07/07/2020
Truth!
If you’ve got “that” dog; the one who recalls every time, walks without a care, and who is an all around polite lady or gentleman...rejoice.
If you don’t need the structure, the rules, the tools, and the leadership I constantly write and talk about...rejoice.
But remember, a singular experience — yours — doesn’t equate to a universal one.
There are many out there who don’t have “that” dog. Many who are struggling, terribly. Whether it’s with the anxiety/stress/fear of getting through another walk/vet visit/guest arrival/dog fight — or it’s the hope of even keeping their dog in the home, or alive — there are many not so lucky.
So if you find yourself looking down your nose at those with all the gear, and all the rules, and all the other “unnecessary” stuff, be sure to pause. When you have it good, judgement comes easy.
But it’s those with limited empathy and imagination...and inflated ego and accomplishment, who do so.
I’ve had “both” dogs. I’ve had a dog killer, and I’ve had a dream dog. I needed different rules, different structure, different management, and yes, different tools for each.
Having been on both sides, I don’t confuse luck with skill and accomplishment, or failure and shame.
Both of these dogs came to me like that.
Remember that next time you judge another for using the tools, rules, and leadership you find so unnecessary.
Perhaps next time you won’t be so lucky.