26/11/2023
Fostering ( or adopting) a dog, or any species comes with a big responsibility. From your entire family. My husband is a big help, too.
Depending on the age, socialization level, comfort level, fears, food aggressions if they have any, and generalized trauma your foster has been through, fostering can also be exhausting sometimes. Especially the first few days/weeks.
And acknowledging this is a big step. Some people never discuss it. But it’s not always flowers and rainbows. It can be downright challenging, having a new dog enter the dynamic of your home. and it’s OK to have all the feelings.
We are 10 days in! But we have come a long way.
There’s no fairy tale and everything magically becomes easy, and care free. It takes work. Learning, observing and understanding. Not only behavior but how to approach training to the individual you have. And desensitization with everything.
So if you’re new to fostering, let me also share what’s happening on this journey we are on, learning about Denali.
The biggest thing you need is patience. Followed immediately by consistency.
When he first got here, he was so scared. Thin. Hairless. Quiet. Didn’t/couldn’t really walk without stumbling. He has been through quite a lot in such a short time. We carried him down the steps to go outside. He also has not been to the same potty areas as my other dogs, until we got the f***l results. They have since come back negative, but I’m still bringing him to the front vs the back. Why? He’s still not vaccinated. Still not at full strength . Still has no recall. So i don’t need my big dogs running him over.
Did you ever hear the 3/3/3 rule? 3 days. 3 weeks. 3 months. It’s so true. And may be longer depending on your situation and foster’s history.
➡️ The first few days:
✔️Develop a feeding schedule. Meds.
✔️ Crate training begins and used for when he’s not supervised and night time
✔️ potty breaks outside every 2-3 hours, after naps, meals, and basic potty training 101
✔️ medicated baths
Observing his medical condition is priority. Going slow with all the things.
➡️ going into week 2:
✔️ Recheck at vet
✔️He is becoming comfortable. Learned/strong enough to get on couch. Can climb a few steps to go out and back in.
✔️No potty accidents in the house in 4 days
✔️Maintain potty/feeding schedule
✔️ he is food motivated. And is part shark 🦈 . Need to be careful and work on not chomping fingers. Doing sit/stay this week and name recall too.
✔️ not food aggressive or hand shy
(Keeping it light)
Since he is gaining weight and strength, he’s also becoming more comfortable and vocal. He’s been barking some, and becoming more observant. Barks at neighbors dog, not sure how he will do when face to face. So will use a basket muzzle for everyone’s safety when he’s vaccinated. Hoping he doesn’t get to many tank habits 😂 (my cairn who barks at everyone)
He also figured out that cats run fast. He was not gentle, and is in strict leash control in the house as we work on not chasing/trying to bite cats. (We have a bunch so it’s going to make a lot of work). Hopefully he learned cat claws hurt, and won’t want that experience again, but dogs are stubborn. We will see. 😬
But all in all, he’s got many great qualities! 🥳
He is sweet, loves people, cuddles, gentle with the dogs, and vice versa, loves naps, blankets, and baths. A quick learner.
With time, and giving him gentle guidance, I’m hopeful he will iron out the bumps in the days ahead.