Melissa Shapiro, DVM

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Melissa Shapiro, DVM Vet School for Kids! Small animal vet teaching kids (and adults) to care for and about their pets.

Co-creator of the Piglet Mindset Educational Program which is supported by the nonprofit Piglet International Inc. We teach children to be resilient, inclusive, and kind with free online educational materials that feature my dog Piglet, the deaf blind pink puppy. Piglet is a very positive dog who is an amazing growth mindset teaching model for children and adults! Piglet and our 7 other rescued do

gs set an example for being accepting, inclusive, and kind, which is why we call them Piglet's Inclusion Pack. Visit our website PigletMindset.org and follow us on Facebook and Instagram to learn more. My veterinary house call practice offers in home end of life veterinary care for dogs and cats in lower Fairfield County, CT. (FB page- Melissa Shapiro, DVM, website- visitingvetservice.com). I offer in home quality of life consulting, short and long term in home hospice care, and in home euthanasia services for dogs and cats. As animals near the end of their lives we provide families and their pets with comfort, palliative therapy, and if appropriate, euthanasia in their own homes. When possible, meeting with families and patients prior to a euthanasia visit allows for a smooth transition to the final visit. Assessment of older dogs and cats in their home gives a more realistic view of how they are doing and what they need than when they are brought in to an animal hospital. I am available to consult with families when they have questions about quality of life, keeping their pets comfortable and happy for as long as possible, and the timing of euthanasia for their geriatric or ill pets. I am sensitive to the concerns and emotions of the family during this difficult time and will work closely with the regular veterinarian as the need arises. For more information about our practice, visit our website, visitingvetservice.com or e-mail [email protected].

When I decided I would be a veterinarian, at 6 years of age, I had no idea there was something called euthanasia or that...
23/10/2024

When I decided I would be a veterinarian, at 6 years of age, I had no idea there was something called euthanasia or that it would end up being a major part of my veterinary career.
Today, I said goodbye to Jem, one of my sweetest patients who I've taken care of for his whole life of 14 1/2 years.
I vividly remember our first visit bc I thought his parents were crazy for adopting him. And then he had a reaction to the bordatella vaccine I gave him. So his new puppy visit turned into an involved minor medical crisis! He chewed everything in sight but quickly settled down to become one of those perfect labs.
In the last few years his old age and arthritis gradually took away his mobility. He got the best of care- meds, supplements, slings, ramps, and lots of love. He swam in the river, took a winter trip to Florida where he swam in the ocean, was an amazing big brother to Radley, and he enjoyed every last minute of his life, to his very last breath.
He gave all that he could. Today was his day. It was a beautiful sunny warm October day. He left the way he lived, with dignity and love.
He was on his favorite bed, with his mom right there with him as he closed his beautiful brown eyes.
I stay very calm when I'm helping dogs and their people through their end of life care and euthanasia. This one, it was tough to hold back the tears. I really wasn't looking forward to saying good bye to this dog.
I feel very lucky to be able to help my patients, both the long timers and the ones I've just met. While it seems like the absolute worst part of vet medicine, for me, it's bringing peace to a difficult situation for pets and their people. RIP sweet boy Jem.🩷

Gina update!Dementia or a good memory? Yesterday my 14 year old, deaf dog Gina missed her afternoon walk bc I was away f...
11/10/2024

Gina update!
Dementia or a good memory?
Yesterday my 14 year old, deaf dog Gina missed her afternoon walk bc I was away for the day.
From the time I got home at 8 PM she was on high alert for any signs that she would be taken for a walk. By 11:30 she was desperately leading me to the door for her walk, piling on the guilt.
I was wondering what was on her mind but looking back, it was simply a case of a really smart dog realizing and reminding me that I had missed and deprived her of the most important 30 minutes of her day.
Needless to say, she did her walk today and went back to her normal relaxed in the evening girl, pictures here.
Thankfully, she doesn't have issues with dementia yet. Pacing and carrying on at night is a sign of dementia in dogs and it is not always easy to deal with.
Have you had dogs with doggie dementia? How did you manage them?

27/09/2024
This is Shipley. He is an eight week old new baby that I got to see today. The last time I saw his mom was when I helped...
25/09/2024

This is Shipley. He is an eight week old new baby that I got to see today. The last time I saw his mom was when I helped her say goodbye to her very old very sweet dog Brewer. No doubt that it was his mom's very saddest day over Brewer's very long life.
But today was a very special new day, welcoming a brand new fresh (literally), adorable little guy into her life.
As a veterinarian I get to be there for both the happiest and the saddest days of my patient's and their family's lives. It's a full circle that I've done many times over so many years in this most amazing profession.
I didn't expect to be lifted like I was by this 4.5 pound fluffy little man. This little puppy brought us smiles and laughter like only a puppy can. So so precious.

Her foster mom said that she didn't think Lucy was disabled enough for me. Little did we know that her fractured right f...
20/09/2024

Her foster mom said that she didn't think Lucy was disabled enough for me. Little did we know that her fractured right foot would never heal and she would be a 3 1/2 legged dog. Her right foot works well when she wears her brace so it counts as half. Otherwise she's pretty much a 3 legged dog. She also uses her broken foot when playing indoors on a carpet.
Compared to my deaf blind boys, this is a relatively easy disability for me to manage although finding someone to make a useable brace took over a year with numerous fails.
Lucy does well. In addition to her broken foot she has bilateral luxating patellas. Even that doesn't hold her back.
Today Lucy Lemonade had her first grooming appointment. She looks amazing even cuter than we knew possible.
She's having a zoom 4th bday party on Sunday. Hoping some of our social media friends will join.
Happy Bday Lucita.🩷
And if you're on Facebook, please join our new group, The Disabled Pets Community. Link will be in our stories.

Here's a little deaf blind dog Scout followed by pics of my own large pack of sweet needy dogs. Scout is 12 pounds, a ye...
18/09/2024

Here's a little deaf blind dog Scout followed by pics of my own large pack of sweet needy dogs. Scout is 12 pounds, a year and a half old, and in great need of someone to commit to working with him so that he, like so many others like him, can live his best life. He is in CT with a rescuer who is unable to give him the time he needs to even start to prepare him for his forever home. The rescue found a foster for him and he was improving there but they backed out and now Scout is back and regressing. He barks a lot. He needs activity, training, love, understanding, probably medication to help with his anxiety... I have not met him but have heard his story and it is all too familiar.
I posted about him last night and already I've gotten messages letting me know that he belongs with me, with my already over max dog pack. Please, any time and energy put into thinking about this little dog moving in with us needs to be devoted to helping him find a good solid placement with someone who is willing to devote time and energy to keeping him safe and helping him realize his potential and live his best life. Again, that person is not me. My 8 dogs deserve more than I can give them as it is now and while we bent our rules a year and a half ago to adopt our deaf blind Baby Boy Georgie, we are over capacity! I am on dog overload! And it makes me really upset when I get notes pleading with me, complimenting me, telling me that I'm the only one that can help this dog. This is not true and it is very frustrating to read.
What I am willing to do is advise and support the person who steps up and says yes. That person is a dog person, who understands what it takes to work with a dog who needs extra time and patience. Maybe this dog is not fixable but we will never know if his person doesn't come forward really soon.
Scout is in CT with CT Animal House. Website is ctanimalhouse.org.

11/09/2024
We missed Senior Sunday yesterday so here's Senior Monday. My dog rescuer friend sent me this first picture of a jet bla...
02/09/2024

We missed Senior Sunday yesterday so here's Senior Monday.
My dog rescuer friend sent me this first picture of a jet black dog that popped up on her Facebook memories from 11 years ago.
Yes, this is our 13 1/2 year old Deanie as a youngster. And the second picture is Deanie today.
So many mixed emotions surround seeing pictures like these. Thankful is on top or the list.
Thank you to the rescuers in AR who pulled 5 month old Dean off of a county road and to my rescuer friend Holly who let me sponsor his transport to CT so a client of mine could foster him. And then thank you to my daughter and husband for insisting that he stay. It's not that I was delighted then or that Dean and I have seen eye to eye along these many years, but he is a superb sweet dog who is a very big part of our family. As he ages he gets even more endearing and extremely adorable with his old gray face.
For everyone who is reluctant to adopt a black dog- reminder- they do not stay jet black forever. Gray faced dogs are the absolute best. Looking at them is such a mezmerizing amazing experience.
Highly recommended! 🩷

Today is International Dog Day. I currently have 8 amazing little dogs and over my life, more than 20. Each dog has enri...
26/08/2024

Today is International Dog Day. I currently have 8 amazing little dogs and over my life, more than 20. Each dog has enriched my life in their own individual way, taught me sweet and harsh lessons, and given me something to think about every minute of every day. I think that goes with the cliche, they give me purpose, which on many levels has been the case.
My original white herding dog April literally never took her eyes off of me. She was an only dog and I was fortunate to be able to have full focus on her. When she left me I knew I would have another white herding dog but had no idea it would be a dog like my half deaf, vision impaired, anxiety ridden Gina.
She was going to be my take her everywhere dog and she was for a few years until we added a collection of dogs. But even still, she did come with me everywhere for years. It wasn't the other dogs but her anxiety that has limited her ability to come with me all the time.
Her devotion to me is unwavering. She is an old 14 years now. Whether I leave the house for a few days or an hour, her one focus is waiting for the return. She may not hear the door open anymore but as soon as she does, she is right there with her loud shrilly welcome home I can't believe it's you voice.
When we go upstairs to our bedroom for the night I have to help her and Dean before I carry the little boys up. She waits a the top of the stairs until I arrive with Piggy and Georgie before she will go into the bedroom. I've included a picture of her waiting in this post.
As she's growing older I'm becoming even more aware of her sweet love and beauty.
When we adopted her I was warned that she was going to be a challenge and over her first few months here she was. But once we found ways to manage her issues she was able to shine.
Oh- when we got back from our trip the other day, she got into the car to be with me while I spent an hour putting the car back together. Those are the pics of her in my car.
Her middle name is Beautiful for reasons more than her looks!
Happy International Dog Day!

We treat each of our dogs as an individual. We include them on their own terms. Little Lucy Lemonade is very shy and pre...
24/08/2024

We treat each of our dogs as an individual. We include them on their own terms. Little Lucy Lemonade is very shy and prefers to stay in Piglet's stroller during our school visits and meetup events. She loves to travel but when out and about, prefers to be more of an observer than a participant. We love her and we respect her preferences.
From a dog mom and veterinarian perspective, this is the healthiest way to manage a group of dogs. When we visit schools, all the children want to pet all of our dogs. Evie, Zoey, and Georgie are all out in for the pets. A dog like Lucy, who is very friendly but shy, and prefers to watch rather than be touched by the masses, presents an opportunity to teach children about boundaries and personal space. She also brings a message to be yourself and accept support from others.
Each of our dogs adds something special to our family and everything that we do out in public.
Have a happy weekend, everybody.

Traveling with one dog is a lot of fun. Traveling with 5 dogs can be overwhelming. But that's only if we don't reset our...
22/08/2024

Traveling with one dog is a lot of fun. Traveling with 5 dogs can be overwhelming. But that's only if we don't reset our expectations.
We don't set a strict schedule. We don't go out to eat. We don't stay in hotels. We spend a lot of time with our dogs. It's alot of fun.
We set ourselves up for success by arranging housing that works, activities that fit our dog's abilities. And we go to places where our dogs are welcome.
Two of our dogs are deaf blind. Surprisingly, these dogs do not present extra challenges. They are very eager to explore new places, meet new friends, and have a lot of fun.
We've got a few trips coming up in the next 6 months. Can't wait to share our dogs with more and more Piggy friends.
Oct/Nov- Columbus
March 2025- Carolinas
April/May- California
We are currently looking for educators using our Piggy Mindset program that would like a school visit! Let us know.🩷

Eight isn't just enough, it's just too much. Thirteen years ago, we got really dog happy, adopting 4 dogs in less than 2...
16/08/2024

Eight isn't just enough, it's just too much. Thirteen years ago, we got really dog happy, adopting 4 dogs in less than 2 years. And then the trickle of adopting 4 more happened over the following 10 or so years.
It all worked really well for a long time bc our dogs made such an amazing sweet dog family. They loved one on one time but they were equally happy being together with their mom, driving around doing vet house calls, walking at the beach, playing in our yard, and doing other dog things all together.
Over the past year, our two oldest dogs have become really old and really needy. Just getting them out into the backyard has become a project, let alone giving them their morning meds, lining our floors with mats, and getting them into the car with harnesses and ramps. Our walks have turned into less than strolls. They are stand and sniffs over a very short distance. The amount of time I can spend with just one dog, leaving 7 at home, is really tough. But I still try hard to give each one a little special time, especially now as they are all so sweet and kind of needy.
Yesterday it was Piggy's turn. We spent time at the beach which is our most favorite place of all. He moseyed about, sniffed every grain of sand with his powerhouse laser pointer pink nose, and was present for every minute of our adventure. He took in every breath, sorted the scents, and enjoyed his brain challenge.
When he got home he snuggled into his cocoon bed and took a really long nappy.
Every dog has their own individual needs. Within our group now, I'm finding their needs becoming more specific to each, making group activities much more difficult. Adjusting to this new phase is really time consuming, exhausting, emotional, heartwarming, and heartbreaking.
Spending time with my tiny deaf blind pink man, being mindful and present, was good for both of us. We will definitely be shifting our dog activities around now as we are at a point where the older dog group mentality has pretty much evaporated.
Most importantly, I'm trying to enjoy the time with the older dogs, as painful as it can be at times.
Yesterday I bought lots of little carpets to help them stand on slippery floors.

Tiny disabled baby dogs like this one in the picture are commonly culled and brought to veterinarians for "humane euthan...
13/08/2024

Tiny disabled baby dogs like this one in the picture are commonly culled and brought to veterinarians for "humane euthanasia". They are the lucky ones bc many are dumped or leave the earth inhumanely.
But why would someone think to cull a tiny deaf blind pink puppy? They state that these dogs don't have any quality of life.
Some of these folks truly believe this. They have no imagination or understanding of disabilities in animals.
They think dogs have to be able to do certain things in order to have a good quality of life. Their definition of quality of life is very basic with no insight into living a good life at all. That is unfortunate.
Quality of life is relative. Everybody doesn't have the ability to do the same things equally even if they don't have a disability. I would love to be able to ride in the Tour de France. I don't consider my quality of life compromised because I am unable to do that level of cycling.
My two deaf blind dogs, Piglet and Georgie have much different abilities and preferences. Their quality of life is dependent on them as individuals. Comparing them to each other and other animals who have more severe or no disabilities is unfair.
What's my point here? I have to catch myself from feeling bad that my little disabled dogs can't do certain things that I know they would enjoy. What I do know is that they have a lot of fun doing things they CAN do, many of which other dogs never get the chance to experience.
Just some ongoing thoughts that I can pair with this adorable picture of my tiny baby Piglet.

When you don't need a sixth dog but a tiny chocolate chip finds her way into your heart. And also when your husband insi...
09/08/2024

When you don't need a sixth dog but a tiny chocolate chip finds her way into your heart. And also when your husband insists that you "get one of those puppies". He wanted the tan one but I was in charge of making the adoption arrangements.
This tiny girl Zoey is from AR. She was listed on Craig's list with her 5 litter mates. Thankfully the rescuers got the puppies and had the parents spayed and neutered.
Our tiny gal Zoey is one of the smartest most observant dogs ever. She is reactive in the most adorable way, all 6 pounds of her.
She even uses tap signals for her deaf blind brother dogs Piglet and Georgie.
Ya never know what you're gonna get when you adopt a dog, sight unseen, from a far away state.
Most of the time- you get a little treasure like ZoZo Marie. So so special! .

Do your dogs have a bedtime routine? Here's a little Vet Tips Tuesday PSAIf they don't have a bedtime routine, they shou...
07/08/2024

Do your dogs have a bedtime routine?
Here's a little Vet Tips Tuesday PSA
If they don't have a bedtime routine, they should.
Why?
1. It's important to know your dogs are safe inside your house when you head to bed for the night. When you all gather together for a little bedtime treat, you can count them and make sure they all head to their sleeping spots for the night.
2. Dogs LOVE a routine. They look forward to it. It is very good for them and for their people.
3. It's ALOT of fun. It's a great way to close out your day together.
Here's Piggy actually getting up from his nightly nap on our new couch. From here he went out to p*e and came inside for his cookie. Then he went upstairs to brush his teeth before getting into bed with his mom.
What's your doggy bedtime routine?

Middle Age MondayWhat can you do to give your middle age dog an energy boost?*Get them a younger brother who will rejuve...
05/08/2024

Middle Age Monday
What can you do to give your middle age dog an energy boost?
*Get them a younger brother who will rejuvenate their calming mind, muscles, and joints!
In this case, the initial puppy stages of the new brother weren't welcomed by the older brother. But over the first year the older brother has become energized, his sense of humor has been sharpened, and overall he is a much happier dog.
Adding a new younger dog when current dogs are into the middle age years is also beneficial to the humans in the family.
The new young dog becomes a link to the older dogs as everyone ages together. They keep older dogs spry, and they bring their own good energy into their family which can be appreciated by all.
*I know you're thinking, what is she talking about here- with 8 dogs total in the house?
Each dog brings their own gifts in and in the case of now middle aged Piglet, baby brother Georgie has done exactly what I describe above. Not only for Piglet but for the other older dogs as well.
And he is also softening the blow of experiencing our old dogs get really old which is quite upsetting at times. 😊🩷😊🩷

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