15/05/2019
Couldnât have said it better myself đ
WHERE YOU NEED TO BE
The world seems to move faster and faster. Everyone needs a new horse, a better, faster, prettier, younger new horse, then they need the new things to go with it, then they to go to the new âhotâ instructor, and all the new, magic supplements, then they get bored and need a new horse.
Itâs hard to keep up. The posts are on Facebook of this show and that show and before the dust has settled everyone has moved on and is excited about the ânextâ event, the ânextâ big thing, next, next, next.
I confess, I feel the pressure. I feel the judgement and confusion, the dismissive opinions of others. The little bullets, âYou should be doing this. You should be coming here. You should be buying this, or doing this, or attending this.â Everyone is bursting to share their new idea, their new stuff, their new horse.
Thereâs always going to be another ânextâ. Thereâs never going to be another ânowâ. What happens to all the things that have been sat aside for the ânext?â That friend you cast aside, the horse you sold to purchase the new âbetterâ one, or the one before that. What happened to that ribbon you won and chucked in the bin as it wasnât as important as the ânextâ one?
We can focus on the next, or we can focus on the now. Right now, I have some amazing horses to ride, who are teaching me every day. I have some truly inspiring people in my life, helping and supporting me.
When I get caught up in someone elseâs idea of what I âshouldâ be, or whatâs ânextâ, I risk missing out on moments like this, where everything is right in the world, and I know, Iâm right where I need to be.
Happy riding x