01/08/2024
TRIBUTE TO TAMI RIFFEL
Amazing cat mom, volunteer, friend and family member
And remembering her beloved furkid, Bradley
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Deepest condolences to everyone who loved Tami and Bradley.
It's hard to know where to start. Eight years has gone by so fast and so much has happened, I can't even remember how Tami started volunteering for WLCA. Our first Messenger conversation was when Tami asked how to donate to WLCA. I probably hit her up for volunteering as a moderator then and there - and the rest is history.
Many of you, who had messaged in to tell us your cat was missing, or that you found a cat, or had some other situation, would have conversed with Tami on her usual days to volunteer. You would have found her kind, caring and helpful in every situation. You may remember something she told you, or how she helped you with search tips or that she provided info on where to get your cat spayed or neutered. Tami was always professional, quick-thinking and followed up on situations that were not straight-forward. She always contacted hundreds of people at the end of every year to ask if their missing cats had been found, and updated our files (as our other volunteers have also done every year).
Tami didn't just moderate for WLCA, she also fostered for us. She was a really great foster mom and an even better foster fail, lol! She took on Bradley, who was found in St Boniface in 2016, sick and dehydrated from being abandoned outside on his own. He had been taken from someone who put him on Kijiji and the person who picked him up was trying to sell him in Norwood for $5. When they discovered no one wanted an older cat, he was left outside to fend for himself. Thankfully, a community member noticed him and notified us. Because he looked unwell, WLCA took him on as a rescue and got him to WHS for immediate care. He had more concerns than WHS could take on and would have been unadoptable with everything that was going on with him. So, we got him to our vet who treated him, mainly for mycoplasma, and Bradley was on his way to recovery. Having had him for quite some time, Tami fell in love with him and kept him for a friend for her one cat, Tommy. Gentle Bradley became a snuggle cat for the other cats that were to come into Tami's life. Sadly, Bradley passed away the weekend prior to Tami's untimely passing. He was 17 or 18 years old and I was happy Tami had given him the life he so deserved for the eight years he was with her.
Tami was also a foster home for three kittens from Lorette. Charlie, Archie and Mimi were going to be part of a cat cull in the fall of 2016. WLCA went out to rescue 6 feral kittens. Three were Siamese and three were not. So, we split the group with Rescue Siamese, and they took on the wee Siamese kids, WLCA the non-Siamese. They adopted one of the kittens to a family, who later wanted a friend for their new kitten and that family wound up adopting Charlie, so brother and sister were together again and are still together to this day.
Tami had Archie and Mimi for several months as these little ones had upper respiratory and couldn't be spayed or neutered until they were over their colds. It took them some time and antibiotics, but they were finally both done. When it came time to adopt them out, we did our best, but without a venue to adopt cats and kittens out, it was very difficult finding them a home. A few months went by and then a few more and Tami wound up adopting them because they became family in that time and Tommy, and Bradley, loved them.
In 2019, along came Lucky. Tami and friend of hers had rescued a little tortie kitten with the intention of having her live with her friend and her little dog. It turned out Lucky hated dogs, so Tami, knowing Tommy, her eldest cat, was getting way up there in age, decided to add another furkid to her family. So then, there were five. Tommy passed away several years ago, and with Bradley's recent passing, the three youngest were left.
It's really hard for me to believe Tami isn't here anymore. I have our conversation about finding a temporary sitter for the three kids while her flooring was being redone in her home. I was having a really hard time finding anyone to cat-sit. She thought she might have a solution and was going to get back to me when she suddenly wound up in the hospital. The last thing she said to me was, "They're not in the way at all while the flooring is being done, so don't worry about it for now. Still in hospital." And I responded, "Sorry to hear you're still there. I hope they can get you better fast..."
And that was the last time I heard from her.
The next message was a family member letting me know she was gravely ill. And then she was gone. And I was stunned. How could this happen?
It didn't need to be said that WLCA was taking her kids. Both Archie and Mimi were WLCA rescues and we always take back our own, if at all possible. And I wasn't about to break the three up at this point just because Lucky wasn't a WLCA cat. So, I typed up an urgent plea to the WLCA Nation and several people responded with offers of help but there was one person who offered space with no time limit. And I am so thankful for that. That one act of kindness in a storm made me feel like I wouldn't fail Tami.
And now, I have to believe she's out there guiding my decisions - her, Bradley and Tommy.
The kids have settled into their foster home very quickly and are doing well. We are learning about them every day - likes, dislikes, quirks, funny things. Archie is the cuddly big brother who grooms the girls, like it or not. Mimi loves her window perch and Lucky is coming out of her shell. She was terrified when I went to get her - the house being renovated and her mom, missing. She has calmed down considerably and is starting to show her sweet nature.
All three kids will be looking for a new home. Would I like them to all go together to one home? Yes. But I know that's a tall order. In a perfect, and just world, none of this would have happened. I have to do my best for them. It will take some time to find out if they can be split up, but I won't do it if it's not right for them. Tami wants what's best for them and so do I.
If you knew Tami, if she helped you when you lost your cat or if she transported your cat to their spay or neuter appointment or if she helped you in some other way and you would like to help care for her kids until they find their new homes, you can etransfer [email protected].
Rest in peace, Tami and Bradley. I hope you have reunited with Tommy and the others out there. I'm watching for signs. Every day.