26/11/2025
A relationship based on MUTUAL enjoyment and cooperation, with a whole lot of feeling good for the horse - my kind of equine partnership
He’s only doing it for the food
Whoo hoo great! is my mental response to this statement. The horse finally gets something he wants from responding to the human! Compliance requires motivation.
Most horse owners don’t understand the consequence rule –
CONSEQUENCE DRIVES BEHAVIOUR
If the consequence is good, invariably the behaviour is repeated.
If the consequence is bad – the horse will try to AVOID repeating that behaviour.
Choosing to do behaviour that supplies good things and avoiding bad stuff seems eminently sensible to me!
Why are humans so entitled that they think everything in this world is for their benefit?
The horse should do it for them? Where is the consequence in that?
Why SHOULD horses do what we want them to?
Because we feed them daily when they should have a paddock full of grazing?
Misapplication!
Some common statements from people who don’t really understand how (R+) positve reinforcement OR RELATIONSHIPS work.
But he’s only doing it for the food;
At last the horse can obtain a benefit for complying with the human
I want him to like me, not just the food -
For this to happen the human needs to supply something the horse desires/ likes (it is often food!)
Why otherwise woud he like you? Because you’re a nice person? (Entitled much?)
Even human friends happen because you supply something good for them.
And it should go both ways.
Usually it is enjoying being together, doing things together, sharing and enjoying the same things. Sharing memories too.
For this to apply to horses, human/ horse interaction needs to be more of a PARTNERSHIP than a dictatorship.
Your human friends won’t last long if -
You are always TELLING THEM what to do, whether they want to do that thing or not.
Everything is always your decision - there should be give and take.
Horses don’t get that give and take. They often get do it or else.
When the or else is not good for the horse, they learn to comply to avoid the ‘or else’.
Once this is learnt they generally comply without showing irritation – because showing irritation hasn’t worked in the past – whats the point in showing it now?
Oh – no complaint from the horse – he must like doing this (sarcasm is mine!)
I prefer my friends and partners to say *oh lets do this together *this seems like fun, or *what would you like to do today?
Doesn’t that paint a better picture?
And the benefits – they tend to give you what you SHOULD have wanted in the first place.
A relationship based on MUTUAL enjoyment and cooperation.
People generally miss the effect of the classical conditioning going on in the background too. The positive conditioned emotional response. (+CER)
When the horse obtains something he wants from responding to the human – he benefits from the behaviour. So good things happen.
Good things happening make you feel good (oh Im so good at stating the obvious!)
A whole lot of feeling good – it may START with our horse ‘ony doing it for the food’
(and I don’t have a problem with that!)
but it evolves and morphs into our horse enjoying being with us; wanting to be with us;
choosing to work with us - often without the food that started it all!
Mutual enjoyment - Isn’t that the goal?
Written by Vicki Conroy of the PPGA Equine Sub-Committee