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03/08/2024

This dog, I can’t even… Kylie and Brendon reached out for help with their new rescue, Holling. When I first met them, Holling had not learned his name, had zero recall to speak of, and was over excited about everything but his people.

Here he is after a month of work: what a complete 180!!! We have moved to avoidance conditioning whereby if Holling comes on command, he can avoid having to feel the stimulation from the collar altogether. Brendon didn’t have to press the button on any of these recalls!!!

I am so impressed with the work that Brendon and Kylie have put in with this dog and I couldn’t be prouder!! Well done, you guys!!

Here’s to a safe and happy life with plenty of off leash freedom!!

27/07/2024

I LOVE getting updates from former clients! Here’s that sweet boy, Riggs, and his newfound life of freedom and safety! This is Laura’s post about their life so far:

“He’s so fun to take places! Like he listens so well when I call him on the e collar, and so I feel like I can take him almost anywhere with me and he’s going to be fine. He’s my best friend 🫶🏼”

Thank you for the update, Laura!!

14/07/2024

Nothing gives me a greater thrill than to get updates from former clients. I worked with Sharon and Mazzy about a month ago and just received this message:

Hi Bonnie - Thank you so very much for your time and work with Mazzy and me!

She’s been off-leash just a handful of times so far (more due to my comfort level, but that does get better with each time), but she does fantastic and I’m feeling more comfortable and confident with her now. Both around our small yard and elsewhere.

The first time hiking she stayed very close to me the whole time, but today we had more distractions with water and flowers and such. I never had to buzz her and she instantly turned to me when I used her command. Thank you so much! This is what I was hoping to achieve and be able to do with her. 🙏 🐾”

And this is why I do what I do; to give dogs and owners so much more freedom while still keeping them safe. I’m thrilled for these two!!

15/06/2024

Kris reached out to me for help with her two large dogs, Gemma and Bella, whose combined weight would overpower her when they would react on walks.

So we introduced both dogs to the prong collar, taught them the language of the collars and here’s the end result!!

Kris has really nice leash skills and was able to effectively communicate with each dog independently of the other. I see a lot more easier walks in their future!!

21/04/2024

Woody recently stumbled upon the absolute best situation for himself when he found his way to Bryttny’s farm after he got loose one day. When his owners said they didn’t want him anymore, Bryttny adopted him.

He’s a cool little dog but would run off, which is probably how he ended up at Bryttny’s in the first place. Bryttny and her family do a lot of hiking and would like to take Woody with them but would also like him to have freedom on those hikes so we taught him the language of the e collar.

Here he is on his graduation day after five training sessions. I always recommend having your dog drag a long line until you’ve both had lots of successful recalls. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.

I see a lot of hikes in Woody’s future!!! Happy trails, sweet boy!!

20/04/2024

Laura recently adopted Riggs, a 6 month old beautiful Golden Retriever. She would like to be able to take him anywhere and eventually be able to run with him once he’s old enough.

Here he is learning the structured walk for the first time. Laura has really nice leash skills and Riggs picked this up quite quickly.

These two will practice the walk and continue to build their relationship until we start work with the e collar in a few weeks.

Once we have all those pieces in place, Laura and Riggs should be all set to live an active and fulfilling life with lots of off leash adventures.

I can’t wait to watch their progress!

Another goldmine from Richard Chan!!
12/04/2024

Another goldmine from Richard Chan!!

- Your "softness" is actually not why your dog keeps reacting! -

We hear this a lot, "you need to have confident energy or your dog will pick up on it and that's why they are reacting!"

This common saying shifts the blame on the "energy" of the owners. Since energy is so abstract, many owners then become very discouraged and just resign to "it's because of the way l am that my dog acts like this. But since l can't change it, l will just have to live with it."

Their lack of confidence - or "softness" as some like to call it - is not the reason why their dogs keep reacting. But they don't know that.

They think they need to appear confident in front of their dogs but they can't because deep down they know their dogs could react suddenly, they have seen how scary it looks, and they have no idea how to stop it. They keep trying and keep getting discouraged and this vicious cycle continues.

They have been told to focus on the wrong problem, so they cannot find the right solution.

Asking a lay person to stop feeling anxious in that situation is like telling a drowning person who can't swim to "just act confident and you won't drown!"

The real solution is not about how to pretend to be confident when it's very normal to feel anxious; it is about knowing how to have control of the situation both in preventing your dog from reacting and in stopping the reaction if and when it does happen so you can stop the reaction in real. Having that control will then give you and your dog the confidence required.

If you don't know how to drive a car, no matter how confident and calm you pretend to be, you will crash your car. Confidence alone will not keep you from crashing. On the other hand, you can be a very "soft" person - but given proper driving instructions - drive a car safely for decades without any accident.

Your so called "energy" is important in the sense that you still need to be able to stay focused even when things look chaotic. If you just freeze, then of course you will fail. If you forget everything because you are too nervous, then it won't work.

But even if you are feeling nervous inside (which is really normal by the way), as long as you can still do what you are supposed to, you will have control and your dog will follow.

You can feel nervous in the middle of a pool but as long as you remember how to swim and keep doing it, you can get to the other side without drowning. Feeling confident alone won't get you there if you can't swim; but as long as you know how to swim - and don't give up trying - you will get there even if you may not appear very confident while doing it. And it's okay!

Confidence will come as you keep having repeated success. And those successful experiences will help you to become more fluent and proficient in communicating with your dog in those stressful moments - hence helping your dog to feel more safe and relaxed around you so both of you will feel more confident and in control as time goes by.

Stop blaming yourself. Stop thinking it's something you cannot control that's making your dog react. Stop thinking you need to change your entire personality in order to help your dog. It's not true. It's the other way around.

This "energy" will come naturally with practice. Don't think about it too much until then. And certainly don't get down on yourself over this. It's normal to feel nervous when you are learning something new. Just keep learning and keep practising and you will get there!

Hope this makes sense.

https://www.perfectcompanionk9.com/post/your-softness-is-not-why-your-reactive-dog-keeps-reacting

26/02/2024

Spear just graduated from e collar training yesterday. And then I get this update the next day:

“this is without buzzing him with the e-collar. we’re definitely working toward recall with that first come, but this is so great! i can’t thank you enough for teaching us how to give Spear his freedom, Bonnie! 🥹🫶🏻”

Seeing sweet Spear, who’s never been able to be trusted off leash, racing around but now with a solid recall, having the time of his life is everything. ❤️❤️

25/02/2024

Aalok and Neha reached out to me for some e collar training for their dog, Elsa. This is her graduation!!! Aalok and Neha really put in the time and the repetitions training Elsa to the e collar and it really shows!

As you can see, Elsa is dragging a long line behind her while we’re practicing. This is an added layer of safety especially as we’re working an hour away from their home.

Great work, all three of you!!

25/02/2024

Jamie and Marty adopted Spear last year but had a hard time keeping him close to home. Spear would follow his nose and get himself into all sorts of trouble. So we started with the structured walk followed by the e collar and this is him today!!

He’s now sticking closer to his owners even off leash while having the freedom to use his nose and be a dog.

I couldn’t be more excited for these three! They’re so pleased with how well Spear is doing that Jamie and Marty are going to e collar train their other dog, too. Now the whole family can go on off leash walks and know they have the ability to keep their dogs safe while still letting them be dogs.

Congratulations!!!

23/02/2024

Even the little ones can be e collar trained! Here is adorable little Woody, enjoying his freedom in the snow! Mary put in lots of work this fall training Woody to the e collar and now she can have him off leash while still keeping him safe. Great update, Mary and Woody!!

Absolutely agree!
31/01/2024

Absolutely agree!

Let’s set the scene. This may become a bit sensitive for some, and I apologise in advance.

You’re out somewhere. You might be at a restaurant, a bar, a public park on a sunny day enjoying the sunshine with your family. It may be that you’re on your way home from work or trying to catch the bus. You’re just minding your own business.

Suddenly, a person comes straight up to you. They give you anxiety. What is this person going to do? I don’t know! The person is walking with a friend and the friend sees you’re a bit anxious and calls out to you saying “Don’t stress, she/he’s all good!’’ But they keep approaching you. And when they finally reach you they randomly hug you. Touch you. Walk circles around you. Start talking to you. Don’t let you leave.

What would you call that? Harassment? Assault in severe cases?
How would this make you feel?

Now, after the initial shock you find your courage and you ask the person to go away. Leave you alone. But the person doesn’t stop and instead touches your arm or your hair. “Oh come on, we’re alright. I’m not doing anything bad I’m friendly! Just let me be around you.’’You get upset and might push the person. Shout at them. If you’re a bit more of an assertive person you might punch them. Who knows.
Then the person and the friend get upset. Well? WHY are you here then? What are you doing in this public space if you don’t like being around other people? You have no business to be here, minding your own business in this park with your family without allowing me to sit with you, play with you, touch you, talk to you. Actually, you know what you should do? You should be more social! You should go more often to random groups of people.

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Do you see what I did there?
If you thought any of the above situation is not okay (and I sure as heck hope you do), then why do we think it’s okay to let dogs run up to strange dogs and say ‘It’s okay he’s friendly’?

What we do in the dog world is the exact opposite what we should be doing. We label the harassed dog as aggressive and the harassing dog as the victim.

Dogs have emotions. They have feelings. They have their own characters and personalities. There are many, many dogs that are not interested in making new friends or being with dogs they don’t know they can trust.

And sure, some dogs love playing with other dogs. Those are the extraverted dogs. Just like we have people that LOVE hugging or love making new friends even as adults, but to be honest.. how many of those people do you know? I think if you put it into a % its lower than the people that rather just are with their select group of people and be left alone by random strangers in public spaces.

So don’t assume the dog your dog is running towards on the beach, is willing to play with your dog. Being in a public space means you need to have your dog under effective control. And if you can’t call your dog back, it should be on a long line until you can.

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In case you’re interested.. after quite a few requests I made a video version of this blog as well.

Your dog is NOT friendly, he's harassing others
https://youtu.be/YlWf02MHKCo

18/01/2024

This is so true! Be aware of what you allow.

30/12/2023

This is just the second session of escape conditioning for Orion and Jack. Christi-Lynn has been putting in the repetitions with these two and it shows!

Escape conditioning is when you press the button first and THEN call. As soon as the dog turns and commits to coming, the handler releases the button, thus allowing the dog to turn off or “escape” the stimulation.

And bonus points for an actual appearance of the sun!!!

17/12/2023

Remember Martha from two weeks ago? This is a short snippet of many successful recalls in their last e collar session with me. Her owners were able to recall her even among families bicycling, off leash intrusive dogs and even a loose cat!

Martha and her family have moved on from escape conditioning and are now on avoidance protocols. This mean if they verbally recall Martha and she complies, she can avoid the stimulation altogether. But if she decides to make a poor decision which could jeopardize her safety, there is a clear and logical consequence which she understands due to all the work and repetitions that her owners have done within the escape conditioning protocol.

Here’s to many happy off leash adventures, Martha, where we know you’ll be safe!!

02/12/2023

A short snippet of work with the wondrous Martha! Clay and Liz reached out to me for some help with their yellow lab, Martha, who has a wonderful recall, but only on her terms. We needed to make this non-negotiable for her safety. So we introduced the e collar.

This is only her second session and she’s already way ahead of the game!! We’ll continue to work within the escape conditioning protocol until she has this down solid.

The escape conditioning protocol is when the e collar is pressed BEFORE the command is given. For Martha, we’re working at a level 4 out of 100. When she complies to the command, she “turns” the collar off (owner releases the button). Once she has this down and knows exactly what the stim means and exactly what she has to do to turn it off, we’ll move to the proofing stage.

This is where we’ll present her with really desirable things, like a ball, a squeaky toy or hotdogs and then proceed to call her away from them. She’ll learn that the recall is now non-negotiable and her owners will gain confidence in their ability to recall her from just about anything. Can’t wait to see their progress!!

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