18/09/2025
Learning from Mistakes — in Knitting, in Dog Training, and in Life
The first feeling we get when we realize we’ve made a mistake is usually defeat. That sinking thought: “I’ve done it all wrong.”
You want to cry. Or give up.
That’s exactly what happened to me last night. I was halfway through knitting a hat, working on a complicated stranded pattern in beautiful Shetland wool, my first time juggling five colors. I was confident I was doing it right… until I looked at the chart and realized I had swapped them. I was finishing the third chart in the wrong place.
My first thought? “That’s it. Months of work ruined. I’ll have to undo it all or abandon the project.”
And honestly, if I had undone everything, I probably would have given up completely.
But instead of collapsing into defeat, I took a breath. I looked back, reached out for help, did some research, and found a way forward. It turned out I didn’t need to throw away all that work, I could just undo the mistake and carry on.
And isn’t that just like dog training?
You think you’ve done your research. You’ve had dogs before. You’ve got your Border Collie puppy and you’ve planned it all out. And then suddenly, it all unravels. Things go wrong. You feel hopeless. You even wonder if maybe you should give up and re-home your dog to someone “better.”
But here’s the thing: once you reach out for help, once you get guidance and a clear plan, you start to see light at the end of the tunnel. You see improvement. You and your dog start working together again. And that moment feels like finally taking charge of the problem and turning it into progress.
In life, we learn through mistakes. It would be wonderful if learning came without them, but that’s not reality. Mistakes are part of the process for us, for our dogs, for anyone learning anything.
We need to be prepared not just to learn, but also to fail. Because failing isn’t the end, it’s just a step in the process. Even our dogs, despite our best efforts, sometimes fail in training. But those small failures are how they build resilience, new skills, and a deeper understanding of what’s being asked.
Every mistake brings us closer to mastery. At the start it feels discouraging. But over time, you realize mistakes aren’t the enemy, they’re the teacher. And when you embrace that, you stop fearing mistakes… and start using them to grow.
Ps: if you also need a hand with stranded knitting, reach out 😂 with this hat I have failed so many times I’m mastering the art!!!!!