19/08/2024
👤You are human. You are doing your best. Make sure to take care of yourself. Preserve your relationship with your dog. Maintain a good relationship with the training process. I give you permission to take time for yourself and do what’s best for you and your dog.
🤭I know what you’re thinking. You must think I am insane for giving you permission when you ultimately have control in your own life. However, I know that pressures to train your dog can pile up and make you feel like you aren’t doing enough, like you are a bad dog parent, like you have failed, like your dog is just not trained enough. I am here to tell you that it is okay if you don’t have it all figured out, or if you get frustrated and want to quit sometimes.
😮💨I want you to step back and take a breath. Look into your dog’s eyes and remember why you got this puppy, this dog, this animal, that is going to be a wonderful companion for so many years to come.
🤯We, and our dogs, have emotions. We have feelings. We have struggles. We have pains. Not every single day is going to be a good one. There are many stressors we deal with in daily life as humans, separate from our pups. For your pup, they deal with many stressors themselves. Some days it is really extremely hard for us to bring ourselves to train, or it may be hard for our dog to focus and want to engage with us or training. I want you to know that on these days it is completely okay to take breaks and do something other than train with your dog. You can simply lay in bed with them and cuddle, if you both want that. Both of you can take a nice, long, and slow walk in a quiet area. A game of fetch in the park can be a nice time as well. There are many options. You may not get any training done, but you will continue creating an even better relationship with your dog while doing something you both will enjoy much more at that moment.
🐕You are going to have your dog for 10, 15, maybe 20 years, or more. You have plenty of time to train. The training part is a journey together with your dog. If there are days that you or they aren’t feeling up to training because of whatever reason, that is completely okay. Your dog does need to know basics, so make sure you find a right balance for you and your pup. Just please don’t overdo it.
☝️When you do those training sessions, make sure that you keep them short. You want to keep them 3 to 5 minutes long per session. This will be a lot more manageable for you and your pooch. A lot of little sessions, with a lot of repetitions practiced in each one, will build solid behaviors. Long and drawn out sessions will likely exhaust you and your dog, which can also lead to frustrations.
🫂Just please remember that you are only human. You are living with an animal who loves you and, while they may frustrate you at times, only want to have fun with you. Make this life fun with your pup. Take a day off from training sometimes. Do things that are fun with your dog. Practice self care. Build a solid relationship. Find the perfect balance that is right for you and your dog. Don’t overdo it. I give you permission.