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There For You Dog Training Force-free, private training for people and their dogs that is science-based and dog approved! I do private one-on-one lessons at the client's home, or online.

My name is Kaylei and I am a dog trainer in the Asheville, NC area. I use a dog-approved training method called positive reinforcement (also known as force-free and reward-based training), which stems from the science-based learning processes of classical conditioning and operant conditioning. I am a graduate and certified dog trainer through the Victoria Stilwell Academy Online Dog Trainer course

. I show you how to teach basic skills like sit, down, stay, and more, along with helping navigate through undesired behaviors like jumping, dashing out the door, etc. I also offer "day training" where I come to your house and train your dog for you (you're still involved though!). I also offer training sessions to help with vet/groomer anxiety and husbandry tasks like nail trims and ear cleanings.

Let's talk about something very important for your dog: enrichment! 🐕 Enrichment is different activities your dog can pa...
09/12/2024

Let's talk about something very important for your dog: enrichment!

🐕 Enrichment is different activities your dog can participate in to help mentally stimulate them, just like how we play video games, make art, or do puzzles.
🐕 Enrichment helps relieve boredom. When our dogs are bored they may find their own "fun" by doing things like barking out the window, digging through the trash, or chewing on things they shouldn't. Constantly being bored can put our dogs in a negative mood and so also result in your dog developing stress or anxiety.
🐕 Enrichment helps tire your dog just like physical activity can! It's best if a dog can get both physical and mental activities in their lives, but if you are unable to physically exercise your dog, extra Enrichment can help tire them out.
🐕 Enrichment comes in many forms! Here you can see Kangaroo ✨️digging✨️ and running around (I covered the hole after), taking a nap after ✨️shredding✨️ a toy, on a hike where I left her ✨️sniff✨️ whatever she wants for as long as she wants, ✨️social bonding✨️ with me in the form of cuddling and playing with another dog, ✨️foraging✨️ for her kibble in the grass (known as scatter feeding), and ✨️training✨️. Other activities include dog sports, puzzle toys, chewing, lick mats, a variety of toys, and more!
Check out each picture and video's caption for more information.
🐕 What's your dog's favorite thing to do?

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! I hope everyone has a wonderful day, whether you participate in this holiday or not.Every d...
28/11/2024

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! I hope everyone has a wonderful day, whether you participate in this holiday or not.
Every day I'm thankful for Roo, but it's always nice to stop and think about what exactly we love about our pets and to be grateful for them.
When we adopted her almost 3 years ago now, we had no idea that she has a fear of some people. While this has made some days harder than others (she has vastly improved), it doesn't outweigh all the good times I've had with her.
I am grateful that if I sit on the couch she runs right over to join me, that she loves to roll around in the grass and make little "piggy" noises, that she gets so excited to see me when I come home- her butt never wiggles that hard any other time, that she stares into my eyes with such a loving look when we cuddle, that when she wants me to pet her she (almost literally) throws my arm in the air with her nose, that she loves to go hiking, and so much more.

11/11/2024

If there is only one thing everyone should know about dogs, it's how to greet them.

🐾 We humans have around 6 million scent receptors.
Dogs have an average of 300 million.
You do not need to reach your hand out for a dog to smell you. They smelled you before you even saw them.
🐾 Hands going over the head feels scary for dogs, most generally do not like it, especially from people they don't know or trust yet.
🐾 Hugging or grabbing with two hands is exceptionally confrontational for a dog. Just don't do it. If it is your own dog, make sure you have their consent. If you want to learn more about consent in dogs, let me know, I can help you learn!
🐾 Direct eye contact is such a simple thing that can trigger a big emotional response. You know how dogs always greet each other by going around the side to smell the hind end? It's partially because of the information they get from those hind end scents, but it is also greatly in part because face to face, eye to eye, physical communication is usually aggressive.
🐾 Kind of like with children, they will be calmer if you are calmer. If you are high pitched and high energy, their energy will match yours. Dogs are similar, except that when their energy gets high, it ca. Easily lead to over excitement, barking, nips, jumping, and full contact bites. It's also really scary for a dog who isn't used to that person's high energy. So just be slow, calm, and neutral.
🐾 Again, this goes back to the face-to-face = conflict or confrontation. What is a loving, sweet gesture for humans, is a major invasion of space for our dogs, and they may be very quick to ask for space the only way they know how: a bite.

Thank you, Doggie Drawings by Lili Chin, for another wonderfully informative drawing.







I hope everyone had a safe and fun Halloween!Roo did really well. She doesn't care about decorations (and in fact loves ...
01/11/2024

I hope everyone had a safe and fun Halloween!
Roo did really well. She doesn't care about decorations (and in fact loves checking out new things!) and even though people looked at little different she did very well with that as well.
Thank goodness for muzzles made to prevent dogs from eating things with candy and wrappers all over the ground now! She's been making progress with leaving food things alone, but sometimes the temptation is too great or not seen by me in time.
Did any of your pets dress up for the holiday? I'd love to see!

There have been a lot of places in and around Asheville that have been hit by Helene and need help, and this is one of t...
18/10/2024

There have been a lot of places in and around Asheville that have been hit by Helene and need help, and this is one of them. Misfit Mountain is a small rescue with huge hearts that help animals of all kinds from dogs and cats to pigs and chickens.

For those of you who know that I am in Asheville, NC, we are all safe. We are very lucky that the area we live in did no...
06/10/2024

For those of you who know that I am in Asheville, NC, we are all safe. We are very lucky that the area we live in did not get hit as hard as other places, just downed trees and power lines in roads in my neighborhood. My partner and I made the decision to leave the state after a few days to stay with family due to lack of water and scarce resources. Roo and our cat, Koala, are with us and safe as well.
I hope others that were affected by Helene are safe as well 💜 The community has been absolutely amazing as neighbors help neighbors and small businesses are trying to help as much as they can despite their own losses.
Make sure to practice plenty of self care, like Roo here, as you get through this disaster.

Happy   ! Here's to all the furry friends who make our lives more fulfilling and who are always there for you.
26/08/2024

Happy ! Here's to all the furry friends who make our lives more fulfilling and who are always there for you.

15/07/2024

Have you ever heard of a scratch board? They are fantastic to help wear your dog's nails down without having to even touch your dog! These are great to use while you get your dog more used to getting their nails trimmed as it can take some time.
If you'd like some help in learning how to get your dog to tolerate nail trims, visit https://canine-cohesion.com/ to get in touch with us!

Roo wanted to let you know that everyone is valid, welcome, and safe to work with us, always.    ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
01/06/2024

Roo wanted to let you know that everyone is valid, welcome, and safe to work with us, always. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

As many of you saw in a previous post of mine, I've started working with The Dog Door, but what I didn't tell you was th...
01/06/2024

As many of you saw in a previous post of mine, I've started working with The Dog Door, but what I didn't tell you was that The Dog Door and a few other business are banning together to create Canine Cohesion Behavior and Enrichment Center! I'm really excited to be a part of this team and can't wait to see what we accomplish!
If you want to work together please visit https://canine-cohesion.com/ to learn more. If you are a current client you do not have to do this.
If you have any questions feel free to reach out!

📣BIG NEWS!!!📣

We are growing!

Horizon Dog Behavior will be collaborating with a few other fantastic businesses as part of Canine Cohesion Behavior and Enrichment Center!

We have the same amazing people on our team including founder, Desiree Beauchamp Bales plus a few more who we will introduce soon!

In addition to serving the Greenville, SC area…

We will now also serve the Asheville, NC area and meet with you at The Dog Door! The Dog Door

Our amazing vet partner is Dr. Hilliard of Feeling Pawsitive Veterinary Behavioral Solutions! Feeling Pawsitive Veterinary Behavioral Solutions

And we love meeting your dog’s play, enrichment, and training needs at Happy Tails Country Club! Happy Tails Country Club

We are so excited to share more info and details soon so stay tuned!!

I hope everyone had a great Memorial day weekend! We traveled to visit family for a birthday and it was a wonderful time...
28/05/2024

I hope everyone had a great Memorial day weekend! We traveled to visit family for a birthday and it was a wonderful time.

Do you have a confident dog?It's been a heartwarming journey to watch Roo get more and more confident with herself. When...
23/05/2024

Do you have a confident dog?
It's been a heartwarming journey to watch Roo get more and more confident with herself. When I first adopted her she refused to walk on metal surfaces like manhole covers, hesitated to even get her paws wet in standing water, needed encouragement she could perform certain physical tasks that I knew she could do like go over and under downed trees, and didn't make it a point to investigate much in her environment.
Now? She walks on metal like it's any other kind of surface, this past week went up to her shoulders in calm water and will walk in faster streams, now maneuvers around downed trees easily, walks on unstable surfaces more readily, and likes to check out everything! She also now uses her paws more by digging at things she finds in the dirt and puts her paws up on things like trees and our windowsill, which she never did before.
What caused this change? I never forced her to do anything. If she didn't want to go in the water, I didn't push her in. If she felt uncomfortable trying to go over a tree, I picked her up myself or found an alternative route. For everything, I always let her go at her own pace and rewarded/praised her for any new attempt at any of her challenges.
There are many ways to help build confidence in your dog, besides letting them explore at their own pace. Did you know one of those ways is actually positive reinforcement training? This training method builds successes in our dogs, and just like humans, the more success we have, the more confident we feel in our abilities. "101 Things to do with a Box" is also a great starting point to getting your dog more confident and encouraging them to try new things.

18/04/2024

*IMPORTANT UPDATE*
Hey everyone! Recently I have accepted a position to join a dog training company called The Dog Door in Asheville, NC. I am really excited to work with this amazing team of other dog trainers and continue to grow as a trainer!
What does this mean for There For You Dog Training, LLC? For any new clients that wish to work with me, you will contact The Dog Door to move forward. For any of my current clients, nothing will change!
I will not be spending much time, if any, on producing videos as was mentioned before, and if I decide to keep posting Blog posts it may not be every month anymore. All of this depends on extra time I have going forward.
If anyone has any questions about anything, feel free to comment here or reach out privately!

Sorry I haven't been very active recently, there's some things going on behind the scenes and I have an announcement I'l...
01/04/2024

Sorry I haven't been very active recently, there's some things going on behind the scenes and I have an announcement I'll be making soon about all of that, so stay tuned!
For now, here's a new blog post on all things muzzles for this month: Why dogs use them (there's more reasons than aggressive behaviors!), the different types, how to muzzle condition your dog, and proper fit.

I go over how to muzzle train your dog, the different reasons why dogs wear muzzles, different types of muzzles, and proper fit.

It's a beautiful day to volunteer to walk some shelter pups 💜 We practiced some check ins and loose leash walking while ...
21/03/2024

It's a beautiful day to volunteer to walk some shelter pups 💜 We practiced some check ins and loose leash walking while we were out!

12/03/2024

Dogs behave the way they do for many reasons. They do NOT do things deliberately to be stubborn or ‘naughty’, nor do they aim to assert control. Outdated mythologies and training methods have detrimental effects on well-being and strain the relationship between a dog and their caregiver.

🧬A dog's breed and genetic makeup can play a significant role in determining certain behavioural traits. Dogs have genetic predispositions and breed-specific tendencies that contribute to their behaviour.
Some breeds are predisposed to specific behaviours, such as herding, hunting, or guarding.

The environment in which a dog is raised and lives can profoundly impact their behaviour. Early socialisation, which involves exposing a puppy to a wide range of people, animals, and environments during their critical developmental period, is crucial for building confidence and shaping a dog's social behaviour to reduce fear or aggression.

Overstimulation can cause all kinds of unwanted behaviours as it overwhelms their senses and can lead to hyperactivity or erratic responses. For example, if a dog is exposed to loud noises, multiple people, and various stimuli all at once, or on a daily basis, they might exhibit excessive excitable behaviour, poor impulse control, become agitated and exhibit behaviours like jumping, barking, or pulling on the leash, as their senses are overwhelmed by the excessive input.

Previous experiences and learning consequences can influence a dog's behaviour. Traumatic experiences, in particular, can lead to fear, anxiety, or aggression.

How a dog is trained and educated by their caregiver or handler can significantly affect their behaviour. Consistent, positive reinforcement-based training can lead to desired behaviours, while harsh or inconsistent methods can result in confusion or fear.

A dog's health, including their physical and mental well-being, can influence their behaviour. Illness, pain, or discomfort can lead to changes in behaviour.

A dog's emotional state, including fear, anxiety, and excitement, can affect their behaviour. For example, a fearful dog may display unpredictable defensive reactive behaviours or might avoid any encounters and run away trying to hide. While a confident dog may exhibit playfulness and a relaxed demeanour.

A dog can become frustrated and destructive if their mental and physical needs are not met. This dog, full of pent-up energy and boredom, may become frustrated and exhibit poor impulse control. In their frustration, they might resort to destructive behaviours, such as chewing furniture, digging up the garden, or incessant barking. This destructive behaviour is often an expression of their frustration and an attempt to alleviate their built-up energy and mental stress.

The type of diet a dog receives can significantly influence their behaviour, with high-quality nutrition promoting better energy levels, mood, and overall well-being, while poor diet choices can lead to issues like irritability, hyperactivity, or digestive problems.

As dogs age, they may experience canine cognitive decline, which can manifest as changes in memory, learning, and behaviour. This condition can lead to increased confusion, disorientation, and altered social interactions in older dogs.

It is really important to understand that each dog is unique, and their behaviour can vary widely, even within the same breed. Dogs use body language, vocalizations, and other forms of communication to express their needs, emotions, and intentions. Understanding a dog's communication cues is essential for interpreting their behaviour.

Did you know there's several things people do wrong when greeting a dog, including putting your hand out for them to sni...
04/03/2024

Did you know there's several things people do wrong when greeting a dog, including putting your hand out for them to sniff? Check out this months blog on the right, and wrong, ways to greet a dog properly to make sure you aren't unintentionally stressing out those you meet and interact with.

There’s a Right Way, and a Wrong Way Do you ever see a cute dog or puppy and think to yourself “I really want to say hi!” and you start marching over to them? There are a couple of myths on how to greet a dog properly still floating about, and there are some things we do that we don’t realiz...

01/03/2024

Behaviour = Communication.

There is a tendency to put behaviour into one of two categories: 'good' or 'bad', labels which move us away from the realisation that we need to understand the 'why' of the behaviour.

The truth is that there is no 'good' or 'bad' behaviour. It is all simply behaviour. It is something that tells us about how the dog feels in that moment.

The 'good' behaviours, the ones we like, generally mean that the dog is happy, relaxed, joyful, excited, and these are occurring in a context that we humans like.

The 'bad' behaviours will see the dog doing things we don't like, such as barking a lot, pulling on the lead, growling, etc. These we can find problematic, and we will often want those behaviours to stop.

The most important thing we can do is look at the situation and try to work out why the behaviour is happening. Is the dog barking and/or growling because something is making them uncomfortable in that situation? Are they pulling on the lead because they haven't really been fully shown how to walk on a loose lead? Are they trying to run away from something that has scared them?

When we can understand the why, we can begin to understand what our dogs need in that situation and, if the behaviour is one that we find difficult and shows that the dog is struggling in a situation, we can find kind and gentle ways to make it easier on both of us.

If you have a dog who is struggling in certain situations you may find my on-demand 'Supporting a 'Reactive' Dog' webinar useful which can be found here: https://www.goodguardianship.com/challenge-page/supporting-a-reactive-dog

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