01/07/2025
I just saw a post about a feral foster dog who can't be touched, leashed, or go outside.
Y'all... we have GOT to do better.
This was not an account I follow, it just popped up on my feed, probably because I refer to Penny as a feral swamprat. Who and where doesn't matter, and absolutely no criticism to this individual who is probably just doing as told by a rescue.
But this is not okay. This dog has been in this foster home for 3 months and still can't be touched or leashed which means the dog has been eliminating on potty pads for 3 months, has been penned/crated for this long - though it seems can also be loose in the house and will play with some of the dogs in the home.
Now, I don't know if this is exaggeration to build sympathy, or if this is taking it slow to the extreme, but neither case is helping this dog.
I'm all about cooperative care, I'm all about taking it slow with a new dog, I know, y'all I KNOW how difficult and wily ex ferals can be, but this is not the way to get a dog ready to become a pet. And more importantly, while it's taking 3 months (or more) to get a leash on a dog, how many other dogs are waiting for foster placement?
Let's bring reasonable management and reasonable non-negotiables back into dog training. It's okay to make a dog uncomfortable in the short term for long-term benefits. The day I caught Penny, I used force, I scared her, she was very uncomfortable. It was all a massive stressor for her. And this was after several weeks of making good progress getting her to come to me. *Could* I have continued doing what I was doing and gotten her to come to me on her own eventually? Yes. Could she have been hit by a car, predated, or otherwise killed in the meantime? Also yes.
Of course you work on relationship first. Of course you avoid confrontations and minimize conflict, but some things are going to be "you have to's" and that's okay too. No need to be mean about it, it's very possible to be kind and insistent. Dogs are actually really good at that!
Just some musings on a hot summer day.