29/12/2024
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗛𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗼𝗳 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴: 𝗙𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗣𝗼𝗼𝗽 𝗣𝗶𝗰𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽
Horsemanship isn’t confined to riding, training sessions, or the moments when we’re tacked up and ready to work. It permeates every interaction we have with our horses—even down to how we pick up their p**p. For me, there’s no separation between husbandry and partnership; it’s all horsemanship.
We are always teaching our horses something, whether we realize it or not. Every time we step into their space—be it a stall, paddock, or field—we are communicating. The question is: are we aware of what we’re saying?
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝘂𝗯𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗪𝗲 𝗢𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗠𝗶𝘀𝘀
Horsemanship starts with how we enter their world. Do we pause to observe the pressures our presence creates, or do we charge in, oblivious? Are we attuned to their body language and the signals they offer the moment we cross that invisible threshold?
Take catching your horse as an example. Do you approach with intention, or do you march up, toss the rope over their neck, and snap on the halter? What if you waited and watched? What if you let the horse meet you halfway? Would that shift the dynamic?
For some horses, even walking toward them can feel like pressure—depending on their emotional, mental, or physical state. Do we recognize this? Or do we overlook the subtle flinch, the pinned ears, or the sidestep that reveals discomfort?
𝗖𝗮𝗹𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗹𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗖𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀
Have you ever noticed a horse licking and chewing, blinking more frequently, or looking away? These are calming signals—ways horses diffuse tension. Do you know how to spot them? And when they make a countermove, do you pause to reflect on what caused it? Or do you simply push past the moment?
There are a million micro-conversations that occur before we even put a halter on. Each one is an opportunity to listen and respond rather than dictate and demand.
𝗠𝘂𝗰𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀: 𝗔𝗻 𝗘𝘅𝗲𝗿𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀
Even the most mundane tasks—like picking manure—are moments of connection. Imagine this: you’re cleaning a stall, and your horse is standing nearby, quietly observing. As you step closer, they shift slightly. What do you do?
Do you pause, acknowledge their movement, and adjust? Or do you press forward, asking them to yield without consideration? Horsemanship means noticing—are they yielding calmly or reacting defensively? Are their ears pinned? Is their head tossed? Or do they quietly step aside? Each response tells a story, and your reaction to it teaches them whether or not they are heard.
These tiny interactions build trust—or erode it. It’s in these moments of stillness and observation that the foundation of partnership is laid.
𝗕𝗲𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗔𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗮: 𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝗲 𝗛𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗟𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀
Many people only think about horsemanship in the arena—during structured training sessions or while practicing specific skills. But what about the million small steps it takes to get there? Catching, grooming, picking feet, tacking up, and leading to the mounting block—all of it matters.
Why do so many people separate these daily tasks from horsemanship? The truth is, the quality of the relationship we build isn’t shaped by the big, showy moments; it’s forged in the quiet, overlooked ones.
𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗗𝗼 𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗗𝗼 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴
A wise friend often reminds me, "How you do one thing is how you do everything." And it’s true. Every interaction is an opportunity to communicate, connect, and build trust—or to miss the mark entirely.
So ask yourself—what kind of relationship do you want to cultivate? One rooted in mutual respect and understanding? Or one built on compliance and control?
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗜𝗻𝘃𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻
When we approach our horses with curiosity instead of assumption, attentiveness instead of agenda, and humility instead of dominance, we create the space for a deeper connection. It’s not about perfection but about presence.
The next time you step into your horse’s world, take a breath. Pay attention. Notice what they are saying, and respond with care. 𝘽𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 𝙞𝙨𝙣’𝙩 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙙𝙤—𝙞𝙩’𝙨 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚.