05/04/2023
💡🐾 Hopefully reflections inspiring aftermath and considerations on my experience in Malta🐾💡
In the past 4 years spent working in Malta, entering in contact with hundreds of families, I collected quite some data and could start seeing statistical recurrence.
The picture that emerges of the situation is quite clear and endemic:
most dogs live in a condition of deprivation regarding their primary needs and unnecessary overstimulation at the same time, with activities and environmental stimuli they were not prepared for and not supposed to face. This results always in a condition of chronic stress and accumulated traumas, that are the main cause of most of all those behaviors that we call problems.
The lack of opportunities and the difficulties for dogs of having healthy social contacts and experiences are also contributing to increase stress levels, while they should be one of the primary needs to fulfill to provide a balanced healthy life.
The old classical training ways that most owners seek to solve these problems are actually creating more stress in dogs and worsening the situation, if not creating problems in the first place in dogs that had none.
The root cause of this, is that we tend to seek control and obedience over understanding and collaboration, that should be the foundations of including dogs in our social group called family.
Coercion, commands, orders, conditioning, are not the ways to establish a healthy relationship, nor the tools we need to obtain what we want.
Knowledge, respect and commitment are much more powerful and effective tools, but they put the effort on us, so most people prefer to fool themselves with delegating to wizards with a magic wand or following instructions without questioning nor fully comprehending them, hoping they'll do the trick.
In my experience this road always leads nowhere good.🤓