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03/04/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.
𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐞❌ - 𝐏𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐞✅
𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞 ❌ - 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞 ✅

“Prospone” is arguably one of the oldest English language mistakes, it is the wrong pronunciation of the word “Postpone”.

Postpone actually means to cause or arrange for (something) to take place at a time later than that first scheduled.

Example. The football game was postponed due to heavy rainfall.

Still in the same line, “Procastinate” is the wrongly spelled version of “Procrastinate” which means to delay or postpone action; put off doing something but in this case mostly for no tangible reasons.

Example. I always procrastinate on doing laundry till almost all my dresses are dirty.

In essence, postpone mostly have to do with unforeseen circumstances while to procrastinate is always attached to laziness.

Allen.

02/04/2024

Breaking Local political news.

A joint congress of the senate and parliament chaired by the president of parliament Cavayé Yéguié Djibril today administered oath to two new members of the constitutional council.

The New contitutional council members are;
Minkoa She Adolphe &
Logmo Mbelek Aaron.

Note that the constitutional council has 11 members selected from former administrators, law lecturers and magistrates.

Florence Rita Arrey, the only female member of the constitutional council was absent due to health concerns.

The eleven members of the institution are appointed for six years eventually renewable. Appointed by the Head of State, they are designated according to Section 51 of the constitution as follows:

- Three members including the President of the council by the President of the Republic;

- Three by the Speaker of the National Assembly with the bureau’s approval;

- Three by the Chairman of the Senate with bureau's approval;

- And two by the Supreme Magistracy Council.

We thank the head of state.

02/04/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.

𝐋𝐞𝐭’𝐬 & 𝐋𝐞𝐭𝐬.

“Let’s” is a contraction of “let & us.” You use it to make suggestions about what you and someone else should do or not do.

Example: Let’s go to the movies, Let’s cook fufu corn, please it’s too early let’s not argue.

“Lets” without an apostrophe after “t”means to allow or give permission.

Example: If Mom lets us go to the movies without her, I’ll be surprised, football lets out our emotions.

Allen.

01/04/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.
𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐯𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐧𝐭/𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐯𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞.

These nouns are used to describe someone who has the ability to see things beyond the normal range of vision.

They come from the root French words clair (clear) and voyant (to see).

“Clairvoyant/Clairvoyance” does not only refer to someone who has exceptional (above average) intuition (ability to perceive things).

The word usually implies that the ability is supernatural (cannot be easily explained by science).

Example:
There’s a prophet in Cameroon going around deceiving gullible people with predictions, tip offs and suggestions claiming to be clairvoyant.

Or, predicting the exact score of a football game before it’s even played is such an act of clairvoyance.

In essence, someone who sees things before time is a clairvoyant while the ability to see things before time is clairvoyance.

WORDS RELATED TO CLAIRVOYANCE

acumen, discernment, telepathy.

Allen.

31/03/2024

I have been posting here that be should be very careful about how we bring things on social media.

A few hours ago Pius Bery tagged me on a post related to law which I’ve decided to reply here so others can learn.

We have to understand now that social justice is becoming more prevalent than traditional justice systems .

Because of the above, there’s a very serious Cold War going on between traditional law and social media justice.

Once your matter is brought before any justice institution and the place of commission is as on social and they can apprehend you, they make sure the highest punishment possible is meted on you so that it serves like deterrence to other would be defaulters.

That’s what is happening with VDM of Nigeria, he jokingly said police officers are sleeping with Bobrisky and that’s why he/she has never been arrested for LGBT crimes.

If someone owes you money, in an attempt to get your money back, before coming online, make sure you’ve exploited all the remedies put in place by law, file a complaint at the nearest judicial police office or legal department.

What makes up every country is its laws, if they are left into the hands of individuals, the sovereignty of the state will be threatened.

Remember a debt must be due, liquid and owing and only the competent authorities can prove this, bringing it on social media will bypass the above conditions and will be an interference with justice.

A debt for example should not also emanate from an illegal contract.

These and many more are why I’ll advise that always take your matters to the authorities before bringing it to facebook, facebook people will hype you but if you attend that convocation and they send you inside, nobody from facebook will come to your rescue.

Let’s be guided.

31/03/2024

The other day I made a post about a vendor who wanted to sell me a plate of cornchaff for about 2000frs.

I saw a lot of people coming to justify the vendor on basis that things have become expensive and that the price is not that bad.

This is the exact reason why we will suffer in this country till we all diě.

You are supporting such gross profiteering because in your conscience, you’re doing almost same in your own business.

Why should a vendor buy a “takeaway” disposable plate for 150frs and tax a client 500frs for it ? Add logic to this let me learn.

If I’m coming to eat at your restaurant and here your spend on electricity for air conditioning, pay extra staff, pay rents etc I’ll understand and that’s why I posted and appreciated a plate of food at Njieforbi for 3500frs.

You people will start saying fish and canda inside bla bla, do you know how many slices of canda can come out of canda for 500fs ? Just accept that you people want more than what you deserve.

When you want to justify cheating you start saying “ a cup of beans costs this, a liter of oil cost this etc”, do restaurant owners buy a single cup of beans at a go ?

I’m trying that we put a regulatory body in our midst since the government only have price control laws which are short on implementation.

It seems as many people don’t understand this profiteering thing, the other day my Kid brother Bo Ris said it is wrong to buy a phone for 40k and put the cost price at 70k and people were there arguing that it is business bla bla, did you even read that well ?

Why should you buy something for 40k and say you bought it for 70k ? So that you can sell for 100k. Remember this is coming from an honest young man who SELLS PHONES.

Let us be honest for once, is it logical to buy something for 40k and sell for 100k ?
The next time you go to buy from your supplier, he must have heard that you sold the 40k item for 100k and that’s how he’ll now sell to you at 60k so that you can go and sell for 120k and that’s how the poor keep being swindled.

This is the same thing going on in the food chain, mane of these mothers in the village markets use to sell 4 cups of beans for 100frs till they heard you buys sell a plate in the cities for 1500frs hence they increased their own prices for no reason.

Cameroon has the highest iPhone prices I’ve seen in the world, people buy phones for 100k and sell for 300k, is that still business?

If the above are not regulated, the poor will continue working for the rich.

I always remind us that this is not about me ! I can cry and afford the above mentioned things at those rates but is it logical ? What about the very poor people ?

Anyways, I’ll not talk about this topic again but ask yourself if this is how we are going to emerge or everyone should just be making money any how.

Allen.

31/03/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.
𝐀𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐬.

You describe something with the adjective “amorous” when it concerns sèxual love.

The word comes from the Latin amor, which means “love.”

Typically, you hear this used to describe a relationship or the way lovers are with each other.

Example: John and Jane had an amorous relationship that led to marriage.

The essence of this lesson is that with such a beautiful word gaining popularity recently, English users have started misusing it with some people using it to describe love between parents and children, siblings etc which is incorrect.

Happy Easter Family.

30/03/2024

When life knocks you, fall down and continue fighting from the ground, sometimes trying to stay up will get you more unnecessary blows.

You run out of money and become Broke, don’t try to show the world and people who don’t matter that you’re fine, work from your low key position and get back to the top.

Many times everyone sees you struggling to be what you’re not except you, chill, the internet has shrunk the world.
People now know even what entails in your bedroom, stop trying to prove a senseless point.

That marriage failed ? Drop that fake ring, take off all those marriage pictures, accept the reality, heal and make sure you heal completely, stop trying to fool people, you’re actually fooling yourself.

You failed that exams ? Cry if possible, wipe your tears, think of what next, prepare harder, go again till you win.

That business collapsed ? Stop paying the landlord without opening the business doors just so you can lie to the world that you’re renovating, auction what you can auction, close the doors, give the landlord back their keys, go home and think of what next.

You got scammed while trying to travel abroad and you’re stranded in Nigeria, Yaounde or Douala ? Go back to your base, accept the reality while waiting for any recompense if any, but don’t become a shadow of yourself, go back and think of what next.

If you can succeed without failing, that’ll be perfect but if you succeed after failure, you’ll be invincible.

There’s no shame in struggling while you’re trying, just don’t stop, crawl until you gather enough energy to stand.

Allen.

30/03/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.

𝐑𝐢𝐬𝐞 / 𝐑𝐨𝐬𝐞 & 𝐑𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐧.

Rise: The word “rise” refers to the action of moving upward or becoming higher. It commonly describes things like the sun or temperature going up, or individuals standing or getting up from a sitting or lying position.

Essentially, the term captures the idea of elevation or ascent, both in a physical and metaphorical sense.

Example: The hot air balloon began to rise gracefully into the sky.

“Rose” on the other hand is the past tense of rise. This is so because it follows the irregular verb pattern in English.

Unlike regular verbs that typically form their past tense by adding “-ed,” irregular verbs have unique forms. In the case of “rise,” the past tense is “rose” (and not rised) to indicate an upward movement that occurred in the past.

Example: Yesterday, the full moon rose in the night sky, illuminating the surroundings with its soft glow.

Risen: “Risen” is the past participle and present perfect form of the verb “rise.” It is used to describe an action of upward movement that has already occurred. Essentially, “risen” is employed to discuss past events of elevation or ascent, serving as a simple way to express actions that have already taken place.

Example: Kocee’s popularity has risen meteorically in Nigeria since the release of his latest single.

Now, after finding out that “Rose” is the past tense of “Rise”, we ask ourselves why we say “He is Risen” on Easter and not “He has “Rose?”

“He has risen” is a traditional saying that dates all the way back to the days of the Bible.

One story goes that after witnessing Jesus’ empty tomb, Mary Magdalene boldly proclaimed to the Roman emperor that “Christ is Risen!”

From the above, we depict that Mary Magdalene was talking about something that just happened, hence it was proper to use the past participle .

So in essence, “He is risen” or “Christ is risen” is a quote from Mary Magdalene and hence should stay like that, this makes sense since this phrase is mostly written in inverted comas.

Another school of thought holds that, “He has risen,” or “He is Risen” also doubles as the present perfect tense of rise and is used when you describe an action that happened in the past, but which still affects the present.

I hope we all know the reason for this lesson, tomorrow is Easter, be guided.

Allen.

29/03/2024

𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐧.

(profiteering is the practice of making or seeking to make an excessive or unfair profit, especially illegally or in a black market. )

Someone tagged me on the attached picture and it sparked something in me.

Do you know why the regime adds prices of basic commodities with impunity?

Because we Cameroonians are too greedy and the government has understood this, the government knows that they can steal from us as much as they want because all we will do is steal from ourselves.

When I came home from Rwanda, was planning a campaign to attack MTN CAMEROON from many fronts including media houses etc because MTN rates are at least 5 times more expensive in Cameroon as compared to Rwanda.

However, I had to delete that post when on Women’s day, after the Nganou fight, I decided to withdraw momo and have a good night, can you imagine that apart from the normal momo withdrawal charge, the guy was charging 350 frs extra ? I accepted in desperation.

The other day I wanted to withdraw 9k from momo and all the agents at the junction told me I’ll have to either possess 1k change so that they can give me a 10k note or they’ll give me 9k and I transfer them 9100frs meaning I buy the change for 100frs.

Next day I took a bike for 200frs, the man insisted 250frs I told him I only have 200frs cash or 250frs momo, he opted for the momo and when we got to my destination he said I should send the 250frs + charges.🤦🏾‍♂️

The other day I accompanied someone to M’vog Betsi market and I overheard an anglophone trader saying and I quote “I prefer when things are expensive, see now price for tomatoes d**g reduce see as the tomatoes stand, better ei dear make man di sell fine”.

Still in the same market, we wanted two kilos of rice, the trader told us that a kilo costs 700frs, I said wow, finally things are being sold in kilos what a great development, when I told him to give me two kilos, he just measured two scoops of rice in a bowl and poured in a plastic bag and was about giving me when I asked him how do I know each of that bowl is 1 kilogram ?

He pointed to me where it was written on the bowl that “1 liter”, I then asked him if every 1 liter is equivalent to 1kg ?
Well just for your knowledge;
uncooked rice = 0.89 kilograms/liter
steamed rice = 0.68 kilograms/liter
You now realize 1L of rice can never be 1kg, well the man bullied me out of his store.

Cameroonians have failed to see momo as a way of simplifying transactions, they rather think it is a way of making additional cash, with the above examples given and which I can give at least 100 other examples in the last month, do you think the government cares about price control?

You collect electricity bills of 5000frs from ENEO, share pieces of papers worth 13000frs to your tenants, a house you built 10 years ago, you add rents last month because of the recent hike in cement prices, how can you justify that ?

One thing I noticed, I’ve never heard price reduction notices in Cameroon, only price increments, in Rwanda (ask those who’ve been there), every 2-3 months when parliament meets, they give an updated price of basic commodities like rice, sugar and especially Potatoes and everyone respects the prices.

Only you and I can fix Cameroon, it has been proven Cameroon can only fix in a bottom to top approach, as we keep spoiling it daily we will only continue complaining.

You reading this post, make it a habit to change at least one habit especially concerning profiteering weekly, we can fix this country as individuals.

Allen.

29/03/2024

Can we take out time to congratulate and appreciate Samuel Eto'o for the massive work he is doing with local football?

Can we feel these playoffs giving English Premier League vibes ? For the first time I can confidently name players from more than 5 elite one teams with their shirt numbers.

Beautiful images on CRTV sports with replays, clean commentaries etc.

Nobody is sure perfect but Eto’o is sure closer to perfection than he is to failure, let us give him his merited flowers and ignore naysayers.

If it is not witchcraft, I’ve never seen where a parastatal attacks another openly, ONIES blocking stadiums for unpaid dues by FECAFOOT is like ENEO ceasing electricity supply from CRTV over unpaid bills, the hate on Eto’o is glaring but God reserves His scariest battles for his toughest soldiers.

Please Thank Samuel Eto’o in the comment section with a tag@

29/03/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.

𝐏𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐧, 𝐏𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐚 & 𝐏𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐥.

Phenomenon means a fact of scientific interest that can be scientifically described, appraised, or explained.

Example. The geography teacher explained the phenomenon of the earth’s movement around the sun with the help of diagrams.

Phenomena is occasionally used as the plural form of phenomenon.

Example. There are many phenomena in nature which one can’t understand with logic.

Phenomenal means extraordinary, outstanding, great etc.

Example. The 15 year old football player had a phenomenal display yesterday.

Allen.

28/03/2024

There’s this phenomenon of wanting to eat what you contributed in an occasion.

There’s no better way to disgrace yourself than the above.

If you must eat what you contributed, just keep your contribution and go to a restaurant and eat what you desire .

Piling up ⬆️ food and holding drinks in your armpit is so classless.

This goes especially to those who contribute in ex students associations annual physical meetings.

Stop limiting yourself to food, the highest people who contribute don’t even care about the food and drinks.

Stop disgracing yourself, nobody will ever take you serious with such an attitude.

They might not tell you but the rest are gossiping you in sub groups.

Allen.

28/03/2024

Good morning family.

In as much as I don’t want to be talking much about clergy, I can categorically say that what will end this world is not Satan’s physical invasion but our acceptance of wrongdoing because it is done by someone we identify with.

How can we accept that it is normal for a clergyman to go online on a live show on TikTok which is arguably the most obscene social media app and try to pair himself with any woman ?

Let me say this here just for saying, the first time I saw a woman use her finger to please herself was on such shows on TikTok, I mean like her finger directly into herself, imagine where a clergyman is looking for a wife.

What happened to all the beautiful and spiritual women in the clergyman’s ministry ? What happened to women he’s studied physically and deem them worthy of a clergy’s wife ?

Note that my position will not be the same if a lady brings screenshots of a clergy man chatting them inbox, in that case I’ll say it is normal for a man of God to have feelings and express them.

Chatting a woman on TikTok live and being turned down in such humiliating manner is nothing worth justifying, the young girl actually schooled the clergy when she said she knows being a clergy’s wife entails some social and moral uprightness of which she is not sure she has the calling.

Let us stop supporting wrong just because it is done by our “right person”, if a clergy is on social media, it should be strictly for televangelism, what the clergy was doing online is nothing but virtual promiscuity.

Imagine Reinhard Bonnke, Benny Hinn, PST.Adeboye, Joshua Selman etc on TikTok looking for women, just imagine how you will see them, that clergyman was the closest thing left of Cameroonian clergymen on the internet, call him out and get him back on his rails if you love him.

Even forget about these high sounding clergymen mentioned above, if your pastor or reverend father in your local church was embarrassed online after trying to “chat” some strange woman on TikTok will you still consider him ?

Wrong remains wrong no matter who does it. There’s no way you can twist it, personally the clergy was wrong ! to be chasing women on TikTok.

Sometimes it is not about being a man of God, it is about respecting yourself, even me here I cannot go to a livestream to look for a partner, talkless if a clergyman, it is just unethical.

Imagine using the pidgin slang “Konji no be any man yi mate” to justify a “Prophet’s” social promiscuity, sometimes let’s fear God.

The standard of judgment today has now fallen to the mantra that, “Since I cannot be as righteous as a man of God, I pray he becomes ignoble as I am”.

Allen.

28/03/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.

𝐈𝐧𝐟𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 & 𝐀𝐟𝐟𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞.

Influence refers to the capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behaviour of someone or something or a given geopolitical area , or the effect itself.

Example: The influence of social media on our kids cannot be overemphasized as they now know more than what we knew when we were their age.

Affluence means the state of having a great deal of money, wealth and financial control over the character, development, or behaviour of someone or something or a given geopolitical area , or the effect itself.

Example: Most politicians use their affluence to stay in power.

In essence, influence deals with sociopolitical power while affluence refers to socioeconomic power.

Allen.

27/03/2024

Why are you trying so hard to prove that you’re the better person financially after your breakup with your partner?

Calm down ! There’s actually more to life than money and most of these things are only understood when you’ve been in situations where money can’t help.

Some other ones will start flaunting beauty/handsomeness or should I say trying to flaunt?

When you start appreciating mental spiritual beauty you’ll realize that physical beauty is overhyped.

Take nothing from people who are physically beautiful, but trust me, there’s more to marriage than physical beauty, marriage is a confinement and what matters in confinements is attitude, character, tolerance etc.

Mental and spiritual beauty is just like buying a piece of land, it appreciates daily while physical beauty is like buying the latest model car, it depreciates with time. !

People cherish peace, people want tranquility, tenacity, mental stability, respect etc.

The above is the reason why many mansions today don’t have homes while many huts 🛖 have homes.

People have started understanding beauty from a blind man’s perspective.

Make sure you see a beautiful image of your spouse when you close your eyes.

Allen.

27/03/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.

𝐁𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐬 & 𝐁𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐬.

Basis means a starting point, base or foundation for an argument or hypothesis when used as a noun.

Example. The Basis of a DNA test is to ascertain paternity.

Bases means foundations or starting points, checkpoints when used as a noun.

Example. The Bases of a pregnancy test are to; check if a lady is pregnant or not, if pregnant, how long etc.

A good way to remember the difference is; Bases is the plural of base while basis is the figurative form of base, just like crisis and crises.

Allen.

26/03/2024

On my follow up post on the DNA issue regarding doing an HIV test at your fiancé’s request, 98% of the women accepted but those same people are against a DNA test.

Do you now realize that refusing to do DNA has nothing to do with lack of trust ?

Dear Men, if something doesn’t add up about the paternity of your child or children, ask for a DNA test, if she refuses, go ahead and do it with the child you doubt, you don’t need to go along with the child or the woman, just a strand of hair from the child’s head is enough.

DNA is now 200k in Cameroon.

And for those saying they don’t care because any child born by a woman you’re legally married to is your child, know that’s customary law and can be challenged in a court of law if the biological father proves he is such.

Stop listening to these stories inside buses when you’re traveling from Douala to Bamenda, there’s more to those laws that cannot be discussed by those African Panaxia sellers.

Allen.

26/03/2024

Ladies ! What Will be your take If 3 days to your wedding, your fiancé insists that you both should do an HIV test even you have an HIV test result you did alone just two days prior which shows you’re negative ?

Will you follow him to do the test or you’ll forget about the wedding ?

26/03/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘:

𝐌𝐚𝐲 & 𝐌𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭.

I think we should start this lesson by highlighting that “may” doubles as the present tense of “might”.

Example. In the present tense, you would say “he may eat the last piece of cake,” but in the past tense, this sentence becomes “he might have eaten the last piece of cake.”

Away from one being the past tense of the other, deciding when to use “may” rather than “might” as verbs can be tricky because the difference between these two verbs is quite small.

They both indicate that something is possible, but “might” suggests slightly more uncertainty than “may.”

Example. “I might take a trip to Gabon next year” means that maybe you will go to Gabon, but maybe you won’t.

“I may have a bottle of beer after dinner” expresses slightly more certainty that you’re going to drink a beer.

So use “May” when chances are higher and “Might” when in doubt.

We should not also forget that both verbs are used tentatively to ask permission or to express a polite request.

Example: May/Might I come in sir ?

Allen.

25/03/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.

𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐬❌
𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭✅

You must have heard a whole lot of people saying “first and famous” while trying to say “first and foremost”.

“First and foremost” means Most important, primarily; also, to begin with, etc.

You use first and foremost to emphasize the most important quality of something or someone.

Example. First and foremost, we need humanitarian aid for the earth quake victims before we start thinking of how to rebuild the community.

Or; first and foremost, “first and famous” is wrong English.

Allen.

24/03/2024

“Folie à deux”

Have you ever heard of the above psychiatric disorder?

Well, Folie à deux (French for "folly of two"), also known as shared psychosis or shared delusional disorder (SDD), is a rare psychiatric syndrome in which symptoms of a delusional belief, and sometimes hallucinations, are "transmitted" from one individual to another.

Do you have those type of neighbors in your neighborhood who are naturally problematic? Like the husband and wife like to quarrel and attack people ?

Have you seen a girl who has been transformed by the boyfriend into eating dóg meat and drinking sachet whisky?

Or, have you noticed how Kanye West has transformed his new girlfriend Bianca Censori into dressing ridiculously as him ?

Those are clear examples of Folie à deux, when dating someone or when you’re close to someone, always reevaluate your steps to see if that person is not leading you into doing some socially awkward things while making them feel normal.

Well, I always teach others with others and pray others learn.

Allen.

24/03/2024

When we talk they say we are jealous, Very Dark Man was overdoing.

There’s a proverb in Ngemba land that says; “Hand wey stay for lass go comot with sh*t”.

You come out to denounce fake body lotions and other fake stuff which is perfect, then after you start getting into unnecessary insults with women online.

Some celebrities still felt your vibe, brought you to the bigger screen, you continue insulting and talking down on women, went to the UK, slept with a lady, came online and painted the lady as cheap.

Unverified, you linked Tonto to a very controversial news blog in Nigeria and claim verbatim that she’s the one running the blog. Now you’ve been arrested over the allegations you made.

Let me use this opportunity and tell all of us something, to make it in life you must be selling a product or rendering a service, in the streets we say “no man nova ever thick for back washing”, in grammar; nobody ever became rich from tips.

Tips can only help you find a footing in your desired field but you will not be able to live off tips.

Somebody like VDM could use all the tips he got from the big boys, plus his impeccable physique and his connection to set up a celebrity Gym in Lagos and be catching out from there but no, he is Mr. Know all.

This is a situation in life where all of us can learn from, you’ll not stay in the limelight forever, use your period of fame wisely.

I wish he learns his lesson and I pray Tonto forgives him.

“Them di dance na for juju wey dey for middle compound, as the juju finish go backside, then start dance for the new one”.

Allen.

24/03/2024

𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘.

𝐏𝐈𝐄𝐂𝐄 𝐎𝐅 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐃 & 𝐏𝐄𝐀𝐂𝐄 𝐎𝐅 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐃.

Piece of mind refers to one’s perspective or opinion.

Example, My neighbor’s music is always so loud, it’s about time I gave him a piece of my mind!”

Whereas peace of mind refers to a mental framework of tranquility:Example all that noise is really hurting my peace of mind.”

23/03/2024

Was just thinking this morning why many men are being fooled about the paternity of children who are not theirs with the latest case of Njitap as a case study.

Many of these men knew from the origin that they are not the biological fathers of these children but thought by accepting children that are not theirs will make them appear lovely and nice before these women.

If you sleep with a woman and impregnate her, most of the times you can actually connect the dots, how could Njitap think that the kids from the wife’s previous marriage were his kids ? Meaning he was surely sleeping with the woman while she was still married or the woman was sleeping with the ex husband while married to Njitap.

Guys, I will say this again, no red flag in a relationship will ever turn green, you will only learn to cope with it or it’ll burn you at one point.

It is evident that Njitap has been enduring this marriage from day one, now he is 45 years old (which we know is a football age), imagine he left that union 5-6 years ago, he could have made a decent family somewhere else with someone who respects him.

I’m sure not a preacher of divorce, I’m only saying that what will make you divorce in 2034 has already started today but somehow you’ll still waste 10 years. Leave when you still have time and energy, I once said if I fight against Ngannou, I’ll fall from the first punch because it makes no sense to fall at the 50th punch with more injury.

I am almost very certain that Njitap has been defending this same woman in front of family and friends on grounds that the woman will change at one point, my dear once you start defending wrong you’re gone ! They’ll manipulate you into a hunting dog, giving you only guts no matter your catch.

I said this before and I will repeat it, there’s a lot of classism in the dating and relationship market, you can be rich all you want but you will hardly broke into a higher social class except you will accept to be the inferior person in the union or the superior person has genuine love for you without which they’ll always remind and troll you about your low class.

Remember money is not class, you and I know at least one very rich but classless person in real life, no matter how much they accumulate, they’ll never be classy.

Dear all, if you can marry from your social class, good and fine if not, marry someone from an inferior class and live and respect with all fairness.

Even in divorce Njitap will still feel the claws of classism, the Fotso woman will pay all authorities off and Njitap will leave empty handed.

You can tolerate many things in the union but you see this “na me pick this thing for gutter washam” avoid such people and the best way of avoiding such people is by empowering yourself so that nobody will ever marry you as doing you a favor.

Men, please upgrade you

Allen.

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