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In the latest Horsemanship Breakthroughs Podcast episode, Iโ€™m joined by Shelby Dennis ( ), an equine behavior consultant...
25/04/2025

In the latest Horsemanship Breakthroughs Podcast episode, Iโ€™m joined by Shelby Dennis ( ), an equine behavior consultant and passionate advocate for horse welfare. Shelby is dedicated to improving the lives of horses by raising awareness, exposing abusive methods, promoting ethical training, and pushing for positive industry change.

๐ŸŽงListen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube. Links for all can be found at: https://www.amaliadempsey.com/Horsemanship-Breakthroughs

Have you ever wanted to train the piaffe? ๐Ÿ‘€In the latest episode of The Horsemanship Breakthroughs Podcast, Iโ€™m joined b...
02/04/2025

Have you ever wanted to train the piaffe? ๐Ÿ‘€

In the latest episode of The Horsemanship Breakthroughs Podcast, Iโ€™m joined by the incredible Kelly de Geus: a master of training piaffe in a way that is light, soft, willing, and biomechanically correct.

Kelly, (), a dedicated trainer from the Netherlands, has worked with over 1000 horses in hand, specialising in teaching piaffe through optimal connection, communication, and biomechanicsโ€”never as a quick fix or trick.

I first reached out to Kelly a few years ago after being mesmerised by how light and happy her horses looked in the piaffe. She agreed to coach me online, and I was blown away by her approach!

Now, Iโ€™m excited to share her voice with you! In this episode, we dive into:

โœจ The true purpose of piaffe as a diagnostic & gymnastic exercise (not just โ€˜fancy footworkโ€™!)
โœจ The importance of connection, communication & biomechanics
โœจ Common mistakes & how to know if your horse is ready for piaffe
โœจ The groundwork foundation for collection
โœจ How she adjusts her training for different horses
โœจ The role of positive reinforcement in her methods
โœจ โ€ฆ and so much more!

๐ŸŽง If youโ€™ve ever dreamed of training the piaffe, this is THE episode for you!

๐ŸŽงListen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube. Links for all can be found at: https://www.amaliadempsey.com/Horsemanship-Breakthroughs

If youโ€™ve ever found yourself questioning what is the most ethical way to train horses, felt like an outsider when it co...
18/03/2025

If youโ€™ve ever found yourself questioning what is the most ethical way to train horses, felt like an outsider when it comes to exploring different methods, and/or youโ€™re a mum trying to balance horses, life, and kidsโ€ฆthen the latest Horsemanship Breakthroughs Podcast episode is for you!

๐ŸŽง Balancing The Use Of Reinforcements, And Being A Horse & Human Mum With Chloe Bailey

A while ago, I received a message on Facebook from Chloe Bailey, who had joined the new free Horse Mums group. She sent me a Google Doc in response to a question I had posted about how people navigate the use of reinforcements. Her response was so insightful that I knew it had to be shared, so here we are!
I sat down with Chloe Bailey, a welfare-concious โ€˜amateurโ€™ horse trainer who has, like many of us, been asking those horse welfare questions and contemplating on how we can best navigate the use of reinforcement types in training.

In this episode, we spoke about:

๐Ÿด Chloeโ€™s horse journey and how she navigates the use of reinforcements in training
๐Ÿด What led her to explore positive reinforcement (R+)
๐Ÿด Overcoming guilt from past training methods and advice for others facing the same struggles
๐Ÿด Balancing idealism with practicality in training
๐Ÿด The biggest misconceptions about positive reinforcement (R+) and negative reinforcement (R-)
๐Ÿด Dealing with a shift in identity after moving away from traditional horse communities
๐Ÿด Experimenting with longer delays between the click and reward โ€“ key insights
๐Ÿด The future of R+ in the horse world โ€“ what changes Chloe hopes to see in the next 5โ€“10 years
๐Ÿด How becoming a mother has changed her horsemanship
๐Ÿด The challenges of being a horse mum and human mum โ€“ and how she manages them
๐Ÿด Chloeโ€™s latest horsemanship breakthrough
๐Ÿด Her favourite horse books and resources โ€“ including 2 authors that are completely new to me, which I'm excited to read
๐Ÿด Her personal horse goals for the future
๐Ÿด Plus so much more!

๐ŸŽงListen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube. Links for all can be found at: https://www.amaliadempsey.com/Horsemanship-Breakthroughs

14/03/2025

You can give horses the opportunity to have agency and autonomy without โ€œletting them walk all over you.โ€

This idea that consent equates to a lack of any boundaries is very concerning.

It exposes the fact that many horse people truly believe that the only means of getting horses to participate is through force, that when given choices they would simply opt out.

And this is true to an extent when working with horses who havenโ€™t had choice, because when given choices, theyโ€™ll want to avoid tasks that have a lengthy history of being unpleasant.

But, when theyโ€™re taught that tasks have a history of rewarding outcomes, theyโ€™re more likely to opt in.

And when they are more willing to opt in, if the time ever does come where they *need* to do something, you donโ€™t have to fight them on it as much.

Giving more choices to your horse doesnโ€™t result in a horse who is more likely to fight you and say a hard no, itโ€™s the opposite actually.

If you donโ€™t spend your days forcing a response from your horse, if an emergent situation comes about and you need to tell rather than ask, you have built a history of communication that results in a horse who is more likely to say that yes.

I can speak from personal experience in saying this:

When I forced my horses to do everything I wanted them to do and wouldnโ€™t take no for an answer, I got into a lot more fights with them and received a lot more nos.

When I reward my horses for what I want them to do, give them more options to opt out and otherwise make training a conversation, I get a lot more โ€œYESโ€ in response.

Even in moments where Iโ€™ve had to โ€œmakeโ€ them do something that they havent wanted to do, itโ€™s been a lot more conversational, not a fight.

Since they havenโ€™t built a history of not having no be an option, when I truly need them to do something, they do it with less of a fuss than they ever did when I tried to force everything.

Autonomy is reinforcing to the learner.

Allowing them choices makes for a happier horse who is more likely to be engaged in training and, thus, is easier to train.

13/03/2025

TAKING BACK OUR HORSEMANSHIPโ€ฆ

I think itโ€™s time for owners to take back over their horsemanship journeys.

By trusting themselves and their own judgement.

Donโ€™t like how rough a trainer is being with your horse, but theyโ€™re trying to convince you itโ€™s necessary?
Trust yourself.

Frustrated with a lack of boundaries or clarity in your horsemanship, but afraid youโ€™ll be judged or judge yourself if you do anything about it?
Trust yourself.

Afraid to get hurt, but youโ€™re being told to โ€˜cowboy upโ€™ and get on anyways?
Trust yourself.

Knowing somethingโ€™s wrong when your barefoot horse is sore, but your trimmer keeps telling you itโ€™s part of the process?
Trust yourself.

Seeing no progress or things get worse after multiple cycles in corrective shoeing, but youโ€™re afraid to say anything to your vet or farrier?
Trust yourself.

Feeling guilty for using that tool that seems to help you and your horse communicate better?
An inner voice thatโ€™s shaming you is never your own, itโ€™s always someone elseโ€™s.
Trust yourself.

I get it, we canโ€™t rely on ourselves to always be unbiased or be the know-all end-all in decision-making, it takes a well-educated village, but I canโ€™t tell you how many times as a hoofcare professional or a trainer Iโ€™ve deferred to a clientโ€ฆ

Because they know their horse the best, because theyโ€™re familiar with all the variables, because theyโ€™re often the first ones to know when something is wrong, even if they canโ€™t quite put a finger on it.

The horsemanship industry reminds me of the beauty industry in many ways... Itโ€™s designed to make us feel a certain way about ourselves, which is rarely positive.

Speaking to women specificallyโ€ฆ isnโ€™t being able to get away from all the social constructs and baggage what drew many of us to horses in the first place?

You know what Iโ€™m talking aboutโ€ฆ
When itโ€™s just you and the horse having a moment, and you understand and trust each other completely, and you understand and trust yourself completely?

Isnโ€™t with horses where we were supposed to feel most ourselves? Most safe? Competent? Capable?

Can we take it back, please?

Attention horse mums! ๐Ÿด๐Ÿค๐Ÿ‘ถ๐ŸผHave you joined our free Facebook group yet?Iโ€™ve created a space for mums (of horses AND human...
08/03/2025

Attention horse mums! ๐Ÿด๐Ÿค๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿผ

Have you joined our free Facebook group yet?

Iโ€™ve created a space for mums (of horses AND humans) to connect, because letโ€™s be real...pregnancy and motherhood come with some unique challenges, especially when youโ€™re a horse girl! It helps to be part of a community that gets it.

Itโ€™s totally free to join, and Iโ€™d love to have you in there! Plus, I have an exciting upcoming podcast episode that I'd love your help with!

Come and join us by searching "Horse Mums" on Facebook or clicking here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/938509415066034

Hope to see you there! ๐Ÿด๐Ÿค

06/03/2025

To find out more about the Amalia Bitless Bridle from LightRider go to naturalhorseworld.com๐Ÿ”—Also- yes this is an older video - it certainly isnโ€™t that green at the moment! Please note - this is a fresh new bitless bridle so it kind of hasnโ€™t moulded to her just yet so it appears to be sitting a bit high. Iโ€™ve found that after a few rides and a condition the leather sits perfectly. Nonetheless- I hope this answers some of your questions you may have about the bitless bridle! ๐Ÿด๐Ÿ’—

One of my favourite things about having horses is the never-ending growth and learning! ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“ I actually get SO excited wh...
01/03/2025

One of my favourite things about having horses is the never-ending growth and learning! ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“

I actually get SO excited when there is a new rabbit hole to go down, I discover a new trainer that inspires me, or a new horse book is released that I can devour! ๐Ÿ“š

At the moment, I am absolutely loving warm-up mini-course and her webinar package ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ. Her values in horsemanship are very close to my own and I admire her talent and ability to teach what she knows! If you havenโ€™t already- definitely give her a follow and checkout those resources- I highly recommend them! โœ…

I also am loving the Essence of Liberty Academy content from ๐Ÿคฉ she is also a trainer that inspires me and that I admire! Teamed with her background as a vet, she is very knowledgeable and her horses are very playful and willing in the training which is something I would like to bring out more with my own horses! ๐ŸŽ

With each pregnancy, I have spent more time with my horses on the ground- liberty and in-hand work - and this has been such a blessing because it allows me to go deeper, recognise and repair holes in my fundamentals, and bring more refinement into my training โœจ

On top of all this- I have had some reallllly exciting interviews recorded for The Horsemanship Breakthroughs Podcast Season 2 ๐Ÿคฉ and some more scheduled in before the twins arrive so there will be much for you all to look forward to! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ

Please let me know if you have any suggestions for podcast guests or topics to cover on the pod ๐ŸŽง๐Ÿ˜„

THE POD IS BACK! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰ New episode available NOW!๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ: ๐‘๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐š ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ž, ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ...
11/02/2025

THE POD IS BACK! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰ New episode available NOW!

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ: ๐‘๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐š ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ž, ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐š๐ง๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ, ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ง๐ž๐ฑ๐ญ ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‡๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ค๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐๐œ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ.

Life has been full of big changes for me lately, and in this episode, Iโ€™m catching you up on everything!

Iโ€™ll be sharing how my approach to horsemanship is evolving, unpacking my thoughts on using food rewards, pressure, and the ethical considerations that come with training horses.

I canโ€™t wait to share my breakthroughs with you!

What I talk about in this episode:
๐Ÿด My ongoing quest for a better way with horses
๐Ÿด My deep dive into positive reinforcement - breakthroughs and learnings:
-the setup
-the marker signal
-small approximations
-undoing things
-education
-feel
-emotions
-mindset shifts
-the power of R+
-plateaus and pain
-the restriction
-the moral high ground
๐Ÿด What has stopped me from taking a more โ€˜pureโ€™ R+ approach & why I still use โ€˜pressureโ€™
๐Ÿด How Iโ€™m tweaking my use of R+ after this most recent deep dive
๐Ÿด Surprise Personal Announcement
๐Ÿด What I'm doing now with my horses & horse business
๐Ÿด Other things Iโ€™m studying/interested in
๐Ÿด Motherhood & horses
๐Ÿด PLUS! 2 new and exciting opportunities to connect and learn with like-minded horse people

I hope you enjoy the show!

Amalia ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿด

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube. Links to each can be found here: https://www.amaliadempsey.com/horsemanship-breakthroughs

Ps. PLEASE let me know if you have a listen! What makes my day is when I actually hear from you and what you got out of the pod! Just comment on social media or send me a message!

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐’๐ข๐ฑ: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ง๐ž๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž ๐›๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ (๐œ๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐ฌ๐จ๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ž๐๐ข๐š, ๐ฉ๐จ๐๐œ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ, ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ž๐ญ๐œ.)๐Ÿฅœ In a nuts...
11/02/2025

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐’๐ข๐ฑ: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ง๐ž๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž ๐›๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ (๐œ๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐ฌ๐จ๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ž๐๐ข๐š, ๐ฉ๐จ๐๐œ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ, ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ž๐ญ๐œ.)

๐Ÿฅœ In a nutshell, I want to get back to a place of sharing (on social media and the podcast) as a student of the horse. Under the title of a professional, I put an immense amount of pressure on myself to know it allโ€ฆ but truth is, I still have so much to learn. What I love the most IS learning.. and sharing my journey and breakthroughs.

๐Ÿค“ COACHING-I am not teaching in person or online currently and for the foreseeable future (as I am focussing on my family and processing all my recent learnings) so the only way to learn from me is through my existing online programs should you be interested- all of which remain available to purchase online should they interest you including The 8 Week Rider Specific Exercise Program, Horsemanship Fundamentals Academy, and The Trailer Loading Success Roadmap- all of which can be found at www.amaliadempsey.com/links or click link in bio.

๐Ÿ“š FREE RESOURCES- these are currently unavailable as I have switched to a new platform but they will be back up and running in time (including the Connection & Communication Mini-Course, Book List, 10 Rider Specific Exercises, Breakthrough emails etc.)

๐Ÿ‘• BIOMECHANICS BASELAYERS- I have a limited number of these tops available at a heavily discounted price as I wonโ€™t be restocking these again. Now is your last chance to get your hands on one if you want one! Just head to https://amalia-dempsey-horsemanship.myshopify.com/products/equestrian-biomechanics-baselayer or click link in bio.

๐Ÿด BITLESS BRIDLES- Canโ€™t find a beautiful, functional โ€˜side-pullโ€™ style bitless bridle? Neither could I - and thatโ€™s why I collaborated with Natural Horse World / Light Rider Bitless Bridles to make the ultimate bitless bridle! I absolutely love these bridles in every way and you can find out details and purchase yours here: https://naturalhorseworld.com/product/lightrider-amalia-bitless-bridle/ or click link in bio.

๐ŸŽง PODCAST- What youโ€™ve all been asking about!! Season 2 coming soon!!! I am releasing an episode in the next couple of days going over all the previous updates with additional ad lib thoughts and then starting a NEW season of interviews and insights! So stay tuned! (However, it wonโ€™t be a regular scheduleโ€ฆmore of an intermittent rate of reinforcement if you catch my drift!). Follow the pod on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Podbean, and/or YouTube - just search Horsemanship Breakthroughs ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ

โœจโœจโœจNEW & COMING SOON!โœจโœจโœจ

๐Ÿด๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿผโ€๐Ÿผ HORSE MUMS- A private FREE facebook group for mums and mums-to-be (of humans AND horses!) to connect and share their experiences. Letโ€™s face it, juggling horses and mum life can be a challenge but we donโ€™t need to do it alone- sometimes just knowing someone else is facing the same battles can be really comforting and you might even pick up some tips and tricks from other horse mums inside the group. If this interests you comment โ€œHorse Mumโ€ below and I will send you an email with a link to join when itโ€™s available (pending enough interest).

๐Ÿด๐Ÿ“š HORSE BOOK CLUB- An idea thatโ€™s been brewing for a while- inspired by my love of learningโ€ฆ.This will be a private (probably free) club hosted on facebook where we read and review one horse book per month. Iโ€™m thinking a bi-monthly get together over zoom and possibly exclusive interviews with authors of the books we are reading. If there is enough interest for this I will start it up- If this interests you comment โ€œHorse Book Clubโ€ below and I will send you an email with a link to join if/when itโ€™s available (pending enough interest).

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That's all from me for now! Keep your eyes peeled for a pod ep from me in the next few days on The Horsemanship Breakthroughs Podcast- it will have a bit more info and context than these posts have provided... plus there's been a lot of text so if you prefer to listen then I hope you'll enjoy the pod. I'll catch you then!

Amalia ๐Ÿด๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ˜Š

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐ข๐ฏ๐ž: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌHorse time during pregnancy looks a little different to normal.During...
09/02/2025

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐ข๐ฏ๐ž: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ

Horse time during pregnancy looks a little different to normal.

During my first pregnancy, I rode up until 24 weeks. I really didnโ€™t want to stop but ultimately made the decision for safety reasons. It dawned on me one day that I was putting a helmet on my head, but my belly was exposedโ€ฆ

This pregnancy I had in my mind that I wasnโ€™t going to ride at all. However, very early on, I did have a couple of rides.. but I was so unwell and fatigued during the first trimester that I mostly only had enough energy to feed the horses, let alone get horse time in. By the time the second trimester came around, I had already a big bump and decided that riding just wasnโ€™t the priority, and wasnโ€™t worth the risk. Plus, with what I do with my horses, riding doesnโ€™t need to be the big focus anyway. But gosh, I do miss it! I am doing home exercises to help with my postpartum recovery and return to riding process. At the moment, I feel that Iโ€™m in the second trimester โ€˜sweet spotโ€™, where I have a bit of energy and am moving around ok, so I am trying to make the most of it!

Horse time usually looks like me getting all 3 horses up around the arena (actually, I open the gate and they lead themselves up- thanks to positive reinforcement), and one by one I play with each of them. I usually have a list of things Iโ€™m playing with- at the moment - target stretches, lateral work, some of their favourite tricks, and some fitness based things (like transitions and poles/cavalettis) to help counteract the lack of exercise. Even though they live on hills and a semi-track system they still look healthier when they are regularly ridden. I also usually have different obstacles set up with specific tasks in mind and usually build on that task for a few sessions before moving onto something new. My plan is always flexible, and I often adapt/change my plan depending on how the horse feels and how the session pans out.

I am now just starting to get out and about with a recent trip to the beach (see pics in the last post), and I hope to do a few walks in the forest before I become too large/uncomfortable to do more. Last pregnancy, I was at the beach with Beauty 2 days before I gave birth- but this time around I have definitely not felt as active/mobile/comfortable.

I am still exploring more R+ based work at liberty drawing inspiration and education from Nadine Lindblom's Academy. I really admire her ethos, knowledge, and ex*****on, and I especially love the playful nature she brings out in her horses- something I hope to unlock more with my own.

I also love Kelly de Geusโ€™ work and draw upon the pivo lessons I had with her during my last pregnancy! I think she is amazing and her work is world class!

And of course I still very much follow Karen Rohlf/Dressage Naturally and all that she had taught me over the years. Still pinching myself that I was able to have a private lesson with her on my own property! And host an epic clinic with her in 2023! An experience I will cherish forever!

๐Ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ /๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ง:

HOOVES- In the past 6 months I have moved my horses from a 6+ week trim cycle to a 3-4 week cycle and have noticed a huge difference in their hoof balance and overall comfort. I have also had Beauty in Flex Boots for groundwork/riding for some time and she seems to be a lot happier in them.

NUTRITION- I have switched my horses to a different vitamin/mineral supplement and have noticed a difference in their hoof health too. Although, the horses donโ€™t find it overly palatable and Iโ€™ve been considering trying other brands.

SADDLES- I was a cult wow saddle user until one day I decided to experiment with other saddlesโ€ฆwhich turned out to be a very costly and frustrating exercise, and I have since happily returned back to Wow saddles and my horses are a lot happier, as am I! I hope that I can one day interview the creator of Wow saddles, David Kempsell on the podcast!

BITLESS- I have made the decision to retire Harriet from wearing bits, at least for now. She just kept telling me she wasnโ€™t 100% comfortable in them, even though I had found one that seemed okโ€ฆshe has just always been happier bitless. And I am absolutely loving using the beautiful Amalia Bitless Bridle that I designed in conjunction with Natural Horse World / LightRider!

EMBRACING my own style of horsemanship- for so long Iโ€™ve been comparing what I do with how others do it and feeling like Iโ€™m just not good enough. Whilst itโ€™s healthy to reflect and grow, Iโ€™ve finally reached a point where I feel comfortable in my decision making process and my reasons behind what I do- even though itโ€™s not perfect. Every person and every horse are unique individuals and I am happy just doing things my way, even though thereโ€™s room to grow, and even though people I respect and admire do things differently.

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐š๐ง๐ฌ/๐ ๐จ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ฆ:

I plan to gradually return to riding in a safe and healthy way- thereโ€™s no rush and I am careful to prioritise healing and my family in those early weeks/months. I will follow a graduated exercise program to return to riding ensuring I have built up enough core, pelvic floor, and postural strength that riding requires.

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ฆ ๐ ๐จ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ:

Iโ€™d still love to ride Grand Prix bridleless one day but itโ€™s not a pressing/urgent goal of mine anymore. I honestly enjoy the process of working towards it. Itโ€™s nice to have a vision, without the pressure of a deadline. I may not ever get there but I really enjoy the work- and it makes me happy seeing my horses have lightbulb moments, engage in the training, and really put in effort willingly and happily.

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Now, more than ever, I appreciate time with my horses. After all these years I still am in awe of their beauty, strength, and gentleness and am so grateful to have them in my life.

In the next update, I will share more about what Iโ€™m doing now with my horse business, and what you can expect on this page going forwards.

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ: ๐’๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž!โ€ฆbut wait, thereโ€™s moreโ€ฆthan 1! TWIN GIRLS DUE THIS WINTER! ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท___We are incredibly excited fo...
04/02/2025

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ: ๐’๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž!

โ€ฆbut wait, thereโ€™s moreโ€ฆthan 1!

TWIN GIRLS DUE THIS WINTER! ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท

___

We are incredibly excited for these 2 extra additions to our family! ๐Ÿฅฐ

Before becoming a mum, I vowed that it wouldnโ€™t change my life with horsesโ€ฆ

But the truth is, motherhood inevitably changes your life in lots of waysโ€ฆ many ways for the better! But there have been some necessary adjustments in the way I manage my horses and have horse time.

It would be reasonable to think that I stopped sharing as much on here because I became a mum, but it was mainly the horse welfare issues (see previous updates) that inhibited me from sharing. In the meantime, I have still been active with my horses (just because you donโ€™t see it on here, doesnโ€™t mean Iโ€™m not out there!)

However, I donโ€™t spend AS much time with them as I used toโ€ฆand I certainly appreciate my time with them a whole lot moreโ€ฆ I couldnโ€™t do it without the help of my husband and mum!

The postpartum recovery, journey back to riding, balancing life, horses, and motherhoodโ€ฆ.can be challenging. I donโ€™t think the changes that come with matrescence and how it specifically affects horsewomen are talked about enough. While I tend to keep my personal life fairly private, I do plan on sharing a bit about this journey.

In the next update, I will share what Iโ€™m doing with my horses now while Iโ€™m pregnant and my plans/goals for the future. Let me know if you have any questions!

๐Ÿ“ธ Photos by: and

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐“๐ก๐ซ๐ž๐ž: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ (๐ข๐ง ๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ซ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‘- ๐š๐ง๐ ๐‘+)*Read Parts 1 and 2 First*To be h...
01/02/2025

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐“๐ก๐ซ๐ž๐ž: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ (๐ข๐ง ๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ซ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‘- ๐š๐ง๐ ๐‘+)

*Read Parts 1 and 2 First*

To be honest, Iโ€™m stilll a little lost as to exactly where I stand on the whole R+, R- or combined ethical discussion/debate.

I absolutely see how R+ can be such a powerful tool in training horses, particularly to improve their willingness to engage and participate.

However, I also see the potential downsides of using R+, and understand that it must be used carefully with skill and tact.

I can also see the pros and cons for R- and combined.

There doesn't seem to be a perfect wayโ€ฆ*sigh*

And if social media has taught me anything itโ€™s that we canโ€™t all agree on everything!

At some point you have to decide what is best for you and your horses, and your situation, and keep going.

So this is what I have decided my training will be like moving forwardsโ€ฆ*subject to change, of course, as I continue to learn more.

I mostly use combined reinforcement for groundwork and riding (aka โ€œpressure/release with a cherry on topโ€).

๐‡๐ž๐ซ๐žโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ ๐ฆ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž โ€˜๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐žโ€™ ๐‘+ ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก & ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ˆ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž โ€˜๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐žโ€™ - ๐ฐ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ง ๐ข๐ง ๐ง๐จ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐š๐ซ ๐จ๐ซ๐๐ž๐ซ-(this might be interesting for pure R+ trainers/advocates to see what objections there are)

โ€ข Many of the people I am inspired by seem to use R- exclusively, or combinedโ€ฆpretty much none of them use R+ ONLY, even if it is a big part of their training. I was trying to find more examples/inspiration of high-level โ€˜pureโ€™ R+ trainers but struggled to find what I was looking for- let me know if you can find any examples (eg. High level dressage, jumping when ridden)

โ€ข This point is kind of vain..but I like my rope halters! I think they look nice! They are really light and the horses donโ€™t seem to mind wearing them (a purist would not use a rope halter)- although I have seen โ€˜knotlessโ€™ rope halters Iโ€™d be willing to try.

โ€ข I want my horses to be able to cope in the โ€˜real worldโ€™- the mainstream equestrian world. I want my trimmer to be able to handle them with ease, to handle vet procedures with ease, and I want the vet student to be able to lead my horse safely if need be. Donโ€™t get me wrong- these behaviours can definitely be trained with R+ and then transferred to tacticle cues but the the majority of the horse world still use R- and I want my horses to know how to successfully navigate pressure when they inevitably face it. (But I will do my best to train cooperative care behaviours with R+ in preparation)

โ€ข As mentioned in my previous update, I think that the use of mild pressure can become counter-conditioned when combined with food rewards, such that the mild pressure becomes guidance to unlock the reward. Because of this, I donโ€™t feel that the use of pressure in this context is cruel

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