31/12/2023
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When do I cut my losses?
I hear that question quite often. So how do you know?
**Are you fighting training issues?
Are you having trouble because your horse is not properly trained? I preach quite a bit about having one truly broke, and many times, what I find is people are struggling because they are missing a solid piece of their horses training foundation. Itâs important to properly diagnose the problem and I add to that, your horses attitude. I will buy a horse any day of the week that is trying to understand what Iâm showing them.
There are quite a few instances though where I see horses that will cheat, grab the bridle, drop shoulders, etc.⊠and itâs not always the riders fault. I ask you as a rider to challenge yourself to think outside the box, and ask, can I fix this? If not, do I have the resources around me to help me fix this? (trainers, friends, etc.) Can I send my horse off for the amount of time needed to fix this? ( A realistic time⊠horses are not made in 30 days) Can I fund fixing the issue? (trainers, entering, exhibitions, etcâŠ) Do I even want to mess with it? Do I need to fix this horse to sell it? Or, is this horse even what Iâm looking for as my end goal? There is always someone who will gamble to fix an issue, think they can fix it, or is looking for the exact horse you have, so be optimistic.
**Are you fighting lameness issues?
I see quite a few struggling with intermittent lameness issues. I have been very fortunate with my horses and there is rarely a problem Dr. Lee of Double X Equine canât keep me going on. However, I do understand not everyone has access to top notch lameness vets. Often vets may not see the sheer numbers that one here in North Texas does (Sometimes 20+ performance horses a day), and it may cost more as you go on a fishing expedition to try and find the issue.
Going to a specialist DOES NOT cost more if they can find the issue the first time and you donât have to bring them back 5 more times. So here are your questions: Can I fix this? Do I have the vets in my area capable of fixing this? Do I have the funds to fix this? Do I have an actual diagnosis? Is it worth fixing? If its fixed/healed⊠will this horse come back 100%? What are my odds of that? What are my odds of the horse staying sound?
**Do you not âclickâ with your horse?
There is ALWAYS someone who will. I see all the time people who prefer one style or the other, but many often hang on to their horses for too long, either creating bad habits for both horse and rider, or being majorly frustrated lol. I prefer a certain style as well, however I am always up for a challenge to learn how to ride a new style and improve my skills as a rider. Horses are not cookie cutter types, they will always work the best the way they are meant to work, a rider should shape to the horses talent, a horse should not be made to fit a certain style of rider.
There have been a few I simply was not going to get with, personality clash, they jarred my teeth out of my head lol, I hated how they felt, whatever the issue, they found new homes lol.
Ask yourself: Can I get with this style? Will it challenge me to become a better rider? Can I find someone to help me? (Even Olympic riders have trainers!) Do I even like this horses style? Confidence is defined as knowing the worst your horse can do, and knowing if you can handle it. So can I handle the issues at hand? Am I comfortable learning? Do I have the time to invest? Do all my other horses ride a different style? Is learning to ride this particular horse going to create bad habits for me as a rider? Does the horse have that solid foundation we talked about above?
**Is your horse not fast enough?
Ok people, hereâs your reality check⊠sometimesâŠ. a horse is just not going to have the gas to get the job done! And that is 100% ok! There is a need for horses of all speeds. Ask yourself: Am I making a perfect run, no mistakes, this is as good as it gets, and my horse is still too far off? What are my goals? What type of shows do I want to compete in? Could my horse be competitive in that? Be realistic. If your horse hits the 1D at a local show because no one showed up, or youâre still 8/10ths off the arena record⊠donât let that â1D clockâ fill you with false hope. If youâre ready to upgrade, ask yourself, can I ride a 1D horse? (A true 1D horse is defined to me as being able to clock in top 10- 15 at a big show of over 500 entered or being able to consistently place in top 10 of bigger rodeos, futurities, etc., they are usually well over $50,000+ and MANY sell over $100,000) I have people call me all the time that think they want a 1D horse, but donât grasp what a 1D horse truly is. You can dang sure get a nice horse for $25-$30k, and youâll always here the story of the $10,000 horse that turned into the $100,000 horse, or the killer horse that won a bunch, there are outliers, but as a general rule, a true 1D horse isnât cheap and not everyone can ride them.
Ask yourself: am I riding to the best of my ability? Am I doing the horse justice? Can I get help? Sometimes the horse is fast enough, but the rider slows them down. Investigate both, narrow down the cause and decide how to proceed.
On a side note, I know everyone wants to do body treatments, breathing treatments, this blanket or these boots, and Iâm sure that they help in their own ways, but sometimes a horse is giving all heâs got and heâs still a second off. A winner will always find a way to win, they will always show up to participate, and when the odds are against them, they power through no matter what treatment or spa day was done, you can pull them out of the pasture and they will still try to win. These are those one or two in a lifetime horses, if you find one, hang on to them or let them pay off your mortgage! LOL
**Is your horse too fast?
I see people over mounted quite often as well. It tears down the confidence of the rider and creates bad habits for a horse whoâs really trying to work. Ask yourself: Can I get help? Am I willing to put in the time and dedication to improve? Do I even want to go this fast? (Seriously! Some donât) Those are tough questions when youâre riding a nice horse, but worth asking. Reevaluate your goals and create a plan. This goes back to âDo I click with my horse.â If youâre willing to put in the work and reach out for help, by all means, get to moving! If you get 1% better every day, in 100 days youâll be 100% better đ
**Are you having behavioral issues?
This is a tough one because what issues are âokâ and which ones are not? There are certain issues I simply do not deal with: run offâs, bad alley issues, random bucking, rearing, ducking, aggression, etc. and plenty I will deal with, quirkiness, some types of crazy, some types of hot, some that are a little froggy when you first get on⊠some that arenât great to just ride around, but run well, etc. If I am having behavior issues, I need to first rule out ALL PAIN. After that, I ask, Is the horse spoiled? Is he acting this way because he has a riders number? Is he used to getting away with it, can I fix this with some tuning?
Again, Confidence is defined as knowing the worst your horse can do, and knowing if you can handle it. So, does this issue scare you? Is it dangerous? (I donât deal with dangerous⊠they can go to a new area code as well lol) Do I have access to help? Sometimes itâs as simple as having someone tune your horse a week or two. Sometimes it could require months of training. If I canât fix the issue, what I promise you is there is someone out there who thinks they can!
**Is your horse inconsistent?
I ride a lot of inconsistent horses because I ride a lot of young horses (typically 3-6 yrs old is what I prefer) Ask yourself: Is this because my horse is green? Do I have the time needed to haul this out of them? Have I ruled out all pain issues? Am I doing the right things to build confidence in my horse? (Getting them to where they can work on their own more and depend on you as a rider less) Do I want to do this? You might laugh but youngsters and inconsistency is humblingâŠ.
Many days I am wishing I just had my fun, easy, consistent horse to ride. But in the end, my favorite part of training is seeing them come into themselves, itâs rewarding for me to see one go from nothing to winning, and then winning with someone else. I like tinkering with them too, itâs like working on a project car for me, I get a little bored when there is nothing to do. So, I often donât keep a finished horse a long time, because they tend to not like tinkering lol. That is my own personal preference and I am realistic about that when buying or selling them.
**How do I find someone that can help me?
There are SO MANY options out there when choosing a trainer! But, you cant just think about price. Its important to find someone that has the ability to give you the most bang for you buck, so what do you search for? You see these people at all the events, but how do you choose?
First, you need to find an instructor thatâs good with people, you donât have to like them lol, but you should feel you are learning and your riding improves every time. Some trainers are amazing with horses, but not with people. Some are great with people and not with horses. The rare commodity is one that is good with both.
When you see someone thatâs advertising for lessons and you see them winning or placing at the local jackpot, did they train that horse? Are they the piece that made that horse a winner? Have they won on multiple horses or trained horses that multiple riders have won on?
When someone asks me about my credentials, I am more than happy to share a dozen nice horses that are still being won and placed on today. You might see me on training horses at the jackpot doing god knows what lol, but Iâve had multiple winners with all levels of riders, and all ages, look for that in your trainer.
Looking to hit the road and start winning? Do they have other students that are winning? Are they good at getting that last few tenths of a second off a run?
If youâre looking to truly be competitive, lessons can really help you; remember to get that chip off your shoulder, EVEN OLYMIPIC LEVEL RIDERS HAVE TRAINERS. I personally have rode with MULTIPLE trainers that molded me into the horsewoman I am today. I might not agree with everyoneâs methods, but even if I learned that is something I am not going to do, I still learned.
Make sure that your trainer can get a horse really broke. Soft in the face, easy to move, willing, each horse definitely has their own personality and some are more difficult than others, but remember you need someone whoâs capable of dealing with YOUR horse, to help YOU succeed. I also believe a trainer should be able to ride your horse, sometimes they feel a lot different than they look.
Of course, price is a factor, but if youâre training with the $50 an hour trainer and it takes you 6 weeks to learn what you did in a couple hours with a $100 an hour trainer, are you saving money? I have clients come ALL THE TIME that feel so robbed because theyâve taken lessons for years and in one lesson with me they learned more than they did the whole time with another trainer. Please remember, that a professionally trained horse will always ride similar, there is a formal style of riding that is so important to learn. A good foundation can save you thousands!
It is also important to go with an experienced trainer because each rider has different capabilities and limits. You need a trainer that will push you, but not over do it or get you hurt. They need to be able to have foresight and keep you safe. I have some clients that are very timid and need me to be patient and slowly work through their issues. I also have clients that are extremely aggressive riders and are learning finesse. I personally coach some excellent jockeys that need help keeping horses working. I also see a lot of very popular trainers that if you asked them their credentials, wouldnât be able to give you any other than they are great at marketing! Everyone needs something different; can your trainer help you?
Learning the foundation might not be what you want to do, you might want to just run fast around the barrels, but the fundamentals are important! I get clients regularly that have been working barrels, but have no control of their horses bodies, canât lift shoulders, cant counter arc, canât catch leads, arenât sure of leg position. Their horses are over bridled because instead of their trainer taking them back to basics, teaching them to use their hands, they throw a bigger bit on. If you take the time to have a solid foundation, you and your horse will have so much more success! Sometimes slow is fast, and everyone has heard SMOOTH is fast.
Keep in mind when choosing a trainer, itâs not your job to worry about hurting someoneâs feelings, if a trainer isnât a good fit, itâs not a good fit. Move on. Iâve had kids that I just donât mesh with and others that Iâve been able to take to the winnerâs circle. We are all people, not all people get along, but as a trainer, itâs my job to act professionally and understand that youâre doing whatâs best for you and your family. Business is business.
If you are paying a trainer for their time, please remember that you hired them for their ability; they are good at what they do. You did your homework and you saw that they have clients that win, horses that win, please let them do their job. If you constantly undermine your trainer and do things differently, their program wonât work for you.
Lastly, if your goal is to go to shows, rodeos, youth rodeos, etc⊠A coach can be a huge asset; they can stop problems before they start. They can teach you how to keep a horse tuned⊠which keeps them winning, or jump on your horse and handle the tuning so that you can ride them easier. They can spot lameness, even slight lameness you wouldn't normally catch, and get a handle on problems so that they donât get worse. A winning team usually consists of a good trainer, a good shoer and a good vet.
**Last notes?
Be realistic. If you do decide to sell your horse, be realistic about a price. Iâve seen people turn down $500 off, only to keep the horse, feed and shoe him another 6 months and cost themselves double that. Sometimes you have to cut your losses and move on. If youâre frustrated, reach out for help, get multiple opinions. More than likely youâre going to like your new horse just as much, youâll find a good fit, even if it takes a few tries. If you need a little moral support, reach out to some friends. Iâve had a few horses that anyone I threw on them could ride perfectly but wasnât a great fit for me⊠new area code lol, there are too many nice ones to spend time on the wrong one! Someone will love your horse as well, will dedicate the time to fixing them, getting along with them etc... its not always a bad thing, even with some pretty rough horses. I've seen many go to the hands they needed to be in. Take your time and place a difficult horse and you'll be happy you did. This sport should be fun and we want everyone to be a good match and have a great time running!