It's common to take a dog's behavior personally. We can't help ourselves sometimes, even when we know better. I've found this to be especially true for guardians of fearful dogs.
Recently, during a consultation with a long-standing client, she lamented that her fearful dog still didn't trust her after a year of dedicated, careful management, desensitization, counterconditioning, and meds. (Understandably sad and frustrating.) But their dog had made so much progress, so we talked about that.
Then I asked, "What if this *IS* what trust looks like for your dog?"
Our conversation brought a loving perspective shift. Incremental improvements in trust look different in a fearful dog than in a more confident one, and trust changes for all of us over time. If you’re working through life with a fearful dog, I hope you have the support you need. ❤️
Alt text: video clip of dogs sleeping on a bed. The text reads, "What if this is what trust looks like for your fearful dog?"
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CELEBRATION ALERT! 🎉After months of writing, drawing, and creating, the new Lizzy and The Good Dog People website is LIVE! Huge thanks to Olivia and her team at Bold August (formerly Let's Go Studio), who put their hearts into building the online space I wanted for you and your dogs. Olivia also helped fulfill a dream of a logo hand-drawn and lettered-- by me! (Tildy forever!)
Triumphant Teens and Recall for a Meatball got the *most gorgeous* refresh. Use code CELEBRATE to save 15% off these two beloved classes between now and Tuesday!
Thank you for celebrating with us and being part of our community! This is all for YOU! ❤
Recall for a Meatball registration is OPEN! Class starts again Wednesday, January 4, at 7 PM ET.
Recall (coming when called) is an essential life skill that can offer you and your dog greater freedom while exploring and being out in the world together!
Here's your link to sign up: https://bit.ly/RecallforaMeatballYAY
* This live, online class is a fit for dogs of all ages and breeds/breed mixes.
* You don't need any prior training experience!
* Each session runs for about an hour.
* We meet for five fun weeks via Zoom.
* Recordings of each session are available in our online class space if you need to miss a week or prefer a self-guided experience.
* Students and grads can access our private Facebook group for ongoing support.
* We won't train during our sessions, so you don't need to bring your dog to class. (Unless you want to! Dogs are always welcome!!)
#dog #dogsofinstagram #dogtraining #dogtrainer #recallforameatball #love #patience #treats #bingo
When in doubt, DOODLE A POODLE!
Recently, I learned how to draw poodles. They're a bunch of small, curled lines coming together in the shape of a recognizable dog. This reminded me of training plans and the value of steps in building a behavior. I have a post-it note on my desk that reads, "When in doubt, doodle a poodle," to remind me that, in all things, start simple, build incrementally, and have fun along the way! #trainwithaplan #dog #dogtrainer #worcesterma
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A $20 storage solution is my favorite! I use an over-the-door shoe organizer for my collars, harnesses, and leashes, too. I love that I can see everything!
#TP #Kong #Westpaw #Benebone #happiness
Learning new things is humbling. It can feel hard. And tender! So, whether you’re learning how to train your dog or draw your dog, remember to let it be fun, and loving. Step away when you need a break. Celebrate progress. And don’t forget to reinforce yourself for showing up. 🧡
This consent test moment between Alec and his puppy, Ramona, is a heart-burster! Dogs don't always want to be touched. Consent tests are an easy way to ask our dogs what they want.
First, always let the dog come to you. If a dog doesn't approach, that's good information! Don't reach for them if they approach but appear fearful, conflicted, or aggressive.
The consent test is simple:
Pet the dog once or twice.
Remove your hand.
If the dog moves closer enthusiastically and solicits more pets, the answer is "YES."
If the dog stands still, moves away, or shows nervous body language like lip licks, the answer is "NO."
Our friends at Dogkind LLC put together a fantastic post about consent tests, including a video. Here's a link! https://www.dogkindtraining.com/blog/does-your-dog-really-like-being-petted
Meds minimize the stress that thunderstorms cause Tuck and Idgie. Today, we waited out some big sky booms in our basement with white noise, calming music, plenty of treats and all the support they needed from me. (Even Finchy was scared!) You can’t reinforce fear, so go ahead and comfort your dog. ❤️
PS: Now is a good time to talk with your vet about getting meds on board for July 4.
#love #dog #kindness #patience #compassion
You're having a rough day/walk/training session with your dog? No problem. Stop. Take a deep breath. Begin again when you're ready.
To the trainers and guardians who are ready to cross over to positive reinforcement but feel stuck, you've got this.
** Several lifetimes ago, I owned a design studio called Pieces of a Girl. This truth was my best seller, no matter what I put it on.
Going at your dog's pace is the fastest way to reach a training goal.
A loving reminder to go at your dog's pace. (Apply liberally to learners of all species.) #dogtrainer #compassion #patience #love #training #forcefree
Recall For a Meatball starts again this Friday, January 7, at 7 PM ET! Train your dog to come when called using proven methods! Class is FUN, accessible, effective force-free training. Perfect for learners at every skill level, even trainers take the course! Our small group (ten people max) meets live via Zoom for five Fridays. Scheduling conflict? No problem! Each class is recorded and posted for you to watch when you can. Follow the link to sign up! https://bit.ly/RecallforaMeatballYAY
#dogs #dogtraining #PositiveReinforcement #virtualclasses #recal
Nail trims are essential healthcare, but they can be scary for many dogs! The key is always going at the dog's pace and letting them vote with their feet.
Tuck and Finch moved quickly from paw handling to filing and working with a nail board using our "high five" cue. Idgie is more fearful of paw handling, so we continue to work on that using food. In the meantime, I walk her on pavement and other rough surfaces (included the nail board!) whenever possible. Sometimes she opts in when she sees the nail file. Extra good paychecks happen during those sessions!
If nail trims are part of professional grooming appointments, confirm fear and force-free practices ahead of time. #fearfree #forcefreetraining #positivereinforcement #dogtraining #dogs #grooming #nails #scratchboard
Idgie learns “highfive”! This is one of several ways we’re working on increasing her comfort with having her paws touched. She is reinforced with food after each rep and can end the training game anytime by voting with her feet ( AKA walking away).
#forcefree #positivereinforcement #highfive #dogtrainer #dogtraining #reels #rescuedogsofinstagram #chihuahua #chihuahuasofinstagram
Registration for the final round of Recall For a Meatball of the season is now OPEN! Class starts at 7 PM ET ON 10/22. Link in bio. #recall #virtualclasses #forcefree #bingo #comingwhencalled #dogsthathike
I adore my clients! I'm grateful for every single one of you, for how well you advocate for your dogs, your commitment to training, enrichment, exercise, and management, and for how much fun my job is because of you. Congratulations to Chloe riding calmly in her new car seat after plenty of reps, treats, and patience to get there. Way to go, Esther and Max!!
#trainwithaplan #forcefreetraining #doodlesofinstagram #carseat #copilot #safetyfirst
I planned to break down this foam anyway, so why not let Tuck tear it to bits— his most favorite thing to do! #enrichment #carcassdissection #smiley #rescuedogsofinstagram #joy #recycling