12/12/2023
Does your dog butt in, or bark, or otherwise "act out" when they see you hugging someone? To learn why, and what to do about it, check out this article from Tufts Universitys Cummings School of Veterinary Medicine. Here are the main takeaways:
Your dog might be feeling...1) a dog version of jealousy at not being included, or 2) confused by hugging behavior because it's not something that dogs engage in, or 3) concerned that they're seeing aggressive behavior and feel they need to defuse it, or 4) unhappy about "sharing" their special person with someone else, or 5) just bored and looking for something to do.
What to do? You can try...1) giving them some private time when you need private time--put them in another room with a Kong, bully stick etc. 2) a desensitization & counterconditioning approach where you try getting your dog to form positive associate your gestures of affection toward other humans one baby step at a time 3) providing plenty of exercise AND mental stimulation/enrichment so your dog's behavioral needs are met to minimize frustration and attention seeking.
My 20-pound cockapoo, Bentley, is a very docile service dog who never barks outside the home or for food or water. But strangely, even if hes lying peacefully on the floor, as soon as my wife and I embrace in affection, or lie down next to each other, he runs over to us and barks until we stop and...