07/11/2017
I am proud to announce the publication of this book by Thom’s beloved sister Trish about the care giving of their parents. I’m going to let the glowing reviews below speak on behalf of this book, except to say that she brought to life each voice so clearly and beautifully, and that this will be my primer for my own care giving.Congratulations, Sis!
While They’re Still Here: A Memoir by Patricia Williams
After a lifetime of strained bonds with her aging parents, Patricia Williams finds herself in the unexpected position of being their caregiver and neighbor. Dodging the fine lines between service and servant, guardian and warden, she watches her parents climb over their conflicts and pain to face each new struggle with courage, faith, and a few missteps—still teaching her and still parenting her, when she isn’t too overwhelmed to notice.
Honest and humorous, graceful and grumbling, this is the story of one complex family’s attempts to heal the wounds of the past, forging a new dynamic of compassion, acceptance, and forgiveness as they guide each other through the most vulnerable chapter of their lives.
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/While-Theyre-Still-Here-Memoir/dp/163152240X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1509979502&sr=8-1&keywords=while+they%27re+still+here+a+memoir+patricia+williams&dpID=51IM30UyFTL&preST=_SY291_BO1,204,203,200_QL40_&dpSrc=srch
www.patriciawilliamsbook.com
http://www.facebook.com/trish.williams.121
TRADE REVIEWS
Kirkus Reviews excerpt: “. . . an intimate oral history of a blue-collar, postwar American family revealed by the author in the same touching and heartbreaking manner it was disclosed to her. Both crushing and uplifting; an account nearly as emotional as the caregiver’s trials it vividly outlines.” Kirkus Reviews, November 7, 2017
https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews/patricia-williams/while-theyre-still-here
“With compassion and honesty, Williams shares how she navigated the complex journey with her parents during the last chapter of their lives.” Booklist Review by Bridget Thoreson, October 15, 2017 (The link is for librarians and subscribers to Booklist.)
https://www.booklistonline.com/While-They-re-Still-Here-Patricia-Williams/pid=9073472
REVIEWS
“While They’re Still Here is a smart, insightful, honest, poignant, and delightfully told story of the years Williams was her parents’ caretaker. This is the book I wish had existed when I was caretaking my own mother. A definite must-read!”
—Virginia A. Simpson, PhD, FT, award-winning author of The Space Between: A Memoir of Mother-Daughter Love at the End of Life
“Williams’s journey through caretaking balances her family credo, ‘Get over it,’ with doses of compassion, self-examination, and humor.”
—Tanya Ward Goodman, author of Leaving Tinkertown
“No matter how different our families may be, one thing’s for sure: they all come with plenty of baggage. In this beautifully written memoir, we see how author and daughter Patricia Williams carefully unpacks it all while caring for her aging parents. The journey is a bumpy one, yet she manages it with grace, good humor, and most assuredly, love.”
—Judith Henry, author of The Dutiful Daughter’s Guide to Caregiving
“A refreshingly candid, poignant memoir that lays bare the physical and emotional costs of care.”
—Jana Panarites, author of Scattered: My Year As An Accidental Caregiver
“This book is written with honesty, humility, and love, and will remind anyone involved in caring for an elderly parent that you are not alone in your labor of love.”
—Sandra Bullock Smith, award-winning author of Trading Places: Becoming My Mother’s Mother
“Williams candidly shares the intimate and rewarding moments along with the fears and unexpected burdens that go along with this complex relationship. The reader will empathize and learn from her experience and will take away familiar themes they can learn from and that will stay with them.”
—Iris Waichler, MSW, LCSW, patient advocate and award-winning author of Role Reversal: How to Take Care of Yourself and Your Aging Parents
After a lifetime of strained bonds with her aging parents, Patricia Williams finds herself in the unexpected position of being their caregiver and neighbor. As they all begin to navigate this murky battleground, the long-buried issues that have divided their family for decades―alcoholism, ...