27/05/2024
I kinda like the tough dogs.
Not the dogs that think they’re tough as much as the dogs who have been through hell and back and are legitimately “tough.”
Fierce. “Aggressive.” “Dominating/Defensive.”
Are these the dogs I want in my household, or in yours? Maybe not… but there’s a reason for that toughness, a need that hasn’t been met, a way to help the crazies through their overabundant emotions.
Often, something is wrong physically… a chronic pain or dietary issue… some sort of parasite or infection that makes the dog feel vulnerable, and for some dogs, elicits scary behaviors… and that should always be the absolute first step- full vet check… but sometimes it’s also mental trauma.
Roaming the streets of Georgia or Tennessee for months, finding/killing your food until the dog catcher throws you in a cement and metal cage you’ve no idea how to deal with.
Living with a family, never leaving their property at all, never seeing visitors as you’re big and scary… then someone dies and they need to rehome you.
Thankfully, most dogs are fairly adaptable and never show aggressive behaviors as they go through these huge changes, but many dogs do.
Tough dogs… the healthy ones with trauma, the resource guarding, leash reactive, the crazy/difficult to control behaviors dogs… they just haven’t gotten the memo that life isn’t always something to battle, but rather, something to experience openly.
I like tough dogs… I like working with tough dogs, because they remind me to be perhaps a little less tough, less reactive, in my own world. Because I know this dog had a hard day walking past other dogs and going into a new environment today, and it wasn’t seemless, but it was far more than I could have reasonably asked from her a month ago. I was very happy in my interactions with her, even though the burns from my poor choice of leash still sting hours later. Progress is key, for her, and all the other 2 or 4 legged tough dogs out there. Next time will be easier.
It’s about dedication, loyalty, showing those tough dogs they have the right to be tough and independent as long as they don’t lash out, but also that you’ll be by their side, even knowing they could. Some neck scritches can be life altering for some of these dogs.
Daisy isn’t even my big tough dog win today, but I had a better picture of her, and no need to confirm with owners they’re okay sharing the story. Daisy has no owners, she has me. And this little tough dog is making her way, slowly, into the realm of self confidence… and it’s beautiful…