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Amalia Dempsey Horsemanship I help riders achieve connection, confidence, & communication with their horses ๐Ÿฉท

THE POD IS BACK! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰ New episode available NOW!๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ: ๐‘๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐š ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ž, ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ...
11/02/2025

THE POD IS BACK! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰ New episode available NOW!

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ: ๐‘๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐š ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ž, ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐š๐ง๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ, ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ง๐ž๐ฑ๐ญ ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‡๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ค๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐๐œ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ.

Life has been full of big changes for me lately, and in this episode, Iโ€™m catching you up on everything!

Iโ€™ll be sharing how my approach to horsemanship is evolving, unpacking my thoughts on using food rewards, pressure, and the ethical considerations that come with training horses.

I canโ€™t wait to share my breakthroughs with you!

What I talk about in this episode:
๐Ÿด My ongoing quest for a better way with horses
๐Ÿด My deep dive into positive reinforcement - breakthroughs and learnings:
-the setup
-the marker signal
-small approximations
-undoing things
-education
-feel
-emotions
-mindset shifts
-the power of R+
-plateaus and pain
-the restriction
-the moral high ground
๐Ÿด What has stopped me from taking a more โ€˜pureโ€™ R+ approach & why I still use โ€˜pressureโ€™
๐Ÿด How Iโ€™m tweaking my use of R+ after this most recent deep dive
๐Ÿด Surprise Personal Announcement
๐Ÿด What I'm doing now with my horses & horse business
๐Ÿด Other things Iโ€™m studying/interested in
๐Ÿด Motherhood & horses
๐Ÿด PLUS! 2 new and exciting opportunities to connect and learn with like-minded horse people

I hope you enjoy the show!

Amalia ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿด

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube. Links to each can be found here: https://www.amaliadempsey.com/horsemanship-breakthroughs

Ps. PLEASE let me know if you have a listen! What makes my day is when I actually hear from you and what you got out of the pod! Just comment on social media or send me a message!

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐’๐ข๐ฑ: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ง๐ž๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž ๐›๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ (๐œ๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐ฌ๐จ๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ž๐๐ข๐š, ๐ฉ๐จ๐๐œ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ, ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ž๐ญ๐œ.)๐Ÿฅœ In a nuts...
11/02/2025

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐’๐ข๐ฑ: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ง๐ž๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž ๐›๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ (๐œ๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐ฌ๐จ๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ž๐๐ข๐š, ๐ฉ๐จ๐๐œ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ, ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ž๐ญ๐œ.)

๐Ÿฅœ In a nutshell, I want to get back to a place of sharing (on social media and the podcast) as a student of the horse. Under the title of a professional, I put an immense amount of pressure on myself to know it allโ€ฆ but truth is, I still have so much to learn. What I love the most IS learning.. and sharing my journey and breakthroughs.

๐Ÿค“ COACHING-I am not teaching in person or online currently and for the foreseeable future (as I am focussing on my family and processing all my recent learnings) so the only way to learn from me is through my existing online programs should you be interested- all of which remain available to purchase online should they interest you including The 8 Week Rider Specific Exercise Program, Horsemanship Fundamentals Academy, and The Trailer Loading Success Roadmap- all of which can be found at www.amaliadempsey.com/links or click link in bio.

๐Ÿ“š FREE RESOURCES- these are currently unavailable as I have switched to a new platform but they will be back up and running in time (including the Connection & Communication Mini-Course, Book List, 10 Rider Specific Exercises, Breakthrough emails etc.)

๐Ÿ‘• BIOMECHANICS BASELAYERS- I have a limited number of these tops available at a heavily discounted price as I wonโ€™t be restocking these again. Now is your last chance to get your hands on one if you want one! Just head to https://amalia-dempsey-horsemanship.myshopify.com/products/equestrian-biomechanics-baselayer or click link in bio.

๐Ÿด BITLESS BRIDLES- Canโ€™t find a beautiful, functional โ€˜side-pullโ€™ style bitless bridle? Neither could I - and thatโ€™s why I collaborated with Natural Horse World / Light Rider Bitless Bridles to make the ultimate bitless bridle! I absolutely love these bridles in every way and you can find out details and purchase yours here: https://naturalhorseworld.com/product/lightrider-amalia-bitless-bridle/ or click link in bio.

๐ŸŽง PODCAST- What youโ€™ve all been asking about!! Season 2 coming soon!!! I am releasing an episode in the next couple of days going over all the previous updates with additional ad lib thoughts and then starting a NEW season of interviews and insights! So stay tuned! (However, it wonโ€™t be a regular scheduleโ€ฆmore of an intermittent rate of reinforcement if you catch my drift!). Follow the pod on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Podbean, and/or YouTube - just search Horsemanship Breakthroughs ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ

โœจโœจโœจNEW & COMING SOON!โœจโœจโœจ

๐Ÿด๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿผโ€๐Ÿผ HORSE MUMS- A private FREE facebook group for mums and mums-to-be (of humans AND horses!) to connect and share their experiences. Letโ€™s face it, juggling horses and mum life can be a challenge but we donโ€™t need to do it alone- sometimes just knowing someone else is facing the same battles can be really comforting and you might even pick up some tips and tricks from other horse mums inside the group. If this interests you comment โ€œHorse Mumโ€ below and I will send you an email with a link to join when itโ€™s available (pending enough interest).

๐Ÿด๐Ÿ“š HORSE BOOK CLUB- An idea thatโ€™s been brewing for a while- inspired by my love of learningโ€ฆ.This will be a private (probably free) club hosted on facebook where we read and review one horse book per month. Iโ€™m thinking a bi-monthly get together over zoom and possibly exclusive interviews with authors of the books we are reading. If there is enough interest for this I will start it up- If this interests you comment โ€œHorse Book Clubโ€ below and I will send you an email with a link to join if/when itโ€™s available (pending enough interest).

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That's all from me for now! Keep your eyes peeled for a pod ep from me in the next few days on The Horsemanship Breakthroughs Podcast- it will have a bit more info and context than these posts have provided... plus there's been a lot of text so if you prefer to listen then I hope you'll enjoy the pod. I'll catch you then!

Amalia ๐Ÿด๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ˜Š

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐ข๐ฏ๐ž: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌHorse time during pregnancy looks a little different to normal.During...
09/02/2025

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐ข๐ฏ๐ž: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ

Horse time during pregnancy looks a little different to normal.

During my first pregnancy, I rode up until 24 weeks. I really didnโ€™t want to stop but ultimately made the decision for safety reasons. It dawned on me one day that I was putting a helmet on my head, but my belly was exposedโ€ฆ

This pregnancy I had in my mind that I wasnโ€™t going to ride at all. However, very early on, I did have a couple of rides.. but I was so unwell and fatigued during the first trimester that I mostly only had enough energy to feed the horses, let alone get horse time in. By the time the second trimester came around, I had already a big bump and decided that riding just wasnโ€™t the priority, and wasnโ€™t worth the risk. Plus, with what I do with my horses, riding doesnโ€™t need to be the big focus anyway. But gosh, I do miss it! I am doing home exercises to help with my postpartum recovery and return to riding process. At the moment, I feel that Iโ€™m in the second trimester โ€˜sweet spotโ€™, where I have a bit of energy and am moving around ok, so I am trying to make the most of it!

Horse time usually looks like me getting all 3 horses up around the arena (actually, I open the gate and they lead themselves up- thanks to positive reinforcement), and one by one I play with each of them. I usually have a list of things Iโ€™m playing with- at the moment - target stretches, lateral work, some of their favourite tricks, and some fitness based things (like transitions and poles/cavalettis) to help counteract the lack of exercise. Even though they live on hills and a semi-track system they still look healthier when they are regularly ridden. I also usually have different obstacles set up with specific tasks in mind and usually build on that task for a few sessions before moving onto something new. My plan is always flexible, and I often adapt/change my plan depending on how the horse feels and how the session pans out.

I am now just starting to get out and about with a recent trip to the beach (see pics in the last post), and I hope to do a few walks in the forest before I become too large/uncomfortable to do more. Last pregnancy, I was at the beach with Beauty 2 days before I gave birth- but this time around I have definitely not felt as active/mobile/comfortable.

I am still exploring more R+ based work at liberty drawing inspiration and education from Nadine Lindblom's Academy. I really admire her ethos, knowledge, and ex*****on, and I especially love the playful nature she brings out in her horses- something I hope to unlock more with my own.

I also love Kelly de Geusโ€™ work and draw upon the pivo lessons I had with her during my last pregnancy! I think she is amazing and her work is world class!

And of course I still very much follow Karen Rohlf/Dressage Naturally and all that she had taught me over the years. Still pinching myself that I was able to have a private lesson with her on my own property! And host an epic clinic with her in 2023! An experience I will cherish forever!

๐Ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ /๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ง:

HOOVES- In the past 6 months I have moved my horses from a 6+ week trim cycle to a 3-4 week cycle and have noticed a huge difference in their hoof balance and overall comfort. I have also had Beauty in Flex Boots for groundwork/riding for some time and she seems to be a lot happier in them.

NUTRITION- I have switched my horses to a different vitamin/mineral supplement and have noticed a difference in their hoof health too. Although, the horses donโ€™t find it overly palatable and Iโ€™ve been considering trying other brands.

SADDLES- I was a cult wow saddle user until one day I decided to experiment with other saddlesโ€ฆwhich turned out to be a very costly and frustrating exercise, and I have since happily returned back to Wow saddles and my horses are a lot happier, as am I! I hope that I can one day interview the creator of Wow saddles, David Kempsell on the podcast!

BITLESS- I have made the decision to retire Harriet from wearing bits, at least for now. She just kept telling me she wasnโ€™t 100% comfortable in them, even though I had found one that seemed okโ€ฆshe has just always been happier bitless. And I am absolutely loving using the beautiful Amalia Bitless Bridle that I designed in conjunction with Natural Horse World / LightRider!

EMBRACING my own style of horsemanship- for so long Iโ€™ve been comparing what I do with how others do it and feeling like Iโ€™m just not good enough. Whilst itโ€™s healthy to reflect and grow, Iโ€™ve finally reached a point where I feel comfortable in my decision making process and my reasons behind what I do- even though itโ€™s not perfect. Every person and every horse are unique individuals and I am happy just doing things my way, even though thereโ€™s room to grow, and even though people I respect and admire do things differently.

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐š๐ง๐ฌ/๐ ๐จ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ฆ:

I plan to gradually return to riding in a safe and healthy way- thereโ€™s no rush and I am careful to prioritise healing and my family in those early weeks/months. I will follow a graduated exercise program to return to riding ensuring I have built up enough core, pelvic floor, and postural strength that riding requires.

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ฆ ๐ ๐จ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ:

Iโ€™d still love to ride Grand Prix bridleless one day but itโ€™s not a pressing/urgent goal of mine anymore. I honestly enjoy the process of working towards it. Itโ€™s nice to have a vision, without the pressure of a deadline. I may not ever get there but I really enjoy the work- and it makes me happy seeing my horses have lightbulb moments, engage in the training, and really put in effort willingly and happily.

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Now, more than ever, I appreciate time with my horses. After all these years I still am in awe of their beauty, strength, and gentleness and am so grateful to have them in my life.

In the next update, I will share more about what Iโ€™m doing now with my horse business, and what you can expect on this page going forwards.

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ: ๐’๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž!โ€ฆbut wait, thereโ€™s moreโ€ฆthan 1! TWIN GIRLS DUE THIS WINTER! ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท___We are incredibly excited fo...
04/02/2025

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ: ๐’๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž!

โ€ฆbut wait, thereโ€™s moreโ€ฆthan 1!

TWIN GIRLS DUE THIS WINTER! ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท

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We are incredibly excited for these 2 extra additions to our family! ๐Ÿฅฐ

Before becoming a mum, I vowed that it wouldnโ€™t change my life with horsesโ€ฆ

But the truth is, motherhood inevitably changes your life in lots of waysโ€ฆ many ways for the better! But there have been some necessary adjustments in the way I manage my horses and have horse time.

It would be reasonable to think that I stopped sharing as much on here because I became a mum, but it was mainly the horse welfare issues (see previous updates) that inhibited me from sharing. In the meantime, I have still been active with my horses (just because you donโ€™t see it on here, doesnโ€™t mean Iโ€™m not out there!)

However, I donโ€™t spend AS much time with them as I used toโ€ฆand I certainly appreciate my time with them a whole lot moreโ€ฆ I couldnโ€™t do it without the help of my husband and mum!

The postpartum recovery, journey back to riding, balancing life, horses, and motherhoodโ€ฆ.can be challenging. I donโ€™t think the changes that come with matrescence and how it specifically affects horsewomen are talked about enough. While I tend to keep my personal life fairly private, I do plan on sharing a bit about this journey.

In the next update, I will share what Iโ€™m doing with my horses now while Iโ€™m pregnant and my plans/goals for the future. Let me know if you have any questions!

๐Ÿ“ธ Photos by: and

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐“๐ก๐ซ๐ž๐ž: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ (๐ข๐ง ๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ซ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‘- ๐š๐ง๐ ๐‘+)*Read Parts 1 and 2 First*To be h...
01/02/2025

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐“๐ก๐ซ๐ž๐ž: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ (๐ข๐ง ๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ซ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‘- ๐š๐ง๐ ๐‘+)

*Read Parts 1 and 2 First*

To be honest, Iโ€™m stilll a little lost as to exactly where I stand on the whole R+, R- or combined ethical discussion/debate.

I absolutely see how R+ can be such a powerful tool in training horses, particularly to improve their willingness to engage and participate.

However, I also see the potential downsides of using R+, and understand that it must be used carefully with skill and tact.

I can also see the pros and cons for R- and combined.

There doesn't seem to be a perfect wayโ€ฆ*sigh*

And if social media has taught me anything itโ€™s that we canโ€™t all agree on everything!

At some point you have to decide what is best for you and your horses, and your situation, and keep going.

So this is what I have decided my training will be like moving forwardsโ€ฆ*subject to change, of course, as I continue to learn more.

I mostly use combined reinforcement for groundwork and riding (aka โ€œpressure/release with a cherry on topโ€).

๐‡๐ž๐ซ๐žโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ ๐ฆ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž โ€˜๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐žโ€™ ๐‘+ ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก & ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ˆ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž โ€˜๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐žโ€™ - ๐ฐ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ง ๐ข๐ง ๐ง๐จ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐š๐ซ ๐จ๐ซ๐๐ž๐ซ-(this might be interesting for pure R+ trainers/advocates to see what objections there are)

โ€ข Many of the people I am inspired by seem to use R- exclusively, or combinedโ€ฆpretty much none of them use R+ ONLY, even if it is a big part of their training. I was trying to find more examples/inspiration of high-level โ€˜pureโ€™ R+ trainers but struggled to find what I was looking for- let me know if you can find any examples (eg. High level dressage, jumping when ridden)

โ€ข This point is kind of vain..but I like my rope halters! I think they look nice! They are really light and the horses donโ€™t seem to mind wearing them (a purist would not use a rope halter)- although I have seen โ€˜knotlessโ€™ rope halters Iโ€™d be willing to try.

โ€ข I want my horses to be able to cope in the โ€˜real worldโ€™- the mainstream equestrian world. I want my trimmer to be able to handle them with ease, to handle vet procedures with ease, and I want the vet student to be able to lead my horse safely if need be. Donโ€™t get me wrong- these behaviours can definitely be trained with R+ and then transferred to tacticle cues but the the majority of the horse world still use R- and I want my horses to know how to successfully navigate pressure when they inevitably face it. (But I will do my best to train cooperative care behaviours with R+ in preparation)

โ€ข As mentioned in my previous update, I think that the use of mild pressure can become counter-conditioned when combined with food rewards, such that the mild pressure becomes guidance to unlock the reward. Because of this, I donโ€™t feel that the use of pressure in this context is cruel

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐“๐ฐ๐จ: ๐Œ๐ฒ ๐๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ - ๐›๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ค๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ*Read Part One First*In my ongoin...
29/01/2025

๐”๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐“๐ฐ๐จ: ๐Œ๐ฒ ๐๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ - ๐›๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ค๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ

*Read Part One First*

In my ongoing quest for a better way with horses, I often get myself in a spiral of questioning everything to the point where I think- is it ethical to even train horses at all? (regardless of what type of reinforcement is being used- since there are valid arguments for/against whatever path you choose)

Nonetheless, I hoped that by doing a โ€˜deep diveโ€™ into R+ I would find my โ€˜true northโ€™- something I was certain was the right and best way to do things with horses. Ahh..my need for things to be so black and white resurfacesโ€ฆif only it were that simple!

>>> For context, this isn't the first time Iโ€™ve used positive reinforcement. Iโ€™ve actually used it for a long time now, and have done some reading and exploration, but this most recent deep dive gave me some more insights that I would like to share.

In the upcoming podcast episode, I will include more detail and ad-lib discussion including what books I read, who/what I studied, and more thoughts around the points below.

In this post Iโ€™m sharing my key breakthroughs, learningsโ€ฆ(and re-learnings -as really none of the below were new concepts to meโ€ฆjust deeper layers to existing realisations).

In this post, I'm sharing my key breakthroughs and lessons which are mostly deeper layers of understanding on concepts I was already familiar with.

๐“๐‡๐„ ๐’๐„๐“ ๐”๐
The set up is very important (same as with R- right?). In particular, making sure the horse isn't hungry before/during training, has free access to hay/grass during the training, using appropriate food for the horse (usually low-value reinforcers to reduce/avoid tension/anxiety), environment set up, equipment set up, shaping plan etc. I had mostly followed this already but the main tweaks were adding chaff to my low-value pellets, adding more options for free choice hay in the training space, and consistently giving my horses lucerne hay prior to training sessions. I think overall, R+ trainers put much more thought into setting things up for success. They utilise the environment and equipment like mats, targets, โ€˜reverse round pensโ€™ etc. to train behaviours and put a lot more logical thought into shaping plans. Despite this creativity and planning, oftentimes I found myself thinking- gee this would just be so much easier if I could jusssst apply a bit of pressure here or there for guidance.

๐“๐‡๐„ ๐Œ๐€๐‘๐Š๐„๐‘ ๐’๐ˆ๐†๐๐€๐‹
I had resisted this for so longโ€ฆbecause using a physical clicker or even a tongue click felt so unnatural to me- so I thought it wasn't for me - but anything new feels unnatural at first, right? I had always used my tone of voice/voice markers but not always with conscious thought or consistency. The click provides a lot of clarity for the horse but it can also be very loaded- depending on how it is used, it can create a lot of excitement in the horse! One of my horses is completely fine with this and it doesn't seem to alter her emotional state too much. Another horse, gets extremely excited when she hears the click. Because I was diligent in my set up, it didn't manifest as mugging/biting etc. but I could tell she was trying to contain her excitement in a anxious way, and I prefer a bit more of a relaxed state during training.

๐’๐Œ๐€๐‹๐‹ ๐€๐๐๐‘๐Ž๐—๐ˆ๐Œ๐€๐“๐ˆ๐Ž๐๐’
I think in general R+ trainers are really detailed at breaking things down into smaller steps, and not skipping steps. I think I already did this quite well with R-/combined but needed refinement in some areas where my horses were not as clear on what I was asking. Where I was taking small steps, there were actually smaller steps to take to make the answer more clear for the horse. It was one of those moments where you think youโ€™re already doing somethingโ€ฆbut you realise you can do it with even more finesse and detail.

๐”๐๐ƒ๐Ž๐ˆ๐๐† ๐“๐‡๐ˆ๐๐†๐’
I realised that some of the behaviours I have trained- eg. float loading- the reward was just like a bonus or โ€˜cherry on topโ€™, but the main motivator was the aversive. I admitted that I wasnโ€™t really ready to completely undo a lot of behaviours that were already well established with mostly R-. Especially since they didn't appear to have any major concerns or worries about these things- although a pure R+ trainer may argue that they do in fact have that if they aren't willingly self-loading and standing - at liberty. However, I am happy to accept I am just not on that level yet, and itโ€™s perfectly ok and practical for me to have behaviours established with R-...especially for things like float loading that can be necessary in emergencies etc.

๐„๐ƒ๐”๐‚๐€๐“๐ˆ๐Ž๐
Iโ€™ve noticed that R+ trainers usually focus a lot more on the science of whatโ€™s happening and donโ€™t really romanticize or tell stories about it. A lot of R- trainers, probably most, donโ€™t seem to demonstrate an understanding of the science behind what theyโ€™re doing, so they lean on narratives about energy, intention, leadership, dominance, etc., to convince others (and maybe themselves) of why itโ€™s working. That said, I DO believe in energy and intention and how horses can feel and read our emotional states. But thatโ€™s not the full story when it comes to why a horse moves away from pressure. For example, โ€œjust increase the pressure until the horse gives you the response you wantโ€ sounds way less sexy than โ€œuse your energy, be clear in your intention, and release when the horse offers.โ€ Still, even in the second example, the horse might be responding to aversive pressure (or the threat of it), no matter how subtle it is.Obviously, this is super nuanced, and simplifying it doesnโ€™t really give the full picture. But from what Iโ€™ve noticed, R+ trainers donโ€™t seem to have a problem simplifying things in a clear, logical way without needing a big story to back it up.

๐…๐„๐„๐‹
This is a repeat lesson for me. Whenever I do at R+ deep dive, itโ€™s like I throw out the feel and everything else Iโ€™ve learnt with R-....and this can make training with R+ feel quitre mechanical and robotic. I think I do this also because I am thinking a lot more with R+, and it is harder to flow and use your feel when youโ€™re in your head. With R+ I can get really focussed on the behaviours alone. When I drop the invisible expectations of applying R+ perfectly and in a textbook fashion, itโ€™s like a fall back into my normal flow that the horses respond so well to. Itโ€™s hard to explain this, because itโ€™s a feeling- when youโ€™re so immersed in yourself and the horse in front of youโ€ฆyouโ€™re not thinking, youโ€™re just doing and itโ€™s where the magic happens (with R+ or R-, or combination of)...but I have experienced this state more with R-/combined than with R+ where I can become a bit too mechanical and behaviour-focussed.

๐„๐Œ๐Ž๐“๐ˆ๐Ž๐๐’
No matter what kind of operent conditioning underpins a trainerโ€™s method, I believe the horse's emotional well-being must be the top priority for the method to be considered ethical. Just because one uses R+ doesn't mean that the horses are necessarily feeling better about what theyโ€™re doing. Despite me following best practice guidlelines to a tee (full belly, low value rewards, free access to equivalent value hay/grass, high rate of reinforcement etc. etc.) I still noticed an increase in tension/anxiety around food with all my horses..I think because food is such a powerful motivator. Sometimes I will be in another environment where horses have never been exposed to R+ and you know what? They seem perfectly fineโ€ฆ no they arenโ€™t saying โ€œpick me, pick me!โ€ or spontaneously offering behaviours or increased effortโ€ฆ.but they know their job and they are relaxed and seem content. (Of course, there are environments where the horses are over the threshold, shut down etc. but I'm not talking about those). I think the emotions have the potential to get a lot more muddled with R+, because they can be more extremeโ€ฆwith the excitement of the rewardโ€ฆand the offence experienced when an expected reward is not delivered. Perhaps for some horses, the negative punishment experienced during R+ training when food is withheld, is more aversive than the use of pressure/release?

๐Œ๐ˆ๐๐ƒ๐’๐„๐“ ๐’๐‡๐ˆ๐…๐“๐’ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ
A lot of people comment on how the use of R+ changes their mindset because instead of correcting all the time, you are looking for moments to reward. However, I would say that good R- trainers are looking for moments to *release*โ€ฆrather than moments to correct - a subtle but important difference. I think a mindset shift occurs for the horseโ€ฆ especially those previously trained with R-โ€ฆwhen they realise you aren't going to use any pressure to motivateโ€ฆgradually things become optional, and they feel more prerogative in expressing their opinions and testing out their newfound freedom. For example, my horses left me quite a bit at liberty initially, and when I just let them, I think they were a bit surprised. Whilst initially, that hurt a bit..the horses were only staying with me to avoid pressure, I wasn't sure that them staying with me for the opportunity of a reward was great eitherโ€ฆ Not that before I would pressure them in a big way to return to meโ€ฆbut I certainly had a response. Whereas this time I mostly would just wait for them to choose to return, or invite them back with a cue and just wait. One horse would quickly return (probably for the opportunity to receive rewards) and the other seemed to enjoy all this newfound choiceโ€ฆperhaps finding the freedom more reinforcing than food rewardsโ€ฆor perhaps she really didn't like doing the things I asked her to do at libertyโ€ฆ

๐“๐‡๐„ ๐๐Ž๐–๐„๐‘ ๐Ž๐… ๐‘+
I think R+ is a really powerful way of training. Horses can learn quickly, and willingly offer those taught behaviours- something you don't often see with an exclusively R- taught horse- in fact quite the opposite- much of the time they want to put the very least amount of effort in to get the releaseโ€ฆBut especially with Beauty, I have found that once she knows the behaviour that โ€˜unlocksโ€™ the reward- itโ€™s like BINGO Iโ€™ve got this, and guess what, mumโ€ฆ. I can give you that x1000! This is both really exciting but can be dangerous. For example, when she understands itโ€™s sitting on the haunces I am looking forโ€ฆa school halt can easily turn into a rear! THIS POWER could easily be exploited- eg. I could ask her to do things sheโ€™s not physically ready for and she would probably do them for the reward. In saying that, there are things that she didn't necessarily want to doโ€ฆeven though I felt she knew the answer toโ€ฆand so it got me thinking perhaps there was something physical limiting herโ€ฆ which contradicts the point I just made.

๐๐‹๐€๐“๐„๐€๐”๐’ ๐€๐๐ƒ ๐๐€๐ˆ๐
R+ could potentially encourage a horse to do something which causes them pain- where the reward of food outweighs the pain to push it would take to push through- but I think this would depend on the horse. (Eg. I can happily push through pain for something I find rewarding- depending on the context). Much like humans, some are willing to push through pain and others not- I will also add here that pushing through pain does not necessarily mean a better or worse outcome for the injury/source of the pain- this is very much an individual thing- variable- of which I feel qualified to say with my experience treating humans through physiotherapy for 9 years. On the other handโ€ฆI also feel you can motivate a horse to do things that cause them pain with R-. Some horses would rather hide their injury, and push through the pain to avoid pressure or the threat of pressure. So both ways have the potential to exploit the horse despite their painโ€ฆ but I think in really serious physical injuries- you will inevitably hit plateaus or roadblocks in training with either type of reinforcement.

๐“๐‡๐„ ๐‘๐„๐’๐“๐‘๐ˆ๐‚๐“๐ˆ๐Ž๐
Despite all the great things I learnt, I admit that I felt restricted / inhibited when I couldn't use any kind of pressure. I felt like I was unable to speak my native language. Whilst it did get me thinking more creatively about the set-up, I began to โ€˜missโ€™ using pressure as a training tool- it does feel so natural to me now to use pressure- especially when the horse understands the pressure and you only have to use small suggestions- it can feel like a danceโ€ฆit doesn't feel cruel/abusiveโ€ฆit does feel like a flow of energy and intention at timesโ€ฆbut other times notโ€ฆespecially when using escalating R- in isolation to teach something new or with a horse who has learnt to push through pressure. When combined with positive reinforcement though (ie. combined reinforcement- and yes for the behaviour geeks I have read up on the drawbacks- poisoned cues etc.).... I feel that the stick, your body language, whatever your cue is that would traditionally be referred to as R-, kind of becomes counter-counditioned- almost like a clue to unlocking the reward. I feel that the horse doesn't see it as an aversive, but rather as a guide to their rewardโ€ฆ I have no scientific explanation of thisโ€ฆnor have I come across anyone that has described it in any text (if anything, apart from Dr. Andrew McLean- many behaviourists donโ€™t look fondly upon the use of combined reinforcement).

_____

So they are my main R+ deep dive breakthroughs/learnings/reflections for this round! I am sure I have missed things. This is such a nuanced and controversial topic.

A previous commenter said something along the lines of, "If the horse and human are relaxed and having fun, what does it matter?"โ€”a refreshingly simple perspective. I could adopt this mindset and try to ignore all my questions, but I know they would resurface. The only way to truly resolve them is to work through them, even if I ultimately reach the same conclusion. I canโ€™t skip the processโ€ฆI have to do the work!

I want to add now that I fully respect anyone that chooses to use R-, R+ exclusively, or in combinationโ€ฆ we are all unique and are on different unfolding paths and having explored different avenues, I have no judgement as to what you choose to do with your horse as long as how the horse feels is at the centre of your focus and either R+ or R- or a combination of is not used to itโ€™s extremes to exploit the horse.

๐ˆ๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ง๐ž๐ฑ๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐๐š๐ญ๐ž, ๐ˆ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ. ๐๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฅ๐ž๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐š๐ง๐ฒ ๐ช๐ฎ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ฑ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ!

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