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Starlit's Strays TNR Small nonprofit 501c3 team of volunteers doing TNR (Trap-Neuter/Spay-Return) in Phelps County, MO We caretake for multiple colonies in St. James and Rolla.

Starlit's Strays TNR is a 501(c)3 nonprofit team of volunteers doing TNR (Trap-Neuter/Spay-Return) in Phelps County, Missouri. We strive to improve the lives of community cats through TNR, education, and colony caretaking. We feed, water, provide shelter from the elements and predators, and medical attention when needed for 59+ cats daily. In addition to TNR and colony caretaking, we have socializ

ed and placed countless kittens and friendly cats with rescues to find forever homes. While not always possible, we are very passionate about not leaving kittens or friendly cats in feral colonies. Our commitment to community cats is fueled by a desire to improve the current lives of these cats and prevent the suffering of future generations of cats and kittens. With TNR we strive to break the cycle of cats suffering and struggling to survive outside.

Maeve getting to experience her first Christmas tree! We haven't updated on Maeve in a while... she's healthy and doing ...
08/11/2025

Maeve getting to experience her first Christmas tree! We haven't updated on Maeve in a while... she's healthy and doing good! She definitely isn't a normal kitten, she seems to have some delays still from the head trauma she experienced. She is happy though and we just take each day as it comes! She's confused most of the time and slow to respond to things. We actually wondered if she had some sight issues but think its more of a delay in responding to what she sees. We adore her and she can take all her time healing or stay just as she is, she's precious! Her fur is finally starting to grow back where they shaved it at VSS. 🩷

Today Clover (the kitten who had fallen off a car and banged up her face) and the Candyland girls(bottle fed babies) wen...
25/10/2025

Today Clover (the kitten who had fallen off a car and banged up her face) and the Candyland girls(bottle fed babies) went to our friends at Seven More Cats Rescue to find their forever homes!! We are so grateful to be able to network with such an amazing rescue and excited for these sweet kittens to find their forever families. We thought they might be a little scared arriving at a new place, but they were playing almost immediately and happy babies like they always are! We know they will find the purrfect homes for them.💜

We started TNR at a new colony today. We trapped 17 cats, 7 of them were kittens that we will be able to find rescue for...
23/10/2025

We started TNR at a new colony today. We trapped 17 cats, 7 of them were kittens that we will be able to find rescue for. The kittens are all in pretty bad shape with upper respiratory infections, covered in fleas, diarrhea and underweight. Luckily they all allowed us to handle them (with some patience! Lol) and we've started them on vaccinations, antibiotics, dewormer and flea treatment. The 10 adult cats will go to Carol House tomorrow to be spayed/neutered, vaccinated, and ear tipped. We're in desperate need of paper pellet litter and wet kitten food for these additional kittens! If you can help with paper pellet litter or wet kitten food, we would appreciate any help! Chewy and Amazon lists below, but any paper pellet litter or wet kitten food would be great.

https://www.chewy.com/g/starlits-strays-tnr_b90163322 -list&wishlistsortby=DEFAULT

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UPDATE!! We have all the drivers needed, THANK YOU SO MUCH for being available, we will have another day we need help on...
20/10/2025

UPDATE!! We have all the drivers needed, THANK YOU SO MUCH for being available, we will have another day we need help on November 21st and will ask again closer to that date!

DRIVER HELP!
**whoever messaged and said they lived bear Carol House and could help at 4pm to take back to Deb's, please message me, I cannot find your original message to us!

We are starting the large colony this Friday, October 24th need to confirm with the people who said they might be available to help Debbie transport cats in traps from her house to Carol House Friday morning since I work. You would need to be at Deb's at 7:30 to load up a few head to Carol House (5 minute drive). Pickup is at 4pm and we need the same transport back to Deb's house.

It's National Feral Cat Day!!! 🐈‍⬛💜Our hearts and souls are dedicated to feral & community cats that don't have a voice ...
16/10/2025

It's National Feral Cat Day!!! 🐈‍⬛💜
Our hearts and souls are dedicated to feral & community cats that don't have a voice or a family to speak for them!

TNR (trap, neuter, return) is the most loving thing we can do for them, in addition to feeding and providing them with shelter from the elements. We like to remind people that feral & community cats are still domesticated cats, they were just abandoned by humans and left to breed outdoors. Feral just means they're unsocialized or had much exposure to humans. They're no different from house cats except they're scared. We may not be able to pet them, pick them up, or bring them inside, but we can make their lives exponentially better by spaying/neutering them! We have some of the healthiest, happiest colonies we care for daily, all because of TNR.

16/10/2025

Through the Trap-Neuter-Return program, thousands of feral kitties in the St. Louis region are spayed and neutered each year, and 2,900 underwent surgeries last year between the St. Louis and Rolla locations.

We often get people asking us to relocate cats to barns instead of returning to where they were trapped once spayed/neut...
14/10/2025

We often get people asking us to relocate cats to barns instead of returning to where they were trapped once spayed/neutered. We rarely relocate to barns, this article explains more why...

🐾 Barn Homes Aren’t Always Happy Endings for Cats 🐾

Lately, it feels like putting cats in barn homes has become the new “solution” when people decide it’s better than TNR. It can sound like a kind, responsible choice- but for the cat, it often isn’t.

In my 20+ years of doing rescue and TNR, I can count on one hand the situations where a cat truly could not, under any safe or ethical circumstance, return to its original home.

🔹 Is the cat’s original site always ideal? No.
But it’s their home. It’s where they know the hiding spots, the predators to avoid, the food and water sources, and the other cats in the area. Cats are territorial- familiarity is what keeps them safe.

📊 What we know about relocation:
• A large percentage of relocated cats don’t stay at their new site, even with proper acclimation.
• Many disappear within weeks despite being given food, shelter, and careful introductions.
• Even highly experienced rescuers who do everything “right” see heartbreaking results.

One of my mentors used to run barn relocation classes and oversaw many placements. She set them up with large safe spaces, proper slow-release periods, and great follow-up. And still, the number of cats who didn’t stick around was devastating. She eventually stopped, because even with the best methods, too many cats were lost.

✨ A Real-Life Example ✨
The cats in this photo were originally being considered for a “better” barn placement. But after talking with their feeder and explaining why TNR would be best for them, the plan changed. They were all trapped, neutered, and returned to the only home they’d ever known.

They know the area, they know how to stay safe, and best of all- they get to stay together, because they love one another. 💕

💡 Of course, there are times when relocation is the only safe and humane option- whether due to demolition, extreme danger, or truly unlivable conditions. And when that’s the case, it’s understandable. But too often, people are quick to make that decision for the cat.

👉 Relocation should be the last resort, not the default.
👉 A barn placement may look like a happy ending to us, but to the cat, it can mean losing everything familiar.
👉 More often than not, the best outcome is letting them stay where they already know how to survive.

So the next time you see a post about a cat “needing a barn home,” please remember: it may not be the happy ending it sounds like. For most cats, the real happy ending is going back home. 🐾

Maeve update! We wanted to update everyone who have asked how Maeve has been recovering from her head injury! She was di...
07/10/2025

Maeve update!
We wanted to update everyone who have asked how Maeve has been recovering from her head injury! She was discharged Saturday from VSS and was just barely able to stand and eat a little wet food on her own. She struggled to be able to lift her head up much at all.
This precious girl has improved every single day since coming home! She is now able to hold her head up more, is walking around a little in her puppy tent and today she even ate dry food for the first time! She may have tried to eat the bowl a little too. Lol

Her motor skills and response to stimuli is delayed so everything is a little slower, but we are so excited to see her improvement each day! We took a little video so you could see, photos don't quite give you the full picture of how she's reacting to the world around her. On top of learning to eat, she seems to be learning or relearning everything like how to use a litterbox and what people are. It all seems very new to her. We adore her and hope she continues to get stronger each day!

Maeve is home, she was discharged from VSS today!! Its been a long day/drive so just a short update...She's eating some ...
05/10/2025

Maeve is home, she was discharged from VSS today!! Its been a long day/drive so just a short update...

She's eating some on her own and standing on her own, it's wonderful to see! She is still recovering from head trauma and this takes time, so her head bows down most of the time, she has a hard time lifting it up at all. She can take all the time she needs to recover and grow strong, we aren't in any hurry! This sweet baby is such a fighter, thank you so much to all of you that donated, you helped her survive!! 🩷

🩷Maeve can stand today!🩷Our morning update from the VSS vet was promising, she is continuing to make very small improvem...
02/10/2025

🩷Maeve can stand today!🩷
Our morning update from the VSS vet was promising, she is continuing to make very small improvements! She's taking the syringe feeding now without a problem and she stood up! Two days ago she couldn't even hold her head up, so this is more hopeful news. They don't think she's ready to be released, however, so she will be staying another night tonight and most likely tomorrow night as well.

These extra nights were NOT in the first estimate, we have not received a new one yet, but they said a new updated estimate would be coming, for this longer stay.

We think this sweet baby is worth it and we'll do whatever it takes to make sure she gets the care she needs, including begging our supporters to give even just 1$ to help us continue to get her the medical care she needs to recover from this head trauma. Anything you can donate will add up!

VSS said if she continues to improve slightly like this each day that they will probably release her to us Saturday, even if she isn't eating on her own, since we are experienced in caring for medical neonates/syringe feeding. Maeve is a fighter, her name is rooted in strength, sovereignty, and independence. "The cause of great joy"... and long as she continues to fight, we will be there to help her in that fight! Right now, her fighting looks a lot like sleeping, lol, but that's what her body needs most to recover! 🩷

🩷UPDATE ON MAEVE! 🩷This morning the overnight vet from VSS called to update us. She had not seen any real change in Maev...
01/10/2025

🩷UPDATE ON MAEVE! 🩷
This morning the overnight vet from VSS called to update us. She had not seen any real change in Maeve overnight. Her temp had gone down, a little too much now, and they were keeping her warm, she was mostly non-responsive still. It was discouraging but we told them we wanted to continue with treatment and give her more time.

This afternoon we called and talked to the tech who has been caring for her during the day today. She said she was swallowing and taking a syringe today, which IS an improvement over yesterday when she wouldnt even swallow! She also said Maeve had a little bit of fight in her when they drew her blood in the morning and that is good news because she did not have that yesterday! Tiny little improvements are enough for us to want to give her more time to recover and give us a little glimmer of hope! Please keep this little fighter in your thoughts and THANK YOU so much to those of you that have donated for her emergency care!

Maeve was found yesterday by Deb's partner on his delivery route, she was unresponsive laying in the road in a very rura...
01/10/2025

Maeve was found yesterday by Deb's partner on his delivery route, she was unresponsive laying in the road in a very rural area, no other cats around, with fly eggs filling her eyes. (We will spare you that photo!)
She is approximately 6 weeks old and very underweight. She was rushed to the vet and it was initially thought her lethargy was largely due to her being severely dehydrated/malnourished, she was given fluids and had her eyes flushed. She went home for the night and Deb syringe fed her around the clock and brought her back to the vet this morning. After more fluids and care during the day, she was not improving and was still lethargic/unresponsive. We made the decision this afternoon to drive her into St. Louis to VSS emergency to have more extensive testing done.

She has a fever but her bloodsugar is not low, so her non-responsiveness is likely not from dehydration/starvation, but possible head trauma. They think she may have been hit by a car or fell out of one. They are keeping her for 24-48 hours and have her on iv antibiotics and meds to get any brain swelling down. Her future is still unknown and she may not survive but we had to get her all the care possible to see if she could be saved!

We desperately need money to help cover her bill, we had to pay half of the estimate upfront and still will have to pay at least another $750 when we pick her up! Please help us save baby Maeve if you can! Our PayPal is [email protected]

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