15/03/2024
Who remembers Charlie? Charlie has been a special case for me for some time now. He is owned by one dedicated horse mom, Michaela Orme. This wonderful hidden horse has had a typical kind of start in life for a horse in the modern world. Started late in life and pulled from his comfortable "home", expososed to some people's questionable training tactics and was at one point a boarding barn abandon. But with Charlie, his personality and specific characteristics caused those situations and scenarios to absolutely break him, his spirit, his confidence, his trust and understanding in people. He often acts similar to mustangs, high reactivity, mental shut down or shut out, panic and as I put it, multiple Charlie's depending on equipment, environment and proximity. He has a hard wired defense of an "expectation" behavior depending on what equipment you have and how close you are. And he really hates the "pressure" of two people working with him.
It has been a long road of confidence battles and back slides, mountains of frustration that has been learned to be left behind, and continued belief that with patience, love, understanding you can win back a broken horse. Today, before horrible weather came sweaping through Indiana, while being a heavily windy day, I was able to approach and touch Charlie while Michaela was mounted. This has been a goal for us as a team since the beginning. Not only was I touching and approaching him, but he was absolutely calm. We have worked so hard to not create a learned helplessness with him, we do not force or hold him still to be handled. True calm not a behavior we see with Charlie + people, including his mom even with all her time and effort. You can see him calm with horse friends and eating but calm is not a behavior he understands to be acceptable with people. This moment is the biggest turn in the road we have gotten from him to date. Today was a magical day.