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Lynley Bolt - Balance & Awareness Discover the beauty of a soulful connection with your horse. Transform your horsemanship into an art form that resonates with your heart and soul.
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A journey of deepening your bond, enhancing your riding experience, and finding true communion together.

๐—•๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ is the foundation of any meaningful relationship, and it's no different with horses. It's about establish...
07/11/2024

๐—•๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ is the foundation of any meaningful relationship, and it's no different with horses. It's about establishing a bond built on High Regard, understanding, and communication.

๐—ข๐—ฏ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด your horse attentively allows you to tune into their needs, preferences, and emotions. By paying close attention to their body language, expressions, and reactions, you can better understand their individual personality and build a deeper connection.
However, ๐—ข๐—ฏ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ž๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚!

๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐˜† to building trust with horses. It's about having ๐—›๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ for their space and allowing them the time they need to feel comfortable and secure in your presence. Rushing the process can lead to setbacks and erode the trust you're trying to build.

It's important to understand that each horse has its own unique perspective and experiences. Therefore, it's crucial to acknowledge and regard them. Empathy plays a vital role in understanding their feelings and motivations, allowing you to build a relationship based on trust and mutual understanding.

By embracing these principles and approaching your relationship with your horse with patience, empathy, and keen observation, you can gradually build a strong and lasting bond built on Trust and High Regard.

๐—œ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜† ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†! Let's horse around together! ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜, ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜๐—ผ๐˜€ with us. Whe...
05/11/2024

๐—œ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜† ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†! Let's horse around together! ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜, ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜๐—ผ๐˜€ with us. Whether it's your horse making a funny face or a comical horse moment, we want to see it! Use and tag me for a chance to be featured on our page. Let's spread some horsey humour today! And ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜†๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น!!
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๐—œ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€! Let's Woof, Meow or...... around together! ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ, ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜, ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜๐—ผ๐˜€ wi...
03/11/2024

๐—œ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€! Let's Woof, Meow or...... around together! ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ, ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜, ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜๐—ผ๐˜€ with us. Whether it's your mate making a funny face or a cute moment, we want to see it! Use and tag me for a chance to be featured on our page. Let's spread some of our ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€' humour today!
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01/11/2024

๐—•๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ž๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฎ ๐—™๐—น๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—˜๐—พ๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ

Have you ever thought of horse training as climbing an ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ฝ๐˜†๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜‚๐—ฝ?
Regardless of how you visualise it, the ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒโ€”๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€โ€”๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ with your horse, whether on the ground or under saddle.

Today, as I observed my horses, particularly Allure who arrived quite unbalancedโ€”physically, mentally, emotionally, and spirituallyโ€”I was reminded of the ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€. Starting with ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ, ๐—ถ๐—ป-๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ, and even ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ, we tackle each challenge step by step. Allure's journey, from a state of imbalance to a flourishing equine, is a ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ, ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น.

We worked the square. By keeping turns gentle and straight paths short, Allure began to ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ. This ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—น๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ป๐—ถ๐—พ๐˜‚๐—ฒ, ๐˜†๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ-๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€. It's a tool that you, as a horse owner or trainer, can easily incorporate into your training regimen, empowering you to make a ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ in your horse's life.

Want to see this technique in action and discover more about its benefits?
Check out the full video and detailed discussion on our blog post! https://balanceandawareness.com/blog-280809/b/building-strong-foundations-the-key-to-a-flourishing-equine-relationship

Let's build a community of learning! ๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€? Your stories and techniques are valuable, and sharing them below will not only enrich our understanding but also inspire others in their equine training journey.

22/10/2024

๐—˜๐—พ๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜‚๐—ฝ, ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐˜€!

My upcoming clinics are designed to help you refine your connection with your horse from the ground and in the saddle.
Whether you're mastering groundwork, exploring the cavesson, or transitioning to the hackamore, thereโ€™s a clinic for you.

๐Ÿ’ฌ ๐—ช๐—ต๐˜† ๐—๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป?

๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€-๐—ข๐—ป ๐—š๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ: Personalised coaching to elevate your skills.
๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป: Techniques to strengthen your partnership with your horse.
๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†: Join a group of like-minded enthusiasts on the same journey.

Spaces are limited, and spots are filling up fast!

๐Ÿ‘‰ Ready to embark on this journey together? Sign up now and take the next step!

๐—–๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—–๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ

Well, that's a wrap! Equifest 2024 has come to a close, and Lucy and I would like to extend a massive thank you from the...
20/10/2024

Well, that's a wrap! Equifest 2024 has come to a close, and Lucy and I would like to extend a massive thank you from the bottom of our hearts to our superstar helpers, our herdโ€”honestly, we couldnโ€™t have done it without you!

A huge shoutout to all my supporters from across New Zealand, both from the North and South Islands. Your presence and energy made this event so special.

To everyone who came to my demos and visited my stall, it was such a pleasure connecting with you and meeting so many wonderful new people.

Your stories, questions, and insights were not just shared, but they were felt. They added depth and meaning to the event. Thank you for allowing me to be part of your journeyโ€”it's a privilege I deeply cherish!

Until next time!

19/10/2024

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—˜๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น, ๐—›๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ-๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜, ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜-๐—–๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ

The path of a Soulful Connected Rider isnโ€™t always easy, but the rewards are immeasurable.

Imagine a partnership where your horse feels heard, understood, and cherishedโ€”a relationship built on trust, high regard and love.

Committing to ethical, horse-first, heart-centred, and holistic horsemanship creates a bond with your horse that transcends the ordinary, becoming something truly magical.

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๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜‚๐—บ: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—๐—ผ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ปI'm going to share a little of my language and joy with you.๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜‚๐—บ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ...
18/10/2024

๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜‚๐—บ: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—๐—ผ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป

I'm going to share a little of my language and joy with you.

๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜‚๐—บ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜†. When my heart dances, little bursts of joy feel like shooting stars.
During lessons or clinics, I used to say I was having a little heart attack of joy, but that tended to scare people, so now I call it a Heartgasium.

These Heartgasiums often occur during what most people consider the small stuff, the little things that aren't of real value. But to me, "๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐˜€๐˜๐˜‚๐—ณ๐—ณ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ด ๐˜€๐˜๐˜‚๐—ณ๐—ณ." These momentsโ€”๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ณ๐˜๐—น๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ด๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒโ€”๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ.

These magical moments happen when we begin to truly see with our eyes, hands, and ears. ๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€, ๐—ฒ๐˜†๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—น๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น.

Being in the ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ is the most wonderful feeling.

This deep connection, this Heartganism, ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ. Itโ€™s in these small moments that the ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ, and itโ€™s these moments that fill my heart with ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜†.

Letโ€™s celebrate these Heartgasiums, and recognise the ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐˜† ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐˜€๐˜๐˜‚๐—ณ๐—ณ. Itโ€™s these moments that make our journey with our horses so special and so meaningful.

๐—™๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜†, ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ.

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ: ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณMany of my students express a desire to reconnect wit...
18/10/2024

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ: ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ

Many of my students express a desire to reconnect with their horses as they did when they were children or teenagers. However, they find that their confidence isn't as strong as it used to be. Interestingly, this dip in confidence often isn't due to an accident or frightening experience with their horse; instead, it's a mystery where or how this feeling emerged.

Life happens; our priorities shift as we have children, or we might face injuries or illnesses that prevent our bodies from functioning as they once did. Then there's the inner critic telling you that you're now useless, too old for riding, too busy, or that you should prioritise your children over your own interests. All these thoughts might make you feel that everyone else is enjoying life except you.

What we often don't realise is that our horses can sense all of these emotions. When you criticise yourself, your horse doesn't hear you directing these thoughts inwardlyโ€”they feel as if you are criticising them.

I remember a dear friend once stopping me as I was being harsh on myself and saying, "๐——๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜†!" This moment was a turning point for me, leading me to ponder:
๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐—œ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—บ๐˜†๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—œ'๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ?
๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐—œ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—บ?

How can we build our self-worth and confidence in a way that not only benefits us but also enhances our relationship and connection with our horses?

It's like building confidence with a new horse: we take the time it needs to develop the relationship, the language of two between us, and again, we take the time needed for both of us. We don't knock them for being worried in their new environment with their new people. We start on the ground, we take a new look at their life experiences, and we work to develop a caring relationship between us. We build the understanding slowly that we actually have their back, that we will look out for them come what may.

What if we t

17/10/2024

๐—œ๐˜ ๐—”๐—น๐—น ๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฅ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ

Being a Soulful Connected Rider is a commitment to continuous growth, learning, and connection.

Itโ€™s about embodying ethical practices, putting your horse first, and approaching every interaction with a heart-centred mindset.

When you take a holistic approach to horsemanship, you ensure that the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual needs of both you and your horse are met.

This journey is about more than just ridingโ€”itโ€™s about creating a partnership that feels effortless, harmonious, and profoundly fulfilling.

Read more about how these principles come together in the journey of a Soulful Connected Rider in our latest blog:

Movement is essential to the horse's safety, often with people; when the preverbal s** # is going down, we want to stop,...
17/10/2024

Movement is essential to the horse's safety, often with people; when the preverbal s** # is going down, we want to stop, stand still, gather our wits, or breathe again!!
When that same preverbal s** # is going down, our horse needs to move "ps. If they FREEZE, then you most likely are in the ..."
Practice forward - serpentines and circles with lots of rein changes so that when you need them, you have them.
I don't "Make" my horse face up or go near the "Holy S** #" thing; why would I want to make my horse do anything that is that frightening? That definitely doesn't build the FAITH in our relationship.
Also, I will get on the ground to be there for my horse, to help them out, as some horses need this a lot.

16/10/2024

๐—” ๐—›๐—ผ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—”๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ: ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ, ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜†, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฆ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜†

๐—”๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ is about more than just physical trainingโ€”itโ€™s about nurturing ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ: ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ, ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜†, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜.

A holistic approach considers your horseโ€™s emotional balance, mental stimulation, and spiritual well-being, ensuring that every aspect of their being is cared for.

As a Soulful Connected Rider, you recognise the importance of this balance, creating an environment where both you and your horse can thrive together in harmony.

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15/10/2024

๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜-๐—–๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ: ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—น

For those of us who ride with our hearts, the connection with our horse goes beyond the physical.
Itโ€™s about empathy, compassion, and a deep emotional friendship that enriches every moment spent together.

Heart-centred horsemanship transforms training sessions into sacred moments of connection, where love and high regard guide every touch and every cue.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜„๐—ต๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒโ€”๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ.

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