Merry Christmas everyone!
Wishing you all a peaceful holiday period, filled with love and joy.
Please do post your Christmas pics, beautiful ones or bloopers!, on this post, and share your good wishes to each other!
From me and all the team at RDuk
with much love
xx nic
UK members - in the case of a bite, please contact Dog Law for support. They have a number that is checked for emergencies during the holiday period.
RDUK NINJAS ... all love, support and guidance for SOS situations - be it a bite, a dangerous situation or huge distress - is in the group - please check our Featured Posts for guidance.
STRESS RELIEF for reactive dogs ...
Trainer Tip Day 23
for a Stress-free, Merry Little Christmas
with your Reactive Dog
If we need to support our dog when they are becoming stressed Tellington Touch, more commonly known as Ttouch is a brilliant tool to master.
My go-to for a dog that is having or just had a reaction is Zebra Touch. My go-to for general calming support is the basic circular motion on my dogs chest, and Ear Ttouch (involving moves known as ear slides).
There are many 'moves' for Ttouch as well as other supportive techniques that can be applied to reactivity but also is amazing for building confidence, independence, calming and health benefits for our dogs.
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PLAN IN SOME TIME FOR YOU!!!
Admittedly you might not have that much time! But whether you can squeeze in 2 minutes, 5, 10, 20 or 30 you are doing GREAT!
And to take advantage of those short gaps, you need to plan some pick me ups in advance!
Plan what you might do to support yourself, so that if a 5 minute opportunity comes along, - take it. You're worth it!
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REMEMBERING ...
As the holidays draw nearer, thoughts can instinctively turn towards the excitement, the merriment, the meeting of families and friends. This can be true for many - but not all.
Today we take a moment to think of those that cannot afford a tree, festive food or bare essentials; those that have no home to call their own, those without family or friends that care, those who are ill, anxious, lonely, afraid.
We take a moment to remember those spending their time over Christmas caring for others.
And we take a moment to think of all those grieving a loss.
This year has been another hard year. Very hard for some.
For all those that lost a loved one this year, Christmas time always seems to be the hardest time of all.
Whether this was your dog, your partner, your family, your friend - grief can cut like a knife, it comes in waves, it takes you by surprise with the smallest things, the echo of a song or the scent of a memory.
And whilst I am sure your wish would be to have one more day, I hope that your heart and soul is warmed by wonderful memories.
I hope that you find joy and peace in the little things this Christmas time.
With my love to you all
Truly and sincerely,
xx nic
QUICK CHECKLIST
Trainer Tip Day 19
for a Stress-free, Merry Little Christmas
with your Reactive Dog
Final Quick Checklist
So the past few weeks we have looked at the little steps to take to get set for Xmas. Please refer back to the advent calendar posts for summary information and of course, full details in the amazing Reactive Dogs UK support group for owners with Reactive Dogs.
In a nutshell:
Start of Calm
Set the rules
Set the reminders
Safe places inside
Safe places outside
Agree who is responsible for what/whom
Emergency resources
Please do give us a heart if our trainer tips have been useful and if you feel better prepared now for a Merry Little Christmas with your reactive dog.
Much love
xx nic
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Trainer Tip Day 18
for a Stress-free, Merry Little Christmas
with your Reactive Dog
WALKIES PREP
Particularly if you are going away for the holiday period, preparing for your walks is important. There will be times when the world, his wife and his dog will be out - avoid that!
You might be somewhere completely new - go check it out first, without your dog if you can.
And if you can - have some company on a walk. They will be your warners of oncoming triggers and your protectors from unwanted approaches from the rear.
Make sure you have the address and contact details of the emergency vets with you. Its unlikely you’ll need it - but it is there in case you do.
Now then, we just need the whole of the UK to agree to eat their main meal at 1pm and not move again until 5pm .. and that gives us a 4 hour window of quiet!
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WHEN TO INTERVENE
Trainer Tip Day 17
for a Stress-free, Merry Little Christmas
with your Reactive Dog
HOW WILL WE KNOW WHEN TO INTERVENE?
It will be our job to intervene in situations when our dogs are not happy - IDEALLY before then - but how will we know?
Understanding your dog’s body language is the easiest way to know how they are feeling (but even then there are things they cannot communicate so well - eg pain or internal discomforts)
It is our job to learn what these subtle communications mean, listen and respond.
Appropriately.
It is also our job to teach our guests.
There are loads of online resources to help people understand dog body language better - Lilli Chin and Dr Sophie Yin drawings are good starters.
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START OFF CALM
Trainer Tip Day 16
for a Stress-free, Merry Little Christmas
with your Reactive Dog
If you've not been able to have an introduction in a safe field or on a quiet walk around the block, your first meeting will be at the house.
Guests should come in quietly and calmly and don’t look, talk to or touch the dog to start with.
No greetings in the hallway - it is way too cramped and adds unnecessary stress for your dog.
Ask guests to bring something that they have infused with their scent for a few days - a sock or an old tea towel for example. (I usually use half a teatowel and knot it for doggy interactions). You can give this to your dog instead of a direct interaction and it is a way for your dog to get to know the scents of your guests in a non-threatening manner. If there are multiple visitors, you can put all their ‘scent gifts’ into a cardboard box or bag for your dog to snuffle through and explore - you can chuck a few tiny treats in there too for extra positive associations.
If your dog is more fearful/aggressive towards strangers, much stricter guidelines are needed.
Starting the way you mean to go on will set everyone up for a peaceful time.
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KIDS AND DOGS @ CHRISTMAS
Trainer Tip Day 14 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Christmas
… with your reactive dog.
Kids are soooooo excited at Christmas time! And rightly so! But this might not be a good mix for a dog not used to kids, one sensitive to squeals or movement, one that guards his bed or toys or food. Or indeed a child that is scared of dogs.
There are 2 elements in the equation of kids and dogs, and we must remember not to expect to make it the dog's job to put up with anything and everything. Children also need to be taught and shown what works around dogs. The adults need to discuss and agree, so that everyone knows who is managing whom, both kids and dogs, to keep a safe and happy household - with no one left out.
Kids and dogs have the potential to be such fabulous company for each other.
Just be mindful of what works for *your* dog.
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EAT DRINK AND BE MERRY CAREFUL!
Trainer Tip Day 13 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Christmas
… with your reactive dog.
In a nutshell, tipsy people and reactive dogs don’t mix very well !
Us humans can become carefree, careless and can forget the little things for safety.
Just be mindful of what food and drink is where and how accessible it is for your dogs.
Not all dogs are brilliant at leaving things alone, especially if folks leave food or drink unattended at floor or nose height!
Xmas foods that are dangerous for our dogs include the Christmas puddings, mince pies, chocolates, cooked bones in the turkey etc. alcohol and nuts, left out on low level tables etc
Be mindful of young kiddies wandering around with food in their hands (all at dog nose height usually!!) and be especially mindful if dogs are resource guarders when it comes to food - quite often it becomes a case of what’s mine is mine, and what’s yours is also mine …
For more info, check out the danger things for our four-legged friends here:
https://www.bluecross.org.uk/pet-advice/christmas-dangers-dogs
Much love
X nic
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WHAT WHAT WHAT?!
Trainer Tip Day 12 for a Merry Little Christmas with your Reactive Dog
Today we take a moment to consider WHAT known triggers will be around and what potential triggers there may be?
What is your dog like with unexpected noises (think xmas crackers!) ? new things? flashing lights? new scents? Prolonged high energy vibes in the home? Prolonged noise with lively, loud people?
What things does your dog need to feel settled - a safe bed? favourite toy? blankets with your or their scents? quiet? something to lick or chew?
Please take a moment to really take in how different Xmas time is for our dogs - all their senses - and understand how overwhelming it can be, not just for reactive dogs, but for all dogs. And look at what you can put in place to support them.
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Trainer Tip Day 11 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Xmas
… with your Reactive Dog
If you have multiple dogs in the household over the holiday period when one or more are reactive, and they are not used to each other - it takes real vigilance on behalf of the adults.
Tag teams! Have one person responsible for each dog, in some instances tethering (to humans) can give you that additional reassurance as well as the multiple baby gates and separation for sleep, eating and play. Muzzle up for additional safety.
Rehab and training opportunities may be presented but it depends on the individual dogs. So do what works for the dogs in front of you.
If all you do is keep them both calm and happy and there are no reactions - THAT is an accomplishment in itself and will ensure everyone has a merry little Xmas.
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Trainer Tip Day 9 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Xmas
… with your Reactive Dog
Control the Christmas Crowd
Visitors need reminders of safety rules simply because they do not LIVE with a reactive dog.
Make the reminders brightly coloured if you can! Kids love to tell adults what to do, so get them involved with safety poster making! Ha ha!
Folks need to be reminded AT the time they need to remember.
Put a reminder AT the front door, AT the back door, AT the baby gates .. you get the gist.
You know what to do. You’ve got this!
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Trainer Tip Day 8 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Xmas
… with your Reactive Dog
Advocate for your Dog
If you are the one hosting this Christmas, do not be afraid to lay down the rules for safety. If you are visiting - slightly more challenging - but only agree to visit if they will agree to support and work with you and follow your guidelines for being safe.
If visitors do not agree to abide by the rules you have put in place for the safety of everyone, it is very simple - they do not come in. Period.
If something goes wrong, the ones most likely to pay the price are you and your dog.
And the cost is too high.
Be proud of being the ones looking out for everyone's well being and safety.
The cost of not doing so is too high.
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Trainer Tip Day 7 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Xmas
… with your Reactive Dog
Create House Rules for safety
Your house rules are whatever you need to do, or your guests need to do, in order to keep everyone safe - the dogs, the kids, the adults, the delivery man, the cat etc ...
Letting your guests know what the rules of the house are is very important but knowing what they are in the first place is key.
Take a moment to really think about, and write it down, what rules work for you, and your dog, in the different environments that you will be in over the holiday period.
House Rules only work, if everyone is on the same page. So what's written on your page?
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Trainer Tip Day 6 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Xmas
… with your Reactive Dog
Knock! Knock! Who’s there?
If you are going to be interacting with people / dogs that are not seen that often, take time with the introductions on neutral ground if you can first.
Kiddies are likely to be super excited and hey (and even adults) may find following the house rules challenging. Avoid any introductions in hallways as it can be cramped and the feeling of being confined can stress any dog.
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Tip Day 4 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Xmas
… with your Reactive Dog
Peace, Pees, Peas & Zees ..
We need to consider where our dogs will play, pee, eat and sleep, in peace during the holiday hoo-hah. It essentially boils down to separation, physical barriers, communication and teamwork!
Crates are useful especially for keeping our dogs safe when the humans are eating but be sure that your dog is well socialised with their crate.
And if you’re away from home, and family/friends do not want your dogs peeing in their back garden, take a human buddy with you, to be your look out and protector whilst on a pee walk.
We need to manage our dogs' environment to set them up for success and we might just need a little help too.
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Tip Day 3 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Xmas
… with your Reactive Dog
Safe Spaces at HOME
With all the Christmas bustle, visitors, or even visiting dogs, a SAFE SPACE at home for your reactive dog is a must. Even happy-go-lucky dogs can get stressed.
Be it a room or a part of a room, physically block it off (baby gates or playpens are great) so that your dog can have a protected space.
A ”cornered/ trapped dog” in a tight space is not going to feel happy – so have a look at where the dog spots (crates, beds, mats etc) are going to be in each room and check that they have enough space and a clear exit.
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Tip Day 2 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Xmas
… with your Reactive Dog
Walkies!
Getting out to enjoy green spaces can be challenging for reactive dogs, and even more so over the festive period when the whole world and his wife and their dogs are on holiday and out there too!
So make the most of secure, safe fields that you can hire, or the garden of where-ever you are for Xmas (if you are away, double triple check it is secure for *your* dog). Many a time I have taken my own fencing when visiting family! SERIOUSLY!!
Of course there is also the option to just have a day off! But remember it is not just about the Zzzzz at home.
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RDuk ADVENT CALENDAR!
Tip 1 for a Stress Free, Merry Little Xmas
… with your Reactive Dog
Work out well in advance WHERE you will be spending Christmas, as you will need different resources. Different people will need to be involved in your pre-Christmas planning and gradual socialisation with new places and people may be needed.
Start now !
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