04/05/2026
"Much of the time, where animal behavior does not meet human expectations, at issue is our own human predisposition to assume that what is meaningful to our species, is the standard from which all things need to be measured. What we term “aggression” and “unacceptable elimination” can be straightforward transmissions of information or orchestrated persuasive sallies or responses in cat or dog societies but not necessarily welcome or understood in our homes. Such misunderstandings can be dangerous for the cat voiding stress related pheromones, asking for space with hissing or the dog using growling as a warning. Nuanced animal communications or actions taken as distance increasing behaviors meant to avoid further confrontation are often misinterpreted as adversarial to our way of thinking. Human propensity to mistakenly view such behaviors as “challenges” can deprive animals of the possibility of avoiding conflict and escalate aggression in their efforts to defend themselves. Angry retorts and advances in reply to the dog growling or the cat hissing is exactly not what the cat or dog is asking for when those signals or messages to stop forward motion were communicated. Crossed wires on both ends. None of this ends well; behavior issues, namely “aggression” and “unacceptable elimination,” are top reasons for surrender at animal shelters.
Our human manners of posturing and tacit conventions for conflict avoidance are unique to our species and idiosyncratic to individual cultures, but avoiding fight, keeps all animals safe to see another day. Nature may have given a necessary collective language to all living beings when it comes to alerting to possible danger. Take guttural growls and yowls, larger and rigid postures, rapid forward movements; all unmistakable threats and calls for retreats to safety and not necessarily a call to arms. Each and every species has a suite of ritualized display behaviors that signal the need or desire to increase or reduce distance. The universal idea seems to be that a good bluff is the best offense and the best defense. No one really wants to go there, injured animals are compromised in their efforts to hunt, forage, mate, find shelter or carry on very well the business of living. For humans along with the rest of the animal kingdom, deference and space is what keeps the kingdom a peaceable one. Behavior read or unread, sets the rules of engagement for all species. Apotreptic or epitreptic, in response to, or to influence another. Equally significant for humans and just as much, for cats and dogs. Still, what is significant to us as humans means one thing to us and another to dogs and cats.
Context can be everything for behavior matters. That basic bodily function, elimination, can be quick to be seen in Western cultures as carrying ulterior motives in placement, beyond a biological necessity. Intended signaling or communication around such deposits are thought to purposefully offend. Such thinking, with a necessary basis in sanitary concerns, can associate transgression to bodily functions relating to urine and f***s, as if cats and dogs have something insulting or angry to say when relieving themselves in our homes.
What is being communicated in such leavings for cats and dogs, is not of the sort we might imagine, it is the more useful kind. Certain components of odor and pheromones (“chemosignals”) we miss, carry untold data; who I am, what I ate, my availability to mate, what belongs to me, how stressed or not I am. So many more messages we have yet to uncover, and at times we cannot even picture, lacking the essential Vomeronasal or Jacobson’s organ, that cats, dogs and other animals but not humans have, to break down pheromone streams. This possibly adds new and untold meaning to the other reasons that might exist for the cat not using the litter box, aside from it being covered, overloaded and in need of cleaning. While history and learning can never be discounted in anything an animal does, agendas are mostly human concerns. Non-human animals are perhaps more immediate in their responses to environment." excerpted from "Behavior Matters for Cats and Dogs" by Frania Shelley-Grielen
Behavior Matters for Cats and Dogs