16/05/2024
Consider end of life options for your horse please.
It is going to happen at some point, as much as we would like, they do not live forever.
For us it is all part of what we do here, we are not just an agistment centre, we specialise in aged horses and accept the challenges this may bring and the crossing from life to death that happens.
Regardless of a horses age, they can be gone in an instant, when we least expect it, with no previous concerns or in many cases they can be stoic and just keep plodding on.
Much depends on the horse as to how much they ‘plod’ on, horses can and do get very depressed for many reasons, be it pain or underlying sickness that we may or may not be aware of or simple loneliness from being alone or in the wrong herd, being bullied by another horse, not quick enough on their feet to move out of the way – You can add quality of life by observing this, taking note. If its pain or sickness then a check up by a Vet is in order, if its environment then you can change this.
But at some point nothing you do can make their quality of life improve and decisions need to be made.
It’s a decision none of us wishes to think about I agree, it’s a process I go through every single week in regards to the horses that are my own – however as a responsible owner its something you must do – Their wellbeing is in our hands and therefore the quality of that life and death is ours and ours alone and must be faced.
I can assure you that facing this hard truth now, with a well thought out plan, is infinitely better than hiding away from it – for the horse and for you. The feelings of guilt that come with grief are compounded when something happens that is out of our control and we always think what if, maybe, perhaps, if I had done this etc etc. If you have thought it through, have a plan to work to, follow that plan then you don’t have the extra reproach that comes with all the emotions you are going to feel when that time actually does come.
Elderly horses do not have the same instincts or needs that a younger horse has, they like consistency, hate change, don’t like too much to be different, like the quieter things in life, they don’t cope with too much going on, they don’t need as much mental stimulation, they like to sit in their swing chair on the patio and doze, watch the world go by, couldn’t care about politics, or who did a fancy show in the paddock over yonder. They will very occasionally have a bit of a knees up and a glass of sherry but they also know they will suffer for it for a couple of days. Sometimes they don’t hear as well, or see as well, the legs don’t work as well as they did and it takes them longer to get out of bed in the morning and sometimes they get a bit stuck doing it – but it doesn’t mean they are not enjoying their life.
They have their companions, their feed suited to their needs, their coats to keep them warm in bad weather and they know they can sleep more if they feel like it.
When they don’t enjoy these simple things any more – they show it, they always do – and that’s where we come in, their owners, the last kindness we can offer them when all other avenues have been explored its time for us to do this one last act of compassion.
Let me explain the process, often fear comes out of not knowing what is going to happen.
The vet arrives and administers a sedative, just like any sedation, be it xrays, drenching, clipping. The vet then administers a large dose of anaesthetic, the horse becomes unconscious very quickly and collapses to the ground, sometimes quite slowly – please remember at this point its no different than if the horse was to be having surgery – the brain is switched off, asleep. In the next minute or 2 the horse ceases to breath, the heart slows and then the heart stops. For the horse any awareness or consciousness of what is happening went before his legs stopped keeping him upright.
So imagine this, you are there, you have copious amounts of carrots and apples and fave treats, you are gently rubbing his head, telling him how good he is, how special he is. You are his fave person, he has known you a long time, familiar and you are giving him all the lovely yummy treats…….. and then he goes to sleep….. !
It takes courage, huge amounts of courage but it is something you will come to understand was the very best you could do.
We don’t always have this opportunity, during emergencies for instance, and during these times let me assure you that the above is exactly what we do, they may not feel like having yummy treats but they are held, cuddled, rubbed, soothed, surrounded by people they know with pain relief on board and in the company of their buddies and we do our best to save our tears for after they have gone, but we are not always successful there either.
But even in this emergency situation a plan of action on the telephone with the owner will help with the inevitable grief and assist with healing.
Think about what happens after – do you want them cremated, have the ashes home to plant a tree with or scatter at their favourite place ? If so then I urge you to do a payment plan with Lawnswood or have a credit card specifically with a 2k limit. Nothing worse than having to try and find the money right there and then on top of a possible vet bill. Then its in your plan and one less thing to worry about. Do you want to keep some tail for bracelet or necklace.
Please give it some thought, think it through, as hard as it is- have the courage for their sake and for yours. Its awful I know but it is the right thing to do.