17/08/2024
Read this!! Then read it again. Your dog isn’t better for me because they like me more than you. It’s because I make more sense. Why? Because it’s my job to make more sense! I’m a translator between you and your dog.
It’s not you, it’s the nature of learning a new language. Trust us and trust yourself!
“my dog does so much better for you than they do for me”
something that most trainers hear.
and they should. if your dog isn’t performing for your trainer, then your trainer isn’t good at their job.
don’t let it discourage you. if your dog can do certain things for your trainer, that means that they can do it for you too!!
here’s the thing, when we (trainers) are working with you and your dog, we are constantly “on”. we are working.
everything we are doing with your dog is intentional.
you have lived with your dog 24/7 one way, and now you are changing things, probably pretty drastically, and that is going to take time. and it’s hard.
your dog sees you on your bad days. when you don’t feel like doing the work. when you’re tired and don’t feel like performing.
and that’s okay! you cannot be perfect or “on” all of the time.
as trainers, we can’t allow ourselves to have off days with your dog because that’s not fair and you wouldn’t get the results you need to transform your relationship with your dog and their behavior.
we are only seeing your dog for a few hours or weeks, so we need to get results quickly so we can show you what your dog is capable of and their potential.
so just because your dog behaves better for us than they do for you, doesn’t mean that they’ll never do that for you.
it just means it’s going to take some time!
the fact that your dog is showing these behaviors means that they can do it for you too!! and that’s amazing.
you might never be a dog trainer.
we don’t want you to be a dog trainer if that’s not what you want.
we want you to be able to live with your dog harmoniously and we want you and your dog to be happy.
don’t play the comparison game because then you’ll never be able to see what amazing work you’re doing and how great your dog is.
so keep working hard and focus on the positives, because you can do this.