14/02/2019
Assume the worst, until you know better...
Doing what I do, I’ve heard some incredibly unfortunate stories of owners making some serious mistakes, with serious consequences, with dogs that are new to them.
A few examples: Taking a newly adopted dog to the dog park, just hours after adopting them. (Resulting in a dog attack/fight.) Owners introducing a brand new dog to their existing dog(s), or friend’s/neighbor’s dogs straightaway. (Resulting in an attack/fight.) Owners (or their kids) interacting with a new dog in a very intimate, affectionate, pressure-filled fashion. (Resulting in a bite or attack.) Owners grabbing new dogs by their collar, or putting a new collar on, or physically moving/lifting a new dog into the car. (Resulting in a bite or attack.) Owners attempting to grab a food bowl, chew, or toy from a new dog that is engaged in the object/item. (Resulting in a bite or attack.)
With my dog Manny (featured in the picture above), he came into my life with a great report from the rescue person involved in pulling him. He was supposed to be solid, balanced, safe, and bomb-proof. But that didn’t change how I began our relationship. Manny came into my home where there were many dogs, lots of unfamiliar things and people, and he was totally unused to having any direction. He would growl from the crate every time someone walked by. (He was coming off of meds from his neutering surgery, which may have been the cause.) He also had, and still has, a peculiar staring problem. The kind dogs have just prior to a bite. It was terribly unnerving in a big dog like him. So even though the rescue report was great (and this person had done a great job in the past choosing solid dogs), I didn’t trust anything with Manny. I moved slowly, and I moved safely. I let him slowly earn my trust through an incremental, organic build. How was he with people (of all kinds and all situations)? How was he with dogs (of all kinds and all situations)? How was he with cats? How was he with kids? How was he with food, toys, affection? And what about that staring thing? With all of these, I moved slowly, carefully, and judiciously. And slowly I found out who he was. (The staring ended up just being a Manny peculiarity.) We had a few minor moments along the way, and we addressed them. What we found was he was indeed an amazingly solid, well-balanced, super tolerant, and safe dog...in every capacity. But it took a couple of years for me to trust at the highest levels.
When you work with troubled dogs regularly, it creates a keen sense of danger of the unknown, and unfamiliar. You not only see signs many don’t, you also see potentially dangerous situations in general, and if you’re smart, you navigate them, carefully.
My suggestion for anyone getting a new dog, is to indeed move slow. Remember that the dog is adjusting to all new factors, and factors that could cause stress and overwhelm, which could cause a negative reaction...now...but perhaps not in the future when the dog is more comfortable. Along with that, there might be issues that no matter how much time you take, your new dog could still be dangerous or unreliable in. Your job is to find out who your dog is, and what he/she is and isn’t capable of, and do this in as safe a fashion as possible.
As a professional that works in this world daily, assuming the worst until you know better is the best strategy I can share. It could save you, your dog, and others much heartache and grief.