11/11/2021
This is Cash.
Cash has been learning the value of becoming an agreeable equine partner by respecting human boundaries and being responsible for his own energy.
I’ve made it clear to him that my only goal is to help him understand what I expect of him in the easiest way I possibly can. No games. No gray area. No emotions or weird manipulation tactics. No blow ups, frustration when things don’t go my way, or switch-ups based on how I am feeling that day. Just clear, concise, consistent expectations set out in front of him, in a way that HE understands. I allow him grace where it is needed, but I do not tiptoe around the daises about how I expect him to behave. Hit the boundary, and there are consequences.
People are no different. It is necessary to set boundaries, allow people to hit those boundaries, bounce off of them, see the consequence of that action, and decide for themselves if they’d like to go a different route. Boundaries with horses are incredibly important. Boundaries with humans are, too. Give grace when needed (daily), and protect your space. The kindest thing you can do for horses and humans alike, is set healthy limits and boundaries.
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