20/03/2024
I started this page years ago to talk about DOGs. I've tried to close it, but you know FB :-(
But please, people keep to talking about dogs, and talking nicely about dogs
The beach is a marvelous place! Juno and I walk there together nearly every morning.
But this morning my heart broke a little.
First, we passed a few very frustrated dogs who were barking incessantly at their humans. They had a stick or ball and they wanted to play while their person ignored them the entire walk (from what I could see).
Second, we saw more than one dog whose human only engaged with them when they did something their human didn't want them to do. And thus, the only engagement they had with their human was "getting told off."
🐾 Dogs are social animals. They want to engage, and play, and be heard. You cannot expect them to just go off and entertain themselves. That's a completely unrealistic expectation in most situations.
🐶 If you are worried about too much fetch having an impact on their joints, okay! I get it! However, some fetch isn't detrimental to most dogs. Have a little play and teach a cue to signal when you are done and move on to something else that is also fun. If the beach is too difficult of an environment for that, try walking somewhere else!
🙈Don't ignore your dog when they are trying to communicate. Acknowledge them, validate their feelings, and give them some viable alternatives!
🐾 Alternatives? Yes! Alternative behaviour options for alternative ways to engage with you and alterative ways to gain some reinforcement! Up on stumps, spin, touch, search, dig for treats, weave through your legs, whatever they like to do with you!
🐶 Think about it, why would they ever engage with you at your request when it's so unpleasant? Make sure you have fun together
🐩 Bored dogs will seek boredom busting behaviours. If you give them some (public) appropriate activities to do, they won't make up their own activities that end up in you grumbling at them! Can you imagine always getting in trouble for things you didn't know were inappropriate to begin with?
**This does not mean they have to stay focused on you the entire walk! If they want to stop and smell the poo, roll in dead things, dig a hole, or run some zoomies, let them be! Maybe they want to amble along or stop to watch the seagulls bicker. Maybe they are busy enjoying sniffing the sniffs. There are lots of different things to do on a walk together.
And, everyone is different. Some dogs prefer doing their own thing for the most part (just make sure it's not because you are no fun). Some prefer social interactions. They will all have their own preferences about how they would choose to spend their time given the opportunity.
Here are some fun things to do to stay engaged with your dog:
1. Urban parkour: Up, through, under, and around various obstacles.
2. Play with them! Juno loves a good game of chase or tug (though I am not nearly fast enough).
3. Stop and have a snuggle. We often will stop at a bench or log on the beach, and have a little scratchy time. Sometimes she wants to snuffle around the sand and do her own thing. Provided she isn't raiding someone's picnic, go for it!
4. Play in the waves
5. Investigate new things together. "Hey, look at this weird giant barnacle, Juno!"
6. Let them ask for treats. If Juno is so inclined, she may come up and bop her nose on the back of my leg and I toss a couple of treats for her to sniff out.
7. Treat scatters in the grass
8. Communication. Me: "Want to go this way?" or "Which way from here?" Juno: stops and turns in the direction she would like to go (with or without me asking). We go that way. Usually. If it's not a good option, I just say, "not today!"
9. Stop and meet up with some dog friends!
10. Go for a coffee and play "spot the people." Every person she sees walk in wins her a treat (she usually gets bored of that game after a while).
11. And one important one, stop and wait when they stop to smell or roll or say hello to another dog. Even off lead. I might not stand and hover quite the way I would when they are on lead, but I don't just walk kilometers away staring at my phone, either.
My point is, walks are about the two of you spending time together as much as they are about sniffing, peeing, pooping, decompressing, exercising, watching, and learning. Being on my phone and ignoring them isn't what I would do when walking with any friend, dog or human.