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If you have read The Guide to a Happy Pet and would like help creating an agreement between you and a future pet or for a current pet, please send an email to the author, Kelly O'Tillery.

Thank you to all the hardworking amazing nurses who care for us in times of need!
12/05/2023

Thank you to all the hardworking amazing nurses who care for us in times of need!

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All true, think about this before you adopt a pet.
19/11/2020

All true, think about this before you adopt a pet.

No words needed....

22/08/2020

Check out my member profile interview in the Publishers & Writers of San Diego Newsletter

PWM: What aspect of publishing or writing are you involved in?
Kelly: I’m a writer and author, and sales representative for ETC Publishing.

PWM: What first attracted you to writing?
Kelly I got hooked on Nancy Drew books when I was a kid and discovered I love to read, which led to me reading a lot of books on many different topics, mostly nonfiction. I also love learning and teaching, and I have a real thirst for knowledge and information. It seemed a natural progression to share in written form what I’m learning, experiencing, and observing on my journey in life.

PWM: What is your previous experience in writing?
Kelly I’ve written a book of poetry, numerous articles, and columns on health and personal development, for a variety of publications, mainly magazines and trade journals. When I worked in the real estate field, I wrote a monthly column covering the current real estate market and held classes to educate first-time home buyers on the many aspects of qualifying and purchasing a home.

PWM: What was your most recent writing project?
Kelly: My book, The Guide to a Happy Pet: Creating a Loving Bond, was published late last year. I felt compelled to write the book when I learned that approximately 6.5 million companion animals are surrendered to shelters in this country every year, according to the ASPCA.
The book is intended to guide readers to consider the responsibilities, challenges, and commitment—along with the joys—of pet guardianship. My hope is the book will help people make the best decisions for themselves and for the pet they ultimately adopt. It’s my small effort to reduce the number of animals entering shelters every year.

Specifically, my book covers the needs and requirements of six popular (common) pets. The reader is encouraged to consider the many facets of caring for and sharing their life with a pet, including their expectations, investment of time, energy, and resources. I also encourage people to view the world from the animal’s perspective, which gives them a much more comprehensive understanding of the human/animal experience. The book also introduces a new and unique concept for establishing good communication and rapport with a pet, as well as tips for deepening the bond people share with their pet.

PWM: What are you working on now?
Kelly: I am working on a follow-up book. In this book I share the stories of people who have worked with the concepts and techniques introduced in The Guide to a Happy Pet, and how the book helped them with various aspects of pet guardianship.

PWM: How long have you been a member of PWSD, and what’s your objective in joining?
Kelly: I’ve been a member for 10 years. When I moved here from Washington State in 2010, I was aware the publishing industry was shifting. I expect it will go through many changes and transforma-tions in the coming years. I knew it would be challenging to keep up with all the changes on my own. I was super excited to find such a vibrant group of people focused on educating writers about the business of writing and publishing.

PWM: What guidance or a lesson learned can you offer PWSD members?
Kelly: The publishing industry is very dynamic and fast paced now. It’s almost impossible for an individual writer to keep up with everything. I’ve found PWSD to be a valuable source of information regarding so many aspects of writing and publishing, especially marketing and promoting. I often encourage writers I know to join PWSD and attend meetings so they can keep up with current trends and opportunities in the industry.

PWM: What’s another factoid from your life or experience that people would find interesting and that would help us know a little more about you?
Kelly: During the past 26 years, I’ve lived in five states in the U.S. Living in different areas of the country has given me the opportunity to experience different cultures, customs, lifestyles, food, and climates. I’ve also had the opportunity to build relationships with people I otherwise would have never met. Living in different places has enriched my life and expanded my mind in so many ways. It’s been amazing!

10/08/2020

Clear the shelters - August 2020
https://www.sdhumane.org/about-us/news-center/press-releases/monthlong-adoption-drive-to-1.pdf

19/05/2020

Grocery stores and pharmacies are stocked with row upon row of human vitamins. With so many options for us, it is completely logical that we wonder if our

19/05/2020
If you find a seemingly orphaned baby animal, it’s best to wait and watch before intervening. Great info!
18/04/2020

If you find a seemingly orphaned baby animal, it’s best to wait and watch before intervening. Great info!

Despite everything that’s going on in the world, nature continues to jump into spring. At Project Wildlife, we’ve taken in more than 2,800 animals so far this year, compared to 2,600 at this point last year. Most of the patients we’re seeing are desert cottontails, hummingbirds, squirrels, bab...

Today is National Pet Day!! Pet's enrich our life in so many ways. Give your pet extra affection and appreciation today ...
11/04/2020

Today is National Pet Day!! Pet's enrich our life in so many ways. Give your pet extra affection and appreciation today for all they do for you!

Social distancing, a lack of work and the kids home all the time now have many of you considering adopting a pet. This i...
04/04/2020

Social distancing, a lack of work and the kids home all the time now have many of you considering adopting a pet. This is an emotional time but the choice to adopt a pet must be balanced with the practical reality of caring for a pet. Your current lifestyle and daily routine may be much different than usual so it’s important to think about how much time you and or family members will be able to devote to caring for a pet under normal circumstances. Do your research before deciding on a pet, find out how much attention, play, walks, mental stimulation, and exercise the pet requires. Think about whether you and your family will be able to accommodate all of the pets’ needs.

Each member of the family, a roommate or anyone you share your home with should be involved in the decision to adopt a pet. What do you do if you want a cat, your husband or significant other wants a dog, or the kids want a rabbit? Everyone should have the opportunity to share their thoughts about a specific pet and why the animal is important to them. Listen to each other and acknowledge different preferences, points of view, needs, fears and concerns. If everyone is not in agreement it will create a difficult environment for all, and especially for the pet. Taking a practical approach to adopting a pet will help everyone recognize the challenges, opportunities and responsibilities associated with different pets.

Consider your home environment, do you live in a house with a big yard, or a small apartment or condo with no yard? Are your neighbors close enough to hear a dog barking or a noisy bird? Do you feel comfortable walking a dog in your neighborhood? If you're renting does your lease allow pets, specifically, the type or breed you want to adopt?

Will the added expense for food, supplies, accessories, training and or daycare fit comfortably into your monthly budget? Factor in vaccinations, veterinarian care and the cost to have someone take care of your pet while you’re away.

The Guide to a Happy Pet, Creating a Loving Bond is a great resource for information on a variety of common pets.

The kittens are coming and they need your support!
25/03/2020

The kittens are coming and they need your support!

As our community faces this challenging time, kitten season in San Diego is still kicking off in full force. In the coming months, regardless of what else is happening in the world, San Diego Humane Society will provide lifesaving care for more than 3,500 fragile kittens!

It's National Puppy Day! And it's also puppy and kitten season. If you're feeling lonely at home during this social dist...
23/03/2020

It's National Puppy Day! And it's also puppy and kitten season. If you're feeling lonely at home during this social distancing period maybe this would be a good time to adopt a furry companion. Photo credits to ID 1305486
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Kids at home? Check this out.
19/03/2020

Kids at home? Check this out.

If your family is staying home and practicing social distancing, we have some good news. Kids can now enjoy our humane education program from the comfort of home!

All cat people know you can't keep a cat out of the suitcase. Your cat will love this!
15/03/2020

All cat people know you can't keep a cat out of the suitcase. Your cat will love this!

Two old suitcase bottoms and some table legs and you have yourself a cat bunk bed!

This is so sweet!
28/02/2020

This is so sweet!

Our Teeny Tiny Paw Ring has 70% off this week! 😻🎁 Made from premium real silver!
Order here → https://pawsomecouture.com/tiny

Easter is Sunday, April 12th this year. Stores are already putting out Easter related items so I thought it would be a g...
26/02/2020

Easter is Sunday, April 12th this year. Stores are already putting out Easter related items so I thought it would be a good time to talk about rabbits and children. Easter is a great example of how a holiday can popularize a specific type of animal. Lots of “Easter Bunnies” are adopted for children every year, but rabbits are not necessarily the perfect pet for young children. Domesticated rabbits require a lot of care, attention and maintenance, including rabbit proofing your home. Before you adopt an Easter Bunny for a child make sure you understand the needs of the animal as well as the time and energy you'll need to put into caring for the rabbit and teaching your child how to handle their new bunny.

There's a section in my book about a pet-nup. A pet-nup is a legal document between two people which covers how a pet wi...
10/02/2020

There's a section in my book about a pet-nup. A pet-nup is a legal document between two people which covers how a pet will be cared for if the relationship ends and the couple choose to share guardianship of their pet. The February 6, 2020 edition of the San Diego Reader had a wonderful article about Loki, a darling wheaten terrier and poodle mix and the two people who have shared custody of her for the past eight years. They didn't have a pet-nup and they didn't need one, they've been able to maintain a friendly relationship sharing custody of Loki. It's a very inspiring story of how things workout well when we keep our pets' best interests at heart.

By Dave Rice, Dryw Keltz, Elizabeth Salaam, Ian Anderson, Jay Allen Sanford, Leorah Gavidor, Matthew Suárez, Patrick Henderson, Samantha St. Pierre, Siobhan Braun, Feb. 5, 2020

As springtime draws near the chance you'll encounter baby wildlife increases. The San Diego Humane Society posts a list ...
07/02/2020

As springtime draws near the chance you'll encounter baby wildlife increases. The San Diego Humane Society posts a list of guidelines for people to follow in the event they find orphaned baby wildlife. This link will take you through the dos and don'ts for dealing with the situation.
https://www.sdhumane.org/about-us/news-center/stories/wildlife-babies.html

Good communication between you and your pet is a vital part of developing a happy and healthy relationship. There are lo...
03/02/2020

Good communication between you and your pet is a vital part of developing a happy and healthy relationship. There are lots of ways to communicate with your pet. Dogs and cats can learn words and they respond to body language and facial expressions. Your pet will also respond to the tone, and pitch of your voice. And you may be surprised to learn some animals will respond to your intentions and the mental images you create. For instance, you can use visualization when training your dog to learn a new behavior. During the training session visualize your dog performing and following through with the behavior it is learning. See my book for more information. https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Happy-Pet-Creating-Loving-ebook/dp/B07YQFPV91/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=The+Guide+to+a+Happy+Pet&qid=1572984410&s=books&sr=1-3

In this informative and easily accessible book, author Kelly O'Tillery brings into focus an important aspect of living with and loving a pet. Our pets are connected to us on a physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual level. For many of us, sharing our lives with a beloved pet enriches us on the...

07/01/2020

ETC Publishing

Here is author Kelly O'Tillery signing her book "The Guide To A Happy Pet" at an event in Carlsbad.

16/12/2019

Thought it would be a good idea to repost this since we're in the middle of gift giving season.
It's important to talk with your child about a pet before you bring one home. Of course, it can be fun to surprise your child with a new pet, but first make sure it’s the right pet for your child, and for your family. Find out why your child wants a pet. Do they want a dog to play fetch in the backyard, or park? Or a small pet, Guinea Pig or hamster they can keep in their room. Or a kitten because their friend has one and they want a kitten too. Consider your child’s current commitments; school, homework, after-school and weekend activities, sports, clubs, etc. Returning a pet is difficult for everyone involved, especially the animal. Make every effort to make a good and informed decision when choosing a pet.

13/12/2019
The Guide To A Happy Pet: Creating A Loving Bond

The Guide to a Happy Pet Creating a Loving Bond makes a great holiday gift for an animal loving friend or family member. The book covers six common pets: dogs, cats, rabbits, birds, reptiles and Guinea Pigs. https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Happy-Pet-Creating-Loving-ebook/dp/B07YQFPV91/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=The+Guide+to+a+Happy+Pet&qid=1572984410&s=books&sr=1-3

In this informative and easily accessible book, author Kelly O'Tillery brings into focus an important aspect of living with and loving a pet. Our pets are connected to us on a physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual level. For many of us, sharing our lives with a beloved pet enriches us on the...

01/12/2019
Project Wildlife | San Diego Humane Society

A few months ago I was driving in Carlsbad when I saw an injured hawk hopping along the sidewalk, he/she had been injured and couldn't fly so I called Project Wildlife. They arrived in 30 minutes and took the hawk in for treatment. Awesome! https://www.sdhumane.org/assets/profiles/project-wildlife.html

The Project Wildlife program has been dedicated to educating the community about wildlife as well as providing injured, orphaned and sick wild animals a second chance at life since 1972. This commitment to helping wild animals has grown tremendously since the 2014 merger with San Diego Humane Societ...

01/12/2019

Do you know the official state pet of California is a shelter pet?

15/11/2019

With the number of overweight and obese pets in the U.S. reaching epidemic levels, diseases associated with excess weight like OA are also on the rise. According to the report, Banfield has witnessed a 66% increase of OA in dogs and 150% increase in cats over the past 10 years. Banfield Pet Hospital®'s Ninth Annual State Of Pet Health Report® Tackles Weighty Issue Of Osteoarthritis

08/11/2019

Films, commercials, dog shows, holidays and celebrities have all generated mass appeal for a specific breed or type of pet. Dalmatians became popular after the release of a Disney movie, a few celebrities popularized Teacup dogs, many rabbits are adopted for children every year because of Easter holiday, even exotic species are vulnerable to fads. Before you run out and adopt a super cute dog like the one in your current favorite movie, educate yourself about the animal. Talk to people at the Humane Society, shelters, a veterinarian, breeder, or rescue organization, then decide if this is the best pet for you or your family.

06/11/2019

It's important to talk with your child about a pet before you bring one home. Of course, it can be fun to surprise your child with a new pet, but first make sure it’s the right pet for your child, and for your family. Find out why your child wants a pet. Do they want a dog to play fetch in the backyard, or park? Or a small pet, Guinea Pig or hamster they can keep in their room. Or a kitten because their friend has one and they want a kitten too. Consider your child’s current commitments; school, homework, after-school and weekend activities, sports, clubs, etc.

04/11/2019

Living agreements are beliefs, attitudes and habits that influence our choice of pet, our expectations of a pet, and ultimately the relationship we have with our pet. The roots of living agreements are found in childhood experiences with pets, your family’s attitude about pets, how society influences your perception of pets and observing people interacting with their pets.
Example of a living agreement. "I expect my dog to quietly and patiently wait for me to return home from work each day. She should not bark, chew on my shoes, or get on the furniture."
We generally don’t question our living agreements, nor do we consider them from the animal’s point of view. We expect our pet will simply understand and respond accordingly.

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