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22/06/2025

IMPULSION AND COLLECTION

In a previous post I discussed the difference between activity and impulsion, and why both are key for healthy movement under saddle.
Now let’s move on to collection, and why a high level of impulsion is such an essential ingredient for collected work.
Very simply, collection may be defined as ‘high actvity in a slow rhythm'. In other words, a horse is only really performing a collected movement if it is ready to move up a gear at the lightest suggestion from the rider’s leg. This is absolutely key to its depiction of light liveliness and what differentiates collection from just going slow.

There are many examples of collected movements, but for the purposes of this article, let’s focus on the piaffe. Piaffe is an air performed on the spot or with minimal forward travel. It is a diagonal movement with no time of suspension, in which the horse elevates the neck and engages the hindquarters. In many ways it is the pinnacle of collection, displaying absolute mastery of the horse’s balance in movement.

A good piaffe should show:

1 A regular two beat rhythm
2 A happy face (effort is different to pain)
3 Well flexed joints in the hind limbs, with the hind feet engaged under the body
4 A clear shift of weight to the hind quarters (could the piaffe lead to a pesade?)
5 Clear and energetic lifting of each diagonal pair on the spot
6 An elevated neck with the poll the highest point

On the other hand, a less impressive piaffe might demonstrate:

1 Lack of a clear two beat rhythm
2 Tension
3 A loaded front limb, angled so that the landed front hoof is positioned behind the shoulder
4 Bouncing hind quarters
5 Limbs lifting in a staccato and unnatural fashion
6 A dropped poll

As is the case with all good equitation, the aids should be imperceptible, the contact light, and the horse should look as though he is performing the movement by himself; the kind a stallion offers in the stable when a mare walks past for example. Contained energy, a coiled spring.

All too often we see piaffe produced by using a whip from the ground. Someone is usually on board, and a handler on the ground uses a whip to encourage the horse to lift his hind legs in an exaggerated manner while walking or trotting slowly. No real impulsion is required here, just a trainer with reasonable timing. The problem is, the horse never really learns how to change his balance to the hindquarters, and in fact quite often offers the exact opposite – as a hind limb lifts, he shifts his weight onto the forelimb on the same side to compensate.

As an alternative, more progressive strategy, in the School of Légèreté we train piaffe using transitions. They could be direct initially, moving from halt to walk, walk to trot, trot to walk, walk to halt, halt to rein back, rein back to halt to walk. All with an elevated neck, no tension or resistance to the leg or hand. We insist on absolute separation of the hand and leg at this point, ie when we ask the horse to go the hand allows, and when asking for the downwards transitions the legs are quiet.

Incorporating shoulder in into the transittion training develops the flexion and weight carrying capacity of each haunch individually, depending which hind leg is engaged under the mass at the time. Quite a clever way to develop the strength required and symmetry in the piaffe at the same time!

Progressively, the transitions become quicker – as soon as we ask the horse offers, the responses are immediate and anticipated. Quite soon it is possible to ask for indirect transitions: halt to trot, trot to halt, even rein back to trot and vice versa. The poll remains the highest point, ensuring that we are progressively lightening the shoulders and developing strength, flexion and weight carrying capacity in the hind limbs.
Frequent breaks are essential for relaxation and to prevent muscle fatigue. I cannot emphasise this enough.

After a while, it is probable that the horse will start to an@cipate the transitions, so that from a high quality rein back for example, he is expecting to trot, so starts to offer a couple of strides on the spot.
We praise.
It is easy to see how this progressive mastery of the horse’s balance, combined with a high level of impulsion (the desire to go forward) would in time produce a piaffe which is relaxed, energetic, regular and with good engagement of the hindquarters. The kind that strengthens and enhances the horse’s capacity to carry a rider with ease and confidence.

No tricks, no shortcuts.

And that’s what it’s all about.

Some people will tell you the only ethical way to train a horse is with food. That unless you’re feeding them for every ...
22/06/2025

Some people will tell you the only ethical way to train a horse is with food. That unless you’re feeding them for every step, you’re forcing them. That horses only work with us because they’re afraid….

But that’s just not true.
And for those of us walking the path of sport and partnership, it’s not always practical.
Horses don’t need bribes or fear to trust us, they need us to step into a much larger role, our true role, the role of the gaurdian. Not just a safe place, but a guide and protector. A leader who fights FOR the horse, not with them. One who earns respect through clarity, consistency and care.

This is not the easy road.
It takes presence. Humility. Deep listening.
But it’s a powerful, soul-full path ❤️

A journey of connection, of trust, of becoming TOGETHER.

In pursuit of athletic excellence, horse and human rise as one.

Two beings in total synchronicity, each elevating the other.

This is the ultimate celebration of potential.

To walk this path with a horse is one of the greatest privileges of life. We’re not here for long so why not make the journey one of depth, beauty, and fire?

Why not chase greatness with HEART?

📸 For my OTTB friend “Rise to Glory”

13/06/2025

"It's about being your best. It's not about being the best." - Beezie Madden, Olympic medalist

🐴 “He’s stud-y.”Why does that phrase make me cringe?It’s not just the sound, it’s the energy behind it.Usually said with...
13/06/2025

🐴 “He’s stud-y.”
Why does that phrase make me cringe?

It’s not just the sound, it’s the energy behind it.
Usually said with fear, irritation, or a hint of contempt.
A coarse oversimplification of something far more complex.
And it almost always invites coarse, rudimentary responses in return.

But what if we saw him differently?

What if we said:
✨ He’s intelligent.
✨ He’s confident.
✨ He’s sensitive to energy.
✨ He’s instinctual and aware.
✨ He knows his strength—and yours.

When we use words like that, our entire approach changes.
We respond with clarity, tact, and respect.
We learn to meet him—not fight him.

Because here’s the truth:
Being overly aggressive with a stallion just puts more fight into him.
He’s not trying to dominate you, he’s reading you.
Matching you and taking notes on the human world.

So why does “stud-like” behavior offend people so much?

Maybe it’s because it reflects something we don’t always understand:
Unapologetic power.
Wild confidence.
Presence that doesn’t shrink to fit in.

Maybe it’s not the horse that’s the problem.
Maybe it’s how we’ve been taught to see him.

Let’s start calling it what it is:
Wisdom. Sensitivity. Strength. Intelligence.

"I Thought I Was Helping..."Some insights about love, patterns, and the cost of always choosing the hard road.I never se...
12/06/2025

"I Thought I Was Helping..."
Some insights about love, patterns, and the cost of always choosing the hard road.

I never set out to chase “problem horses.”
I just loved horses, I loved riding, learning, and being around them.
If a horse was quirky, misunderstood, or labeled “difficult,” I didn’t see a red flag. I saw potential.
I saw a soul that needed a chance.
And part of me believed, really believed, that every horse could be great, if only they were understood.

So I kept saying yes.
To the shutdown ones. The bolters. The sour ones. The ones with old trauma, tricky conformation, poor handling, pain, fear.
I thought I was helping.
And sometimes I was.
But over time, I began to notice a pattern.
These horses weren’t rising to meet me…
I was being pulled down to meet them.

Not because they were bad.
But because I had unknowingly built my identity around fixing things.
I was addicted to the rush of breakthroughs—the pride of solving the puzzle, the relief of earning their trust.
I confused struggle with success.

And excellence?
It got blurry.
I wasn’t chasing aligned progress or joyful growth anymore.
I was chasing the next challenge.
I was betting on the exception, not the rule.

And that’s when it hit me:
I wasn’t just choosing the horse, I was choosing the story.
The underdog story. The martyr story.
The story where I had to work twice as hard just to prove something.

But what if I didn’t need to prove anything?
What if I could choose the horse, the ride, the life that actually aligns with my values—without all the chaos?

Now I see the difference.
I still love a good story.
But I no longer need to rescue one to feel worthy.

If this speaks to you, know that you’re not alone.
It’s okay to outgrow the chaos.
It’s okay to choose peace.
It’s okay to choose you.

🫶 I’d love to hear from others who’ve walked this road.
Have you ever found yourself in the cycle of choosing the hard road… thinking it was the only way?

📸Kase Photography

Social media is a minefield especially for horse people.So many opinions.So much clickbait.So many theories, and most of...
10/06/2025

Social media is a minefield especially for horse people.

So many opinions.
So much clickbait.
So many theories, and most of them unfounded.

It’s easy to get lost in the scroll, comparing, second-guessing, doubting your instincts. And while you're down that rabbit hole, precious horse time slips away.

Time in the saddle. Time on the ground. Time just being.

What we consume every day shapes our mindset more than we realize.
And in the horse world, where calm presence and clarity matter more than flashy trends, that influence can be debilitating.

There’s a lot more marketing than mentorship out there.
More filters than truth.
More content than connection.

It takes “stay safe” to a new level.
I'm here today to say: Protect your mindset. Protect your time. Protect your connection.

Choose real. Choose grounded. Choose what honours the horse, and you.

When Does Connection Become Confusion?I used to think I was just “really in tune” with my horse. I could feel everything...
09/06/2025

When Does Connection Become Confusion?

I used to think I was just “really in tune” with my horse. I could feel everything. I cared deeply. I wanted to protect them from stress, pressure, even discomfort.
I thought that made me a better horsewoman.

But something was off.

I didn’t realize I was carrying more than my share.
That I was interpreting every reaction as my fault.
That I couldn’t tell where my emotions ended and my horse’s began.

That’s not partnership. That’s enmeshment.
And the hard part? Most people in it… can’t see it.

If you’ve ever felt:
Felt guilty for asking your horse to work.

Been crushed when a ride didn’t go well.

Lost confidence because someone blamed you for everything.

Avoided correcting your horse because you “should’ve been better first”.

Been the victim in an unhealthy coaching relationship that left you doubting your instincts.…then you know what it feels like to carry emotional weight that was never yours to begin with.

Enmeshment feels like empathy—but it’s actually entanglement.

✅ True partnership means both beings have space to breathe, grow, and lead.
✅ Boundaries are not separation, they’re the foundation of trust.
✅ Emotional regulation doesn’t mean shutting down, it means owning what’s yours and not carrying what isn’t.

This is what the H.E.A.R.T. Method helps you untangle.

If something in this post hits a nerve, DM me “HEART” and I’ll send you a free resource to help you start seeing clearly again.

You don’t have to carry it all.

🇨🇦Happy National Horse Day Canada 🇨🇦 ❤️
08/06/2025

🇨🇦Happy National Horse Day Canada 🇨🇦

❤️

Until recently, I’d never made any distinction between Heart and Grit. To me they were intertwined, practically one and ...
04/06/2025

Until recently, I’d never made any distinction between Heart and Grit. To me they were intertwined, practically one and the same and truthfully perhaps why I was stuck. Words have power though, so in the name of precision, accuracy and growth, let’s dive in!

Heart ❤️ is the WHY
It’s passion, purpose, love, connection, courage and soul.
It’s the one thing that keeps you coming back when you’re tired, hurt, or scared. It’s care, loyalty, devotion and willingness to be vulnerable.
Heart fuels the fire 🔥

Grit 💪 is the HOW
It’s perseverance, toughness, resilience, discipline, staying power.
It’s the grind, the repetition, the showing up when no one’s watching.
Grit keeps the fire burning 🔥

You can have grit without heart- but it becomes hollow, mechanical, or even bitter.

You can have heart without grit - but it won’t go the distance, no matter how bright it burns.

When they balance tho, they’re magic ✨

Does your horse have more heart or grit? What about you?
💬 ⬇️⬇️⬇️

Meet Ace—a true  .He wasn’t the fastest.He wasn’t the fanciest.He didn’t come with papers or a price tag that made anyon...
03/06/2025

Meet Ace—a true .

He wasn’t the fastest.
He wasn’t the fanciest.
He didn’t come with papers or a price tag that made anyone look twice.
But he always tried.

Like many horses with real heart, people loved to label him:
“Bad.”
“Dangerous.”
“Psycho.”

Ace was no exception.
A small, black OTTB who paced, pawed, bee-bopped, or dragged you through most situations.
It was no mystery how he ended up on the chuckwagon tour—nobody else was willing to take a chance on him.

But all it takes is one person to fall in love. To believe.
And for Ace, that person was my husband.

I can’t count how many times people told us to “get rid of that little black horse that rears at the horn.”
“He’s no good.”
“You’ll never get that out of him.”
“He’ll get you into trouble.”

But we didn’t get rid of him.

We built a team around HIM instead.

Because Ace wasn’t “bad.”
He was too good.
Too quick.
Too sharp.
Too tuned in.

He wasn’t rearing at the horn.
He was starting—hard and fast.
So fast, he was hitting the collar a full 2 seconds before the other horses even knew the horn went.

If you know anything about driving, force, and physics, then you know:
He had nowhere to go… but up.

And here’s where the heart comes in:

He never quit.
And honestly? He should have.

He was one little horse trying to move 4000lbs of wagon, driver, and horseflesh all by himself.
We spent a full season just figuring it out.
Then another finding him a worthy partner.
Then training them together.
Then adding two more to make a proper team.

And Ace?
He kept starting.
And starting hard.
Every. Single. Time.
For almost a decade.

I don’t know many horses—or humans—who can be fouled that many times and still keep showing up at 100%.

That’s what heart looks like.
It’s not always pretty.
But it’s powerful.
And unforgettable.

I’ll tell you what it’s NOTIt’s not all sunshine and roses.It’s not just good vibes and positive energy.And it sure as h...
02/06/2025

I’ll tell you what it’s NOT

It’s not all sunshine and roses.

It’s not just good vibes and positive energy.

And it sure as hell doesn’t mean playing it safe.

Having HEART means showing up when it’s hard.
Trying again when it hurts.
Staying open when it would be easier to shut down.

It’s arguably the most important quality in both humans and horses.

But here’s the truth:
Many people are afraid to engage.
Afraid to be seen.
Afraid to put themselves “OUT THERE”
Afraid to be vulnerable.

Horses?

They’re ready.

They will show up.

But only when you do.

So, the question isn’t, “Does your horse have heart?”

The REAL question is: Do you?

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