16/02/2022
Something we all need to learn and should be taught in schools.
ESSENTIAL ETIQUETTE – THE POLITE AND SAFE WAY TO MEET A DOG
Cultures around the world meet and greet each other in very different ways not only with words but with different body language. We are all familiar with the common hand shake, but some cultures greet each other by air kissing, check touching, bowing, nose rubbing and in Tibet, Buddhist monks greet one another by sticking their tongue out! The combination of the correct word or action is essential to help make a good first impression, show respect and can help others feel at ease. If people, being the same species have such different ways of greeting, we should recognise all the more that dogs have their own polite way of greetings.
Respecting a dog's personal space to help them feel safe is an important part of this and allows anxious or scared dogs to stay within their comfort zone.
One of my dogs is reactive and nervous around strange people. We have offices at home and often have strange people arriving for meetings. Despite my attempts to convince people not to approach her and give her the choice of whether she wants to come closer to them, some people will insist on going up to her and sticking their hand in her face. She reacts by backing away and ferociously barking, often to the surprise of the person trying to interact with her. This is not surprising – her personal space is being invaded, an interaction is being forced and her anxiety levels increase.
Every dog is different and some dogs may tolerate more invasive approaches than others, but it’s important to respect and acknowledge that there is a more acceptable way of meeting a dog.
In the words of Dr Ian Dunbar - “Touching a dog is a privilege not a right "