uncomfortable with what's unfamiliar because unfamiliar is often unsafe.
So if mindful rest is not familiar to you, it's going to feel weird! 😬
But if you never familiarize yourself with how it truly feels to rest, it'll never feel safe.
You deserve to make yourself feel safe just as much as I know you want to make your horse feel safe.
And neither of you need to earn it. 💕
It is REALLY freaking hard not to compare your journey to the next person's! ✨️
Yes, comparison is surely the thief of joy, but to some extent, it's completely normal.
Comparison allows you to take stock of where you are, where you've been, and where you want to go. It can be a great way to measure growth! 🌱
Comparison can inspire you to try things that gave others a certain desirable result. It can be incredibly motivating! 🏃🏻♀️
Where comparison becomes a problem, though, when you become hyperfocused on what you think you "should" be doing rather than doing what feels right for you and your horse or beating yourself up when what works for someone else isn't working for you. 🙅🏻♀️
You and your horse are on your own unique timelines. 💕
You each have your own unique superpowers and areas for growth (which you wouldn't be able to name without some level of comparison!). 🦄
Give yourself and your horse a little grace.
Know that you're right where you're meant to be.
Know that there is always something to learn from the situation you're in.
And know that so long as you have your horse, you have something to be grateful for. 💖
If if feels wrong, it probably is wrong for you! ✨️ So often you're conditioned to push down your questions and gut feelings when your intuition is trying to guide you away from what's not meant to be and toward what is. I want to challenge you to tap into those feelings and honor them rather than casting them aside. Your intuition is a universal gift that will guide you faithfully like nothing else, no matter where you are on your horsemanship journey. I promise you'll feel empowered by trusting yourself. Your horse will feel the shift in you, too, rather than feeling the conscious or unconscious resistance that comes from you following a path that is not your own. You both deserve to experience that peaceful and powerful magic. ✨️ #thepositivepony #positivereinforcement #positivereinforcementtraining #positivereinforcementhorsetraining #clickertraining #clickertraininghorses #horse #horsetraining #horsetrainer #forcefree #forcefreetraining #horsemanship #naturalhorsemanship #equestrian #groundwork #ethicalequestrian #ethicalhorsemanship #ethicalhorsetraining #relationshipbeforehorsemanship #clickercowgirl #clickercowgirls #intuitiveequestrian #intuitivecowgirl #intuitiveequine
Be a partner, NOT a dictator! ✌🏻 I guarantee that if you start viewing and treating your relationship with your horse more like you do with your spouse, best friend, [insert someone you truly care about here!], you'll start to experience some major breakthroughs and deepen your connection with your horse! Not sure where to start? Here are a few suggestions: ✨️ Honor their feelings ✨️ Do things they want to do ✨️ Be open to their suggestions ✨️ Be present when you're together ✨️ Let go of unrealistic expectations ✨️ Set healthy boundaries ✨️ Face adversity using a team approach ✨️ Give them the benefit of the doubt ✨️ Be dependable ✨️ Have fun together | If you're not already doing this, give it a conscience thought next time you're with your horse! 💙
🥕 Food manners for success! 🥕 One of the biggest reasons I see people struggle with (and sometimes give up on) positive reinforcement training using food rewards is that they often skip the basic foundation of teaching food manners. There are two major keys to success when it comes to teaching horses with positive reinforcement and they both are tied to how your horse has been taught to accept their reward! 🔑 Use the lowest value food reward your horse will work for! For a vast majority of horses this means simple forage pellets! They offer a ton of benefits while not overwhelming and overexciting your horse like sugary treats do which is what leads to mugging and/or frustration. The other key to success? 🔑 Feed your horse their reward where you want them to accept it! Don't want your horse to mug you for food? Don't feed/reward them in your personal space! This helps the horse learn that they will receive the reward not by being all up in your business but rather by staying out of your bubble. 👉🏻 Want more positive reinforcement horse training tips? Make sure to follow me! 👈🏻
Welcome to my world 🖤 My mare, Annie, gets excited to see the side-by-side we use to clear our pasture of poo and deliver hay with and approaches it with curiosity rather than fear. She always greets me in the pasture, whether that's the first time I'm walking in or the tenth. She loves being a part of the grooming process and scratched on. And she is developing into such a solid citizen under saddle through short, positive rides that I design to set her up for success. All of this, and similar success with my students, is fueled by the power of positive reinforcement training! ✨️ Share my account with a non-R+ equestrian or cowgirl and let's spread the cookie pushin' love! 🖤 #thepositivepony #positivereinforcementtraining tivWelcome to my world 🖤 My mare, Annie, gets excited to see the side-by-side we use to clear our pasture of poo and deliver hay with and approaches it with curiosity rather than fear. She always greets me in the pasture, whether that's the first time I'm walking in or the tenth. She loves being a part of the grooming process and scratched on. And she is developing into such a solid citizen under saddle through short, positive rides that I design to set her up for success. All of this, and similar success with my students, is fueled by the power of positive reinforcement training! ✨️ Share my account with a non-R+ equestrian or cowgirl and let's spread the cookie pushin' love! 🖤 #thepositivepony #positivereinforcementtraining #positivereinforcementtraining #positivereinforcementhorsetraining #clickertraining #clickertraininghorses #horse #horsetraining #horsetrainer #forcefree #forcefreetraining #horsemanship #naturalhorsemanship #equestrian #groundwork #clickercowgirl #clickercowgirls #ethicalequestrian #cookiepusher #adayinthelife #adayinthelifeofahorsetrainer #positivereinforcementtraining #positivereinforcementhorsetraining #clickertraining #clickertraininghorses #horse #horsetraining #horsetrainer #forcef
Are you only at your job for the money? 👀 For real, though! Even if you *love* your job, are you seriously telling me you're going to do it for free? The universal reward for people is money, whereas the universal reward for animals is food! That's why positive reinforcement trainers almost always toting around loads of various value food rewards. 🥕 But here's the best part - the animals aren't just in it for the food! 😱 They actually learn to love YOU because they associate you with good things and being rewarded! My relationship with my horse, Annie, has never been better since implementing positive reinforcement training. She knows I'm on her team and am going to reward her with something she actually wants for a job well done. I want that magic for you and your horse, too! ✨️ So break out the treats and see for yourself how R+ can help skyrocket your relationship with your horse today! 🚀 #thepositivepony #positivereinforcement #positivereinforcementtraining #positivereinforcementhorsetraining #clickertraining #clickertraininghorses #horse #horsetraining #horsetrainer #forcefree #forcefreetraining #horsemanship #naturalhorsemanship #equestrian #groundwork #rewardyourhorse #clickercowgirl #clickercowgirls #happyhorse #friendsandfood #relationshipbeforehorsemanship