
23/06/2025
The Dirt Diaries: Why Growing (Up) Isn’t What You Think
Continued from yesterday ...
They say growth is beautiful. But let me tell you—it’s also muddy, unpredictable, and usually arrives wearing yesterday’s clothes. I used to think “growing up” meant having all the answers, a clean house, and a five-year plan. Turns out, it’s more like learning to dance in the garden while the compost is still warm. Welcome to The Dirt Diaries—a collection of messy truths, small victories, and unexpected blooms from a life rooted in resilience.
2. Lesson Two: Seed What You Want, Not What You’re Told Most of my life has been a caretaker. First of my brothers, then my husband and son. Then it was my aging mother over a 30-year period. Now it’s my turn to grow into my own caretaker. It’s challenging to stay on this journey based upon many more years taking care of others. Habits, it’s time to create new habits and do my best to continue that journey.
While in college I took an art class where a drawing of a handsome young man without his clothes was a requirement. This memory continues to bring a smile to my face. That was probably my first challenge as an adult investing in me. And then there was that one young man in my life, I wished he had been the one to pose.
Later in life came the WSU Extension Master Gardener program which continues to give me ongoing education opportunities as well as a problem solver for anyone gardener with a question. For the first time, I’m living with purpose and I’m happier for it. My garden has vignettes—small, intentional spaces, each with its own rhythm, beauty, and (sometimes) weeds. I’ve worked hard to earn this opportunity and I’m not letting this one slip away. How does your garden grow? What changes are you planning for your future?
To Be Continued ...