
19/02/2023
We all, unfortunately, have probably experienced that one teacher who probably shouldn't have been in a classroom. You know the one. Always irritated, always frustrated, always quite boring and acting as though they were forced to be there teaching us. I know I didn't learn much from teachers like this. Because they weren't acting excited to be there, I had no reason to be excited either. I often did something else in this class - read a book, doodled, or if I was a student today, I would probably be sneaking texts from under my desk.
We learn so much better when we have a teacher in front of us who is super engaging, enjoys their job (of course all teachers have off days and that is ok! You as your dog's trainer will also have off days, and of course, those are perfectly normal and ok), and loves seeing their students learn. They are patient with students who are having a difficult time and are happy to assist when their students aren't understanding something. They make sure to tell their students when they are doing a good job and guide them when they are having challenges. Think of your favorite teacher, and try to be that person for your dog.
Be patient, be supportive, and most importantly, be someone your dog sees as the center of everything fun. Bring high-value rewards and praise your dog - trust me, your dog will benefit so much from being told when they are doing something right. Be the teacher who brings fun projects to do and changes things up. Mentor your dog with compassion and throw a party when they get a behavior right. Make your dog really motivated to be around you and work with you. Make sure you make it rewarding for yourself, too! Get in on the fun, be silly, laugh, make mistakes, and don't worry about either of you being perfect. Learning isn't about being perfect, it's about heading toward a goal and having the time of your life along the way.
I want to specify: it is ok to have off days. We do not always have to have wonderful training days. The pressure of expecting to train hard every day in itself is going to cause you to get stressed and make it hard to be the best teacher for your dog. And on your off days, take it easy. Don't work on something hard where you know you will get frustrated or upset. Work on something your dog does really well that makes you smile and makes their tail wag. Set your dog up to do individual tasks (like a snuffle mat or frozen Kong) in place of a long training session. Remember when teachers would play a movie and the day was literally just a fun day? Yeah, those are completely fine to do with your dog to take a break. You'll both enjoy the time off. Save the difficult tasks for days when you are rested and ready. And if either of you are struggling or not having a good time, stop training and do something fun instead. It is better to cut a training session short if it isn't going well than to push through and make it a bad experience. Your dog will remember the lessons in which he had a wonderful time, and will either forget or have bad associations with sessions that ended poorly. End on a good note and remember: have fun with your dog. That's why you have a dog, after all!