28/08/2025
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Training reminder!
When teaching or asking your dog to sit, lay down or stay, think about WHY you are asking for this. Remember that the state of mind they are in is just as - if not more - important than the body action. Body and mind are linked!
In the same way you don't tell a kid to 'sit!' if they are interrupting or being silly, you would calmly but assertively ask them to wait or calm down.
Think about why and when you are going to use certain commands in your lifestyle.
Example
*asking for your dog to sit before you invite them inside
*asking them to lay down at your feet while you have a coffee or chat with a friend
*asking them to sit before attaching the collar or lead
*asking for a stay while you leave them in the car and go to pay for your fuel
*asking them to sit/stay while you accept a parcel at the door
*asking them to wait calmly while you get their food ready
Personally, I want my dog to be calm and patient in these scenarios, not hectic and needing constant instant gratification.
We want to focus on teaching co-operation and a good work ethic, rather than practising 'tricks' that last 3 seconds and result in your dog breaking the command the second they hear you exclaim 'good dog!' or get the treat and instantly go back to what they were doing beforehand. This high reward approach usually creates very educated dogs who know lots of words and commands but lack resilience and self regulation.
SO! When using commands:
*insist on a calm mind along with the body action. Wait until they relax and surrender
*be careful to not overdo your reward. If your dog gets excited or breaks when you use treats or use an enthusiastic voice, don't reward them that way! Save that stuff for when you are playing games and like them hyped up and switched on. A calm pat or thankyou in a normal voice is more than enough for most dogs in everyday scenarios. Just like kids, they don't need a lolly every time you ask them to do something
*get your dog used to doing these things all the time - randomly and without being the centre of attention or expecting an external reward
Start small and build up and in no time you'll have a dog who can follow commands patiently and calmly.
Please reach out if you need a foundation or refresher session 🙂