30/11/2025
⭐ Your Horse’s Memory: Not What You Think
Alright… if my last post got you thinking about how horses THINK, this one is about how they REMEMBER — and this part is HUGE.
Most of what we call misbehavior is actually memory.
Most of what we call emotion is actually memory.
Most of what we take personally has nothing to do with us at all....it's memory
Let me break it down…
Horses have several powerful memory pathways, and when you understand them, everything starts to click.
🧠 1. Associative Memory
The strongest system in the horse’s brain.
The “this goes with that” memory.
• This person = safety
• This place = scary
• This routine = work
• This sound = something’s coming
It’s not planning.
It’s pattern-linking.
🧠 2. Emotional Memory
This is the one that leaves the deepest marks.
The amygdala stamps memories with emotion.
Horses have a massive one.
So fear sticks.
Relief sticks.
Safety sticks.
Hurt sticks.
Comfort sticks.
A horse may stay wary in the same place they were once scared —
unless we help them build a new emotional memory.
🧠 3. Contextual Memory (Temple Grandin’s “detail thinking”)
This one is HUGE, and most people don’t talk about it.
Horses notice tiny details humans miss:
Shadows.
Jacket colors.
A cone moved a few feet.
Different footing.
The wind direction.
A smell that wasn’t there yesterday.
The energy in your body.
Animals think in pictures, and pictures change with details.
A horse doesn’t think:
“A tarp is a tarp.”
They think:
“This tarp… in THIS wind… on THIS ground… in THIS lighting… with THIS person…
is NOT the same one.”
Context matters.
Always.
🧠 4. Procedural Memory
The “how-to” memory stored deep in the cerebellum.
Once learned, it sticks:
• trailer loading
• obstacle navigation
• patterns
• cues
• body movements
This is why horses don’t forget how to do something you taught well....or not so well.
🧠 5. Spatial Memory
Horses carry a map in their brain.
They remember:
• where the gate is
• where they last felt afraid
• where they last felt safe
• where the food is
• where home is
Their internal GPS is incredible.
😬 “My Horse Is Getting Back At Me.” (Nope.)
If your last interaction involved:
• fear
• pain
• pressure
• confusion
their memory says:
“Last time this happened, I felt unsafe.”
That’s not revenge…
That’s survival.
🐴 A quick example from Slick
Slick has never been hit by me ...ever.
But if I touch his side too fast, he still flinches.
That reaction isn’t about me.
It’s about a memory his nervous system carries from long before I got him.
That’s memory in action.
💛 Why This Matters
When we understand associative, emotional, contextual, procedural, and spatial memory…
we stop taking things personally.
We stop writing human stories onto a horse brain.
And instead, we start asking:
“What does this horse remember?”
“What experience is driving this reaction?”
“What story lives in his nervous system?”
And then we can start building new memories that say…
“You are safe with me now.”
That’s where trust lives. 🧠🐴💛