17/06/2025
The time was summer 2013. I was freshly graduated with a 2:1 in law.
Everyone around me had a plan, knew what they wanted to do, knew their purpose, or at least an idea of it. I was surrounded by people who wanted to be lawyers, barristers, and a whole host of other avenues.
Me? Not even a little bit. Truth be told, I felt like a bit of an imposter at uni. My true passions weren't actually law related, and I had no interest in going to court. Though that wasn't what was expected of me when I graduated.
What I actually was was lost and overwhelmed. The world was my oyster, or so they'd tell us, but I was actually faced with a sense of dread, not opportunity.
I was looking for something, to find my voice, my place in the world. Little did I know, one tag in a post and everything would change - Rio was looking for a home. Good with everyone and everything or so, we were told.
What he actually was was a stressed-out adolescent. He, too, was lost, overwhelmed, scared of things, and had trust issues. In a way, that wasn't too dissimilar to aspects of me, if I'm honest.
Much of the world saw an 'out of control', 'typical little dog trying to be boss' screaming and lunging ball of fluff. Well meaning passersby would give me advice, that I needed to be firm with him, whilst giving us sideways glances.
His struggles and reactions gave us far more attention from the rest of the world than either of us actually wanted. He wanted them to go way, and I'm actually quite the introvert.
What I saw was something entirely different. He was deeply misunderstood by many. He was confused, scared, and lashed out. He had needs that hadn't been met. He'd lived much of his previous lives crated, passed on, or carried around much to his disgust.
He was a small guy who realised that the rest of the world was massive.
He didn't need a firm hand. He needed time, understanding, space, and support to figure out his place in this strange alien world he'd found himself in.
Which as fate would have it, was with us, with me, side by side, through thick and thin.