19/03/2021
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LET THEM LOOK
A client asked me a good question the other day, that reminded me of something I have been mulling over, after hearing a discussion between a neuroscientist vet and a colleague. The question was, “When should I let my dog watch something and when should I distract him?”
For a long time, the general advice to dog owners has been to distract or prevent dogs from looking at things in the environment that could potentially cause emotional arousal. As a trainer and behaviour practitioner, one of the first things we teach in puppy class is focused engagement with the owner, so that the puppy can forget about everything else for a while and find it highly reinforcing to work with their human. We also teach dogs of all ages how to voluntarily disengage from the environment – a skill that is certainly needed for working with dogs around distractions and to help dogs come away WILLINGLY from people, animals and objects that it would be inappropriate for them to engage with or approach. But does this mean that we should never let a dog look at something?
A common practice which I have never been comfortable with, is to cue a dog to perform an operant response in the presence of an emotional trigger, to prevent the dog from engaging in an unwanted behaviour, such as barking or lunging. A dog might be asked to look at the owner or sit or lie down to prevent them from staring, lunging or barking at another dog. Although initially, some sort of force or pressure is always needed to get the dog to perform the alternate behaviour in a state of arousal, after a while, the dog will sometimes end up responding to a verbal cue alone and it may seem as though this approach works, as the dog is lying down instead of lunging and barking. Of course, anyone familiar with canine body language will immediately see how uncomfortable and stressed dogs in these situations usually are and realise that, while the owner might think they have solved the problem, the dog is actually no better off than before.
Something else that has also influenced my recent thinking on this subject is becoming a horse owner. Horses are flight animals and if presented with a sudden, unrecognised stimulus, their first response is to move rapidly away from it and ask questions later. However, if something is far enough away, a horse’s usual response is to stop and stare to work out whether there is real danger or not. My horse, Jedi, is usually pretty calm with most up-close stimuli, because I have spent a fair amount of time using desensitization and counterconditioning to help him become comfortable around things like bins, recycling bags, discarded cardboard boxes, umbrellas and dogs etc. However, when he sees something in the distance, he will stop and stare. I have seen many horse owners force their horses to move on in these situations. They feel that if they allow their horses to look at whatever is worrying them, they will become more scared and go into a flight response – just as many dog owners seem to feel that if they allow their dogs to look at something, they will end up having a “fight” response and become reactive. But my experience is the opposite. If I allow Jedi to take the time to observe and process what he is seeing in the distance, he will usually start to calm down and then voluntarily check in with me for a slice of carrot, after which he is ready to move on calmly, no longer worrying about what he saw. In this case, giving him time to process what he is observing and “figure it out” in his own mind, is an absolutely vital part of what allows him to relax. If I did not allow him to do this, he would continue to be anxious and would be far more likely to go over threshold and bolt at any moment should any other unexpected stimulus occur.
Yet, with dogs we virtually never seem to talk about allowing them to look at and process what is going on around them. Probably, because we tend to put dogs more often in situations where they are so overwhelmed that they immediately go over threshold. At this point our main focus becomes suppressing behaviour or getting them to disengage. No thought is given to whether our dogs would benefit from having time to process what they can see, hear and smell or if given a chance, they would figure out on their own how best to cope with the situation. Instead, we don’t let them look and we “force” them to engage in a behaviour which may make them even more uncomfortable. (Imagine if you were told to lie down in public when you got a fright!)
At this point I want to make something clear: I am not suggesting for one minute that we expose reactive dogs to triggers over threshold and let them stare, lunge and bark, without trying to help them. That is flooding and it is extremely harmful. What I am suggesting, is that we allow dogs that are anxious around specific situations to observe things from a distance where they are easily able to remain under threshold and we STOP TELLING THEM WHAT TO DO in those situations. We let them look, if they want to look. We let them sniff the ground if they want to sniff the ground. We let them walk away if they want to walk away. We let them lie down or stand or sit or keep walking – we let them decide how they are most comfortable. We don’t make good stuff like treats and praise contingent on a specific behaviour, but we allow good stuff to simply be part of the experience as a whole. If our dogs become so relaxed that they start wanting to engage with us and offer behaviours, we can reinforce anything and everything that is appropriate and fun.
So, when do we let our dogs look and when don’t we? Well, if our dogs are well under threshold (calm, relaxed, able to think and process), then we let them look. If They are approaching threshold (you can see arousal going up – stiff, tense body language, getting “stuck” or fixated), we need to get them out of there immediately. This is where our engagement with us and disengagement with the environment exercises are extremely helpful. What do you do if they are over threshold? You also need to get them out of there, but this is your “avoid at all costs” scenario. Do everything humanly possible to just not go there.
The key to all of this is COMFORTABLE DISTANCE – something that we dog owners seem to be really terrible at. We simply won’t accept that our dogs can’t cope and need more space. We seldom give them the space they need to engage their senses and the time for their cognitive mechanisms to kick in. We constantly put them in situations where emotional responses high-jack processing and rob them of the opportunity to calmly figure things out. We desperately need to learn to take a step back literally and figuratively, so that our dogs have the opportunity to look and learn.