26/06/2025
I watched a man this morning trying to recall his dog (the dog had come to see my dogs). He called the dog about 20 times. Eventually, the dog returned, but on doing so was chastised by the man. Within a minute or so the dog ran off again to another dog, and the cycle repeated.
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What's going on?
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The man repeats what clearly doesn't work for him. Where's the reinforcement for his behaviour? Perhaps it's social, negative reinforcement (he feels more comfortable calling the dog so people don't think he doesn't care). Perhaps it is that the dog eventually returns, so the man has learnt to be persistent. I'd consider that to be maladaptation.
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What's happening for the dog?
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He has to return to his person. They are his family and safety net. But when he returns, there's going to be some level of aversive 'punishment'. It may be mild, but it causes a conflict in the dog's brain. The dog has learned to return with caution and stay about 6 feet away from the man for a while.
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This is a pattern we see over and over, year after year. I've been seeing it since I was a child.
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In part, this is caused by our human arrogance (you must do as I say) and human social norms (we must obey authority figures).
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How might we teach a dog to stay away from us? By making staying away reinforcing, and making returning punishing. That's exactly what this man (and thousands of others) are doing daily, but expecting the opposite result.
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If you see behaviour you don't want, think about how you would train that behaviour - then stop doing it!